I love hearing women say I'm the best at giving blow jobs. Vice versa guys having a big ego and thinking they are God's gift to vaginas. In the heat of the moment its not uncommon to let out a, "you give the best head" or "your cock feels amazing." Sometimes people are just being nice. How many people have told you you give horrible blow jobs or terrible in bed? I'd say zero or next to zero. I just keep seeing so many people stroke their ego on "I'm the best" because let's be honest, as long as a dick is in a mouth, it feels good. Sorry for the rant. Thought it might help some of you from looking like ass hats when your stroking your already oversized ego 
I think positive reinforcement is good during sex even when it’s not necessarily the case. My wife’s encouragement to her partners make the sex better for her. I get excited with a woman that moans and clinches and is vocal during orgasim. I prefer to use a narrative with my partners that’s more like; “push me in deeper” or “suck my cock hard”. I know sounds weird but it’s very hot during sex and it’s even hotter when a woman tells me to fuck her harder. I like taking orders 😃.
Back to your original point of false compliments during sex. You know its a genuine complement when it’s given after the fact. Some of our long term partners who where bad kissers or gave a bad BJ we have mentored and they have shown remarkable improvement.
Back to your original point of false compliments during sex. You know its a genuine complement when it’s given after the fact. Some of our long term partners who where bad kissers or gave a bad BJ we have mentored and they have shown remarkable improvement.
Haha I'm not trying to bash anyone, and I agree compliments are good things. I'm just saying only so many females can technically be the "best" at giving blow jobs. And let's be honest, there's no such thing as a bad blow job
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Haha I'm not trying to bash anyone, and I agree compliments are good things. I'm just saying only so many females can technically be the "best" at giving blow jobs. And let's be honest, there's no such thing as a bad blow job
While that is true, "the best" is a little subjective. I agree with your point that we should all be honest in giving feedback. I just wanted to point out that what might be the best for me could be not great for some other guy.
So far, my wife has been the best at giving me a blow job, but if there are any women out there looking to take that title from her, I am happy to give the opportunity to vie for it.
And let's be honest, there's no such thing as a bad blow job [/quote]
I have had some bad BJs and after a few minutes of torture I just make sure to switch positions.
There is no contest for best, better and awful. That does not mean one must suffer with awful. Of course there is the one and done. Some experiences should just never be repeated.
[/quote]I have had some bad BJs and after a few minutes of torture I just make sure to switch positions.
There is no contest for best, better and awful. That does not mean one must suffer with awful. Of course there is the one and done. Some experiences should just never be repeated.
Agree with Newly. If there's one thing that we've learned in the lifestyle it's "one size does NOT fit all". What feels spectacular to one person I guaranTEE will not feel spectacular to someone else. We're all different and like different things. And that holds true when it comes to sex.
Some people like it hard and rough and others HATE that. I've been lucky enough to receive more than a few blowjobs in my life and while some many amazing, some HURT! If you think your blowjob technique will be universally popular you're naive. The best approach is to ASK someone what they like or, alternatively, try different things and pay attention to what seems to be working. And a blowjob recipient should never feel too shy to offer feedback.
And actually, there IS such a thing as a bad blowjob. I got one once from a girl who didn't really know what to do with her teeth and my penis got scraped up pretty badly.
Some people like it hard and rough and others HATE that. I've been lucky enough to receive more than a few blowjobs in my life and while some many amazing, some HURT! If you think your blowjob technique will be universally popular you're naive. The best approach is to ASK someone what they like or, alternatively, try different things and pay attention to what seems to be working. And a blowjob recipient should never feel too shy to offer feedback.
And actually, there IS such a thing as a bad blowjob. I got one once from a girl who didn't really know what to do with her teeth and my penis got scraped up pretty badly.