Ok single men
Married men make up 75% of our replies. The pics not being there, or they refuse to send pics before meeting, is the best clue to it. Or, he sends a face pic with dark glasses and a ball cap.
they are called cheaters no't swingers
unfortunately they don't all stand out so easily. sometimes you have to sift through all the lies and bs first. i can't even begin to tell you how many phonies are on these sites!
So true, Wanda... They give the rest of us, who are legitimate, a bad name...
Sometimes that rep is just too much to overcome. But those of us who are for real, and you know what I mean, <wink> are here, and patient.
Sometimes that rep is just too much to overcome. But those of us who are for real, and you know what I mean, <wink> are here, and patient.
So true, Wanda... They give the rest of us, who are legitimate, a bad name...
Sometimes that rep is just too much to overcome. But those of us who are for real, and you know what I mean, <wink> are here, and patient.
Sometimes that rep is just too much to overcome. But those of us who are for real, and you know what I mean, <wink> are here, and patient.
how do you get your real or vip logo to prove you are real?
same question as Miss Kitty, especially for a newbie.
how to go about getting Validated is on the home page of this site
Three things stand out for us when dealing with single males... I have told each of them the "error" of thier ways, and wished them well right before we blocked them.
Often they are pushy, and arent sure how to be RESPECTFUL.. If you can carry on a conversation for more than three sentences, before telling us "how big your cock is"
The next thing that drives us nuts is, to be honest... The way so many, instead of a decent pic, they post only cock pics... Like, " WoW, hE mUsT bE nIcE, lOoK aT hIs PrIcK" or " Now That will make it easier for us to find him when we meet, in person.. We'll just ask all the guys to drop trou..."
And Finally, the biggest thing that has already been discussed... The CHEATING MARRIED GUYS...
Wanna know the easiest way to "SPOT" em? Make sure to tell them that any plans to meet, and or play, MUST be for ALL NIGHT...Like SATURDAY.. Lets face it, IF a married guy is screwing around when do they want to meet? Daytime or early evening... CAN they stay all night... Not if they have a wife at home... On the WEEKEND
AS to the best way to get past all this IF you are a single male... Simple: WORD of MOUTH..
If you are respectful, and a decent guy.. word will get out... Esp with the Comments section now on the profiles...
For us, personally, We started by meeting single males for 3somes... and grew from there.
Three things stand out for us when dealing with single males... I have told each of them the "error" of thier ways, and wished them well right before we blocked them.
Often they are pushy, and arent sure how to be RESPECTFUL.. If you can carry on a conversation for more than three sentences, before telling us "how big your cock is"
The next thing that drives us nuts is, to be honest... The way so many, instead of a decent pic, they post only cock pics... Like, " WoW, hE mUsT bE nIcE, lOoK aT hIs PrIcK" or " Now That will make it easier for us to find him when we meet, in person.. We'll just ask all the guys to drop trou..."
And Finally, the biggest thing that has already been discussed... The CHEATING MARRIED GUYS...
Wanna know the easiest way to "SPOT" em? Make sure to tell them that any plans to meet, and or play, MUST be for ALL NIGHT...Like SATURDAY.. Lets face it, IF a married guy is screwing around when do they want to meet? Daytime or early evening... CAN they stay all night... Not if they have a wife at home... On the WEEKEND
AS to the best way to get past all this IF you are a single male... Simple: WORD of MOUTH..
If you are respectful, and a decent guy.. word will get out... Esp with the Comments section now on the profiles...
For us, personally, We started by meeting single males for 3somes... and grew from there.
Let me just add to the remark that there are lots of fakes here.
Yes, indeed, there are. And they aren't limited to single men!
That wasn't a specific "shot" at anybody - just reminding us all that "The web" is a place where many people hide many things about themselves. I suspect that the percentage of actual "people who will meet other people from this site" is VERY small - but that's true of most Lifestyle sites.
Yes, indeed, there are. And they aren't limited to single men!
That wasn't a specific "shot" at anybody - just reminding us all that "The web" is a place where many people hide many things about themselves. I suspect that the percentage of actual "people who will meet other people from this site" is VERY small - but that's true of most Lifestyle sites.
yeah uriah, thats a friggin joke, alot of people have done that and never heard back from them
Not to hijack the thread, but it kind of feels like System Administration has just ceased here. I wonder if that's why they had such a great special on "lifetime memberships" (I got one while it was quite a bargain!). I think the site is still one of the best around, but it kind of feels like they set it up - and vanished. And that may be a *good* thing: let us all "administer" ourselves rather than asking "Big Brother" to do things.
Putnam- Great advice. Been in a slump lately. maybe I will make it known that I have no qualms staying as late as the couple likes.
Beard- so true. The Net in general allows people to be anonymous.
Wanda- you crack me up! It took a couple IM's before it hit me that no one was going to answer.
For the record- I actually had more luck getting certified on another site. This site is like going to a new club. I guess people need to get comfortable with me.
Beard- so true. The Net in general allows people to be anonymous.
Wanda- you crack me up! It took a couple IM's before it hit me that no one was going to answer.
For the record- I actually had more luck getting certified on another site. This site is like going to a new club. I guess people need to get comfortable with me.
Back to the "Single man" thing....
Why does it seem more acceptable if a woman "steps out" and plays and is into swinging by herself than it is for a man to???
I advertise as a single female because my man doesn't play nor does he want to nor does he have the time to, but he knows I am on the site...
Just curious about the opinion on that---
---L---
Why does it seem more acceptable if a woman "steps out" and plays and is into swinging by herself than it is for a man to???
I advertise as a single female because my man doesn't play nor does he want to nor does he have the time to, but he knows I am on the site...
Just curious about the opinion on that---
---L---
I am not about to do a background check on people and personally I wouldn't care to know if someone had a note of approval from mother, father, babysitter or significant other so that I could party with them. It would be nice to know that a person were honest so I wouldn't have to worry about getting my head blown off. I think there is a lot of over-rated hype for those who feel the need to "stone the evil doer" while only some of it would be true. With the few cheaters possibly some are curious about what else exists "out there" before making a change in their lives (which might explain no-shows?), picture collectors or just regular honest folk who want to meet and greet with added perks and closeness in friendships. (No-shows could be due to cold feet too.) I would certainly be more concerned about someone slipping some drugs in mine or a partner's drink, being jealous, rough or mean or passing diseases. It would be great if people showed courtesy and kindness in the contact and meeting process so we could all make decisions about who we would like to spend time with wouldn't it? Perhaps some of us should re-think our tendencies, after all inviting someone into your sex life is a rather sensitive issue.
Thanks for the input PUTNAMCOCPL. Looks like for us "Good Ones" it requires a little patience to meet peolple willing to take a chance on a single man, even if it is just for friends or dating single women. It seems like this for dating. Call me old fashioned, but I prefer to pick up my date for the evening. I mention that and I am looked at like I am from another planet. "What...pick me up are you nuts?! I'll just meet you somewhere." What happened to chivalry?
From what I have been reading, quite a few of you have had bad experiences with single men because of the examples left by PUTNAMCOCPL. I do see your points. Hell it has been clowns like that that I personally have to suffer the consequences of their actions since high school. Not much has changed since then it seems. But such is life.....
From what I have been reading, quite a few of you have had bad experiences with single men because of the examples left by PUTNAMCOCPL. I do see your points. Hell it has been clowns like that that I personally have to suffer the consequences of their actions since high school. Not much has changed since then it seems. But such is life.....
Ahhh this topic keeps coming up. The fact is there are some assholes. And there is nothing you can do about it. But you are letting a couple asholes ruin it for the rest of us single males. I've been a member here since Nov. 05. And have still have not had any meetings. in fact the few couples and single females that have exchange e-mails with me quit talking to my when I ask if they'ld like to meet.