Swingers Forum - Mormons

MarriedNcurious wrote:

We were a part of the church growing up. What a horrible life sucking institution. But if you read actuall real history. You will find joe had like 46 wives. And some were mother/daughter pairs. And even more were other men's wives. Being a part of other post mormon groups. I know there are fake profiles of real mormon people looking to get dirt on their naughty mormon friends.

So, what you're saying is, that "joe" would have probably been an AWESOME swinger? And that, in fact, he could have basically hosted and populated his own swing party JUST using his own family? SOOOO many possibilities! I wonder if that magic rock vibrated?

Utahldscouple wrote:

We are probably one of the few “real” ones on here. It’s hard to be one in this lifestyle especially here in Utah. Those that are in the lifestyle have issues with “Mormons”. We get judged by both those in and those not.

For the record, I would NEVER judge anyone for being Mormon and in the lifestyle. Been there, done that and know PLENTY of others who have as well. *edit: I should clarify that I meant WE were technically Mormons...but inactive, when we started swinging and we've met MANY active and inactive Mormons who were swingers over the years* LOL But I WOULD have a bit of an issue if you showed up to play with your garments on. But I guarantee that there are also plenty of people who would probably get off on it if you did.

Thanks for chiming in UtahLDScouple. I wasn't sure I wanted to.

We are still members technically with no intention of removing records. I've spent hundreds if not thousands of hours studying current theology and church history and find it deeply problematic. So I'm a yes, but no.

We have met a lot of ex mormons on this site that are a blast to party with. Based on what we know of the LDS church it is very restrictive on most matters involving pleasures outside of the teachings of the church.

With all that being said we don't feel like religion plays much of a part in swinging. We usually don't discuss it and we are skeptical when others do. Discussing religion on a swingers site just doesn't seem right to us especially when others in your religion may hold it against you.

We don't care what religion you are, what your politics are or what ethnic group your from. We just look for those we are attracted to and whom we can make a connection with both mentally and physically. If we all decide to get naked together then that makes things even better.

I feel the same way I was kicked out of the Mormon church in my 20s from a small town in Wyoming where I was living with my mother and finish high school they didn’t like what I was doing took me to a church court and asked me to do what they want to get me to do and I told the elders to go to hell

VERCHECK wrote:

Like many here in Utah, I spent many years active Mormon, far, far too many, really. Not to judge anyone else's choices, but it's more that I am baffled why anyone would want to remain a part of a church that they are actively violating the fundamental teachings of. I'm just curious, for those still active members and in this lifestyle. Do you not believe in those teachings and it's just too much social pressure to stop going? Or do you truly believe and just don't care about breaking fundamental commandments? Or is there some other mix of logic and emotions at play that aren't as apparent?

See what I mean...who wants to question others religious motivations on a swinger site? I find it hard to believe others would fall for this question from the original post. So being in the LDS church sucks for you...move on and find some folks to get naked with.

SKICOUPLE wrote:

See what I mean...who wants to question others religious motivations on a swinger site? I find it hard to believe others would fall for this question from the original post. So being in the LDS church sucks for you...move on and find some folks to get naked with.

Right on!

This is a pointless, unsexy, and stupid topic to discuss on a site like this! It comes up every once in a while...super “accepting and open minded people” often are the most closed minded of them all. Right on Mormons who explore! ExMo’s, we get your bad feels... but save it for other forums. Who cares what someone’s religion is or was? Protestant, Catholic, Judaism, Muslim, Buddhists, Hindus, JW, Wiccan, agnostic or whatever; don’t knock any of them.

Open mind and positive vibes peeps. We feel the same way about political discussions among swingers. Freak, this isn’t a dating website. Honestly if you’re a hater of any religion or political persuasion...save it for other places. I mean we cant stand communists but seriously we’d tap a super hot communist chick...c’mon. As if the LS isn’t lame enough in UT mixing in hate or bad vibes about any religion or lack of is SO narrow minded and UNSEXY. Live and let live. Keep it sexy people. #openmind #nojudgement

WTFBICPL wrote:

Well, we Jews need to chime in just to not feel left out! I guess the bottom line is that religion doesn't define our desires and fantasy play. You get exactly ONE go around on this planet. Make it count!

Hey...we are MOT(members of the tribe) also. Variety is the spice of life.

Utahldscouple wrote:

We are probably one of the few “real” ones on here. It’s hard to be one in this lifestyle especially here in Utah. Those that are in the lifestyle have issues with “Mormons”. We get judged by both those in and those not.

We get this from our own neighbors. Not mormon enough for Ward members but the non mormon neighbors exclude us because they think we're mormons lol it's retarded! We take our kids, yet to give them some structure and guidance but it's not for me.

Conference cancelled (Well, sort of. lol)! Orgy at my house Sunday morning April 5th! BYOG! ;-P

Conf. to be on TV only

Well said SweettAndH...we like your perspective.

Sunday Morning will be just fine for us Evil with or without the Extra Wives!

EVILDOERS wrote:

So that's a "No." on the Sunday morning orgy? Okay, more for me!

Conference Orgy ! You just need to tell us the time and place. Be sure to publicly announce it.

SweettAndH wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

So that's a "No." on the Sunday morning orgy? Okay, more for me!

. . . AND . . . Rumor on the street is that General Conference will not be holding a 'LIVE' session - only a media-based event. This opens up the very real possibility that we could have a love fest WHILE being inspired by the latest revelation and insight. (Currently waiting for the impending lightning strike that almost assuredly has been ordered - LOL). You gotta admit - there are very few better ways to 'Minister' to your fellow man . . . or woman!

Uh,that rumor on the street was the whole fucking (or not fucking, whichever you prefer) point of me resurrecting (wait, has it been three days yet?) this thread! LOL

EVILDOERS wrote:

Conference cancelled (Well, sort of. lol)! Orgy at my house Sunday morning April 5th!

This is something I would sustain...unlike the last stake conference I went to.

I want to keep this simple and not go into detail about the whys and hows but it may end that way. Cyn and I were born in very active LDS (Mormon) families, raised and taught the doctrines and married in the Temple. We raised our children in the LDS faith and they are extremely active as are our parents. We are deeply affiliated with many well known hierarchy and the history of the religion.

All that being said, several years after our marriage, we began to explore our curiosities about sex having had no previous experiences. We found a lot of fun and a strong bonding the more we learned and tried new taboos. We found it very convenient to be able to travel on our Harleys with other couples while leaving all the inhibitions behind and enjoying the trip. Our LS friendships seemed to be more genuine and much more relaxed. We found ourselves traveling all around the world with LS friends and sharing suites and homes, saving a lot of money and having great company. I could go on sharing more, but its not necessary. We had crossed the lines according to the church that would cost us our membership. We, however didn't want to cause the turmoil our family would suffer if we admitted to the church authorities what we had done. It would also cost us our employment and potentially our ability to live where we happily had settled. The conclusion: We are spiritually excommunicated from the Mormon Religion but still believe in the majority of its doctrines. Because we enjoyed the lifestyle, we made the choice to cross over and live a dual life. We practice many of the teachings and attend many of the meetings, just not the ones the require more obedience than we can commit to. (Many of you will understand). This is the faith we wish to associate ourselves with although we don't practice a few of the teachings, we are still happy with both of the lives we live.

HYM4CYN wrote:

I want to keep this simple and not go into detail about the whys and hows but it may end that way. Cyn and I were born in very active LDS (Mormon) families, raised and taught the doctrines and married in the Temple. We raised our children in the LDS faith and they are extremely active as are our parents. We are deeply affiliated with many well known hierarchy and the history of the religion.
All that being said, several years after our marriage, we began to explore our curiosities about sex having had no previous experiences. We found a lot of fun and a strong bonding the more we learned and tried new taboos. We found it very convenient to be able to travel on our Harleys with other couples while leaving all the inhibitions behind and enjoying the trip. Our LS friendships seemed to be more genuine and much more relaxed. We found ourselves traveling all around the world with LS friends and sharing suites and homes, saving a lot of money and having great company. I could go on sharing more, but its not necessary. We had crossed the lines according to the church that would cost us our membership. We, however didn't want to cause the turmoil our family would suffer if we admitted to the church authorities what we had done. It would also cost us our employment and potentially our ability to live where we happily had settled. The conclusion: We are spiritually excommunicated from the Mormon Religion but still believe in the majority of its doctrines. Because we enjoyed the lifestyle, we made the choice to cross over and live a dual life. We practice many of the teachings and attend many of the meetings, just not the ones the require more obedience than we can commit to. (Many of you will understand). This is the faith we wish to associate ourselves with although we don't practice a few of the teachings, we are still happy with both of the lives we live.

Wow, look at that. A very sensible, thought out answer to a simple question.

HYM4CYN wrote:

I want to keep this simple and not go into detail about the whys and hows but it may end that way. Cyn and I were born in very active LDS (Mormon) families, raised and taught the doctrines and married in the Temple. We raised our children in the LDS faith and they are extremely active as are our parents. We are deeply affiliated with many well known hierarchy and the history of the religion.
All that being said, several years after our marriage, we began to explore our curiosities about sex having had no previous experiences. We found a lot of fun and a strong bonding the more we learned and tried new taboos. We found it very convenient to be able to travel on our Harleys with other couples while leaving all the inhibitions behind and enjoying the trip. Our LS friendships seemed to be more genuine and much more relaxed. We found ourselves traveling all around the world with LS friends and sharing suites and homes, saving a lot of money and having great company. I could go on sharing more, but its not necessary. We had crossed the lines according to the church that would cost us our membership. We, however didn't want to cause the turmoil our family would suffer if we admitted to the church authorities what we had done. It would also cost us our employment and potentially our ability to live where we happily had settled. The conclusion: We are spiritually excommunicated from the Mormon Religion but still believe in the majority of its doctrines. Because we enjoyed the lifestyle, we made the choice to cross over and live a dual life. We practice many of the teachings and attend many of the meetings, just not the ones the require more obedience than we can commit to. (Many of you will understand). This is the faith we wish to associate ourselves with although we don't practice a few of the teachings, we are still happy with both of the lives we live.

I grew up in Utah... in the Mormon church. I was as Mormon as they come but never felt I could be myself because being myself included a proclivity toward what I came to know as the lifestyle. I've only been exploring my sexuality for a couple years but for the first time in my life, I finally feel like I can BE me and I've had some amazing experiences. If someone came along and said from now on, everyone can only eat cheeseburgers, we'd say they were crazy. In the same way, when it comes to sexuality, one size does not fit all. We all like different flavors. As long as there is CONSENT (a hell yeah and a high five, and anything less is NOT consent) from everyone involved, and everyone is safe, I believe what people do sexually is their own business. No person or religion or society or government gets to decide that for everyone. It’s nice to see folks in here with similar backgrounds to my own. Thanks for sharing your stories. I admire and applaud anyone who loves themselves enough to BE who they are regardless of race or religion or socioeconomic background. In Mormon-dom, the body is considered a temple. I've never enjoyed visiting the temple more than I do now, and it sounds like “conference” weekend could be more enjoyable than I remember as well.

DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

Hopefully, all of us are in a delightful never ending process of self discovery. Human interactions can either impede or enhance our journeys. If we judge someone to be dangerous, or injurious, then cutting off all contact may be appropriate. As for judgements about whatever the people we meet have passed through, are passing through, believe or once believed, in the midst of their journeys; perhaps our judgements are a barrier in our own joy and progress. Shame, guilt, anger, resentment, none of these things can change the past. All the anxiety in the world won't change the future. A positive open mind, gratitude, a soft and forgiving heart, and tolerance will always enhance the present. True intimacy and vulnerability go hand in hand. True intimacy requires trust. None of us hold a perfect and absolute vision of the one true reality in our minds. If we close our minds to people that believe differently than ourselves, in the end we will cut ourselves off from almost everyone. Striving to be our own true best and authentic self, perhaps accelerates, as we learn to stop comparing, competeing and trying to percieve ourselves as better or best. People's affiliations only scratch the surface as to who they ever were in the past, are at any given moment, and who they will be throughout the rest of existence.

T H I S!!! Well said and Ditto!!