here is something I geuss I just want to bitch about.this is a swinger site.a site to meet people of like mindedness.find harmony amongst your peers.yeah !?!?!?then why in the hell does race play a factor in choosing a partner ( a cple) for sexual fun and or friendship.
Look if your not into mixed cples fine then you should put that on you profile......:h
Look if your not into mixed cples fine then you should put that on you profile......:h
Well, many have argued 'the heart wants what it wants' although it may not be politically correct. So be it.
As far as swinging goes, I really don't see why people would find a reason why not! But putting it in their profile, umm...
As far as swinging goes, I really don't see why people would find a reason why not! But putting it in their profile, umm...
why should we put into our profile we r not into mised couple for reason i will not say, but does not mean i let everyone now if we do not want u we will email u back saying no thank
why do people have to put everything in their profile and explain theirselves
come on
why do people have to put everything in their profile and explain theirselves
come on
Much the same as with any thing else in life , choosing who to play with boils down to person preferences.
We have a tag line as our person signature on here as well as few other sites..
Be broad of vision,
Not narrow of mind:
Lest ye lose,
Before ye find....
For some, this isnt an issue, for others... Its not my place to say, But given the abundence of groups and clubs and sites that are White women FOR Black Guys.. There must be people out there that are
WAIT FOR IT....
Open Minded
We have a tag line as our person signature on here as well as few other sites..
Be broad of vision,
Not narrow of mind:
Lest ye lose,
Before ye find....
For some, this isnt an issue, for others... Its not my place to say, But given the abundence of groups and clubs and sites that are White women FOR Black Guys.. There must be people out there that are
WAIT FOR IT....
Open Minded
Here we go again!
I don't think people should have sex with socks on, should I put that in my profile? There are always going to be people in life as well as the lifestyle that prefer or don't prefer certain things, sometimes we just have to learn to "deal" with it and move on.
Hey FLAPLAYA561 yep we agree here we go again and again and again. The race issue will most likely never die.
We agree as well... the race issue will never die, because race issues continue to exist. Our motto, "Love us, or leave us alone"!!!! If race is a problem, it's their problem, not ours. We've been black our whole lives... racism is not new (even though we're expected to 'get over it'), but we do appreciate those who do have profiles that list their "racial requirements" so we don't waste their time or ours. If they don't want to talk to you, they damn sure won't play with ya!
I think a preference should be listed if it is a definite preference. If the couple knows, for a fact, that they aren't open to a mixed couple or coulping, then they should say so. On the other hand, maybe it isn't so "black and white" (not meant to be a pun). I myself have been in mixed situations before, and my sister was the first interracial marriage in my family, so I would be less concerned with race. My better half, however, had a mixed group of friends, but doesn't include that in her comfort zone at this time. She could be persuaded in time, but I'm not going to put in our profile that we're "not interested in mixed couples", that seems kind of hurtful. Hell, just putting in your profile that you're "not interested in single males at this time" seems kind of rude.
The bottom line is that you should feel free to send an email, but be open to the fact that they might say no (as long as it is politely). The fact that our profile list me as bi-curious (male) means that I have to know that an email might be tactfully turned down.
Anyway, just my thoughts. Good hunting!
The bottom line is that you should feel free to send an email, but be open to the fact that they might say no (as long as it is politely). The fact that our profile list me as bi-curious (male) means that I have to know that an email might be tactfully turned down.
Anyway, just my thoughts. Good hunting!
Who we meet and play with, race is not an issue. How people present themsleves and chat with us! All have something they like (hair color or shaved or not) or don't like (smoking or maybe piercings (these are just examples only)) and if they are not interested they should say no thanks. Swinging is for fun and to enjoy who you are with, being with someone that makes fun is what people are looking for. So for each person it is different and even different different days! Hope all enjoy!
R & J
R & J
Yes you are right love4groupe. There is Racism in anything you do. But it is note just from the White couples. We have tried to get together with mixed couples (Black male , White female) only to be told later on that they only want Black male and white female. But we would love to have your wife join us. Same thing with Black couples. Can't have or won't have anything to do with white foke. I was raised racised!!! But as you can see from the picture attached. I've gotten over most of that as I have gotten older. I have found that I or we can have fun with anyone be them black, white, brown, pink or yellow. Remember life is a Bitch!!! sometimes you get lemons sometimes lemonaid. make the best of what you have and get and injoy the lifestyle and keep race out of it.
R&L
P.S. if you live closer to us we would play with you.
P.P.S I also see that you have been a member for about a month. I don't know how long you have been in the lifestyle. But don't join a lifestyle site and right out of the shoot you through out a race card.
R&L
P.S. if you live closer to us we would play with you.
P.P.S I also see that you have been a member for about a month. I don't know how long you have been in the lifestyle. But don't join a lifestyle site and right out of the shoot you through out a race card.
Yes sex is for enjoyment, no mather what color it is,but I would like to see more black women involved,they must like to have sex with a white male too.