I’ve had a couple times where the male made it quite clear he was straight but then as soon as his partner was asleep or left, he came onto me. I’ve come to realize I don’t mind this if all 3 participants agreed prior, but it felt sleazy (and I didn’t want it) when the guy would wait until she was gone or sleeping. It felt almost like the guy was more interested in me coming to play with him rather than them.
Any thoughts on this? Have you experienced it?
Any thoughts on this? Have you experienced it?
Since the subject got cut off, here it is: Straight guys being more interested in the other guy than his own partner?
We are looking for a bi couple or a bi male who loves to be pampered by a man and a woman. Bi bottom or bi versatile. Lol
AthleticEuropean: sent you a message! Intrigued to see how I may fit in to your play!
StraightTalk: yeah I could see that being pretty unsettling. Poor girlfriend, what a shitty way to find out your bf is curious
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StraightTalk: yeah I could see that being pretty unsettling. Poor girlfriend, what a shitty way to find out your bf is curious
.Not sure why the guys just could be honest with everyone involved. That's the best part about this world is you do get the opportunity to open up share and not be judged. But to blind side your other half or the person who was invited in not cool.
Best post of the week! Fresh subject matter. 🙌🏻
I have heard many stories. Most the time the couples I have interacted with talk about things like that first. Only once have I had a wtf moment.
We don’t think a lot of people understand there is a difference between mmf and mfm. They see them as the same. We found out the hard way no pun intended. We wanted an mfm but the other m wanted a mmf.
Agreed! Be honest about what you'd like and if everyone is fine with it, then try it!
Utahldscouple: I will confess to when I was just starting out, being one of those people. However, as you said, you learn quite quickly the difference between a MFM and a MMF.
Utahldscouple: I will confess to when I was just starting out, being one of those people. However, as you said, you learn quite quickly the difference between a MFM and a MMF.
We are still new to the LS could you please specify the difference between mfm mmf, I think I have an idea but want to know for sure.
My uneducated 
understanding is...mfm = the female is the primary focus, the "f"being in the middle.
mmf = the guy(s)... more the focus ~ ~ ~ I'm sure there are better definitions coming !
understanding is...mfm = the female is the primary focus, the "f"being in the middle.mmf = the guy(s)... more the focus ~ ~ ~ I'm sure there are better definitions coming !
That is kinda what I was thinking
AROUSINGTIMES wrote:
My uneducated
mmf = the guy(s)... more the focus ~ ~ ~ I'm sure there are better definitions coming !
Nailed It!!!
Yep! MMF means that there will likely be male on male contact in addition to male/female contact.
The MMF has a strong bisexual male component.
The only thing that ever happened to me was one time we were with a couple and his wife was riding me. He was watching. She pulled up too far and I came out at which point he grabbed me and put me back in his wife. 😳. Not used to male contact like that. I just ignored it and kept on going. Performed own DVP. That’s pretty much as close as you can get to another man without being bi. It was agreed on beforehand though. And then a wife saying seeing her husband suck me would be hot. For which I declined. I’m not sexually attracted to men at all. I think it’s hot watching the wife with another man or having us both together. But attention on her. I admire crafty, in shape, we’ll rounded gentleman that can rock the wife’s world but only from afar. I’ve never experienced what the OP has. I’m not sure how I’d react. Probably just be clear that I’m not interested but appreciate the compliment and interest. 😁
We had an interesting thing happen a few years ago at Hedo. We ended up back at our room with another couple one evening. As the clothes come off they let us know that they are a soft swap couple. No worries, we were fine with that. Everyone is having a great time, definitely a 4 way attraction, all is good. We're about 30 minutes into playtime and as our bodies started getting intertwined the other husband whispers in my ear, IS IT OKAY IF I CUP YOUR BALLS! Being that I am totally straight but can deal with some "incidental contact" I said no thanks! His wife started cracking up refering to him as her wild child. Although we had a great time with this couple, this was an experience we will never forget. I love telling this story to other lifestyle couples. Oh well, anything can happen at Hedo!
We have a couple we play with on and off. In one of first play times, I found him touching my leg and thigh a lot - I’m Not too worried about that & simply kept the party going. Later, I stood up with a great hard on & he started “oh that needs to be sucked on”. He kept going on about it & finally asked if he could suck me off. I declined & then he got his wife to eat me off. Immediately after I came, he asked if he could lick my cum off his wife... I said no - just weirded me out a bit. Later we had a conversation about me not being interested & it was never an issue again. He now defines himself as bi-curious.
We had another time where a women wanted to eat me and her husband at the same time - you know, dick in one hand, sucking the other dick and back and forth. Great fun. She then proceeded to pull us closer / together and put both our dicks in her mouth. I was pressed up against a guy with swords essentially glued together. Lots of fun. Never had an issue with it. However, I’m not about to start guy on guy play. Lol!
We had another time where a women wanted to eat me and her husband at the same time - you know, dick in one hand, sucking the other dick and back and forth. Great fun. She then proceeded to pull us closer / together and put both our dicks in her mouth. I was pressed up against a guy with swords essentially glued together. Lots of fun. Never had an issue with it. However, I’m not about to start guy on guy play. Lol!
We had our first bi mmf 4 months ago. It was amazing for L and me. She did love to watch meanwhile the two males were playing. DP, and fucking his ass meanwhile L had her clit lick. Awesome.
Glad to see I’m not alone in this experience! I wish my stories were more fun to tell. LIVIN4FUN1 dunno how I’d react to hearing that whispered in my ear by anyone haha!
Athletic European that sounds like it could be a great time!!
Athletic European that sounds like it could be a great time!!
Athleticeuropean wrote:
We are looking for a bi couple or a bi male who loves to be pampered by a man and a woman. Bi bottom or bi versatile. Lol
Same here! Bi-couples are what we’re looking for but— 100% straight couples are totally fine for us too and we always respect everyone’s rules. We are bi but if you’re not- that’s okay too. I know we scared one guy off asking about being bi. We like straight too! ;-)