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All right i admit it, I’ve hidden it for to long....

I am a... Size Queen!

I also admit I'm a lucky size queen who's man fulfills my size need but this is a tricky thing in the Ls. How do you bring it up? Is asking to see the goods rude? Do I even want to see them?
Any other size queens out there?
I think she is stating that she likes her playmates to be gifted with above average size, from how I read it.
Am reading it like the Gent. I am a prefer size queen. I don’t think within the LS you are rude stating your preference. Countless profiles where the woman states her preference to size. That is the one thing within the LS, it’s all about preferences with couples, women or men. From size to hair to etc. etc. The biggest preference being body type and looks.
You should clearly state your preference for dick size. Although, knowing what to do with your equipment can also be satisfying based on the moans I get (Mr Ski). I am just slightly over the average based on statistical data. Ms Ski has minimal size requirements but even she has had some good experiences with under average size and in many cases their oral skills can make up for the difference.
SKICOUPLE wrote:

You should clearly state your preference for dick size. Although, knowing what to do with your equipment can also be satisfying based on the moans I get (Mr Ski). I am just slightly over the average based on statistical data. Ms Ski has minimal size requirements but even she has had some good experiences with under average size and in many cases their oral skills can make up for the difference.


I completely agree with you on that, I have a what my other half calls "sport cock" who is below average size but his skills with his mouth are epic levels of amazing. My other half calls him sport cock cuz "you gotta have at least one sports model for anal" but also to be fair, there's a great amount of caring, feelings, and admiration between the two of us as well, which makes it.
ALL & Hm you both sound very interesting.
What the..... Honey, I never realized until right now why you had me do all of those silicone injections. Now I start to wonder whether or not the people at Home Depot were aware as well because of all the funny looks I used to get with the daily purchases of each new tube. By the way, I did pick up that contractor pack that you asked me to grab. Oh, and I'm so glad that this message from me comes to you privately even though it's in the forum. At least I think that's true because that guy that I bought the oceanfront property in Nevada told me that was the case. Oh one more thing, I bought some oceanfront property in Nevada. I'll talk to you about it before we play in a few weeks after the new filler has settled from the injections I'm doing right now.
My man is above average and I prefer someone his size. I get mad when a guy hyped his dick up on for it to be 4 inches
VANESSA_BABY wrote:

My man is above average and I prefer someone his size. I get mad when a guy hyped his dick up on for it to be 4 inches


As you should be, if one lies about something that's so easy to disprove what else does he have in the works
I'm game to play
There's nothing inherently wrong with being a size queen. You should absolutely only fuck people that you want to fuck and if a big dick is your main or even your ONLY selection criteria you should only seek out men with large penises. And you should be able to verify the size, in some way, before meeting.

Personally, we have other criteria that superceed something like a single physical characteristic. Personality and intelligence as well as a keen sense of humor is really important for us. And while we both do have some physical traits that we find very appealing, a great person that we click with in other ways who DOESN'T necessarily have all or even some of those characteristics isn't a dealbreaker for us.

I do hope, however, that you allow others who have similarly narrow selection criteria to de-select you, without recrimination, if you don't happen to have certain physical features that they prize above all other attributes.

Over the years we've met people who absolutely won't play with, say, someone who is of a certain ethnicity, or someone who has too much body hair or too little hair on their head. Some won't play with someone a certain number of years their senior or their junior. We've met those who will only fuck someone who is in really great shape, or someone with a certain breast size and shape. There are a million different things that someone in the lifestyle could potentially either require for interaction or, alternatively, refuse to meet/play if the individual is or has something that they don't find appealing in some way...even if, to some, it might seem insignificant.

The only reason I bring this up is that we've been doing this for a while now and we've run into plenty of people who have fairly narrow, if not rigid, selection criteria. And it's always a little bit humorous how often we've talked to people who have very strict physical requirements for those they interact with in the lifestyle but who also get quite upset if they aren't chosen by someone who finds THEM lacking in certain physical qualities. Especially if it's a physical element that they have absolutely no control over...like penis size. Just some thoughts and as always, YMMV.
VANESSA_BABY wrote:

My man is above average and I prefer someone his size. I get mad when a guy hyped his dick up on for it to be 4 inches


Your awesome Vanessa!! That's why we friended you.... because you know what you like and not afraid to say it...
So far as guys with huge egos and prefer not to be honest with themselves, what is considered above average for you size queens? 🤷🏿‍♂️
EVILDOERS wrote:

There's nothing inherently wrong with being a size queen. You should absolutely only fuck people that you want to fuck and if a big dick is your main or even your ONLY selection criteria you should only seek out men with large penises. And you should be able to verify the size, in some way, before meeting.
Personally, we have other criteria that superceed something like a single physical characteristic. Personality and intelligence as well as a keen sense of humor is really important for us. And while we both do have some physical traits that we find very appealing, a great person that we click with in other ways who DOESN'T necessarily have all or even some of those characteristics isn't a dealbreaker for us.
I do hope, however, that you allow others who have similarly narrow selection criteria to de-select you, without recrimination, if you don't happen to have certain physical features that they prize above all other attributes.
Over the years we've met people who absolutely won't play with, say, someone who is of a certain ethnicity, or someone who has too much body hair or too little hair on their head. Some won't play with someone a certain number of years their senior or their junior. We've met those who will only fuck someone who is in really great shape, or someone with a certain breast size and shape. There are a million different things that someone in the lifestyle could potentially either require for interaction or, alternatively, refuse to meet/play if the individual is or has something that they don't find appealing in some way...even if, to some, it might seem insignificant.
The only reason I bring this up is that we've been doing this for a while now and we've run into plenty of people who have fairly narrow, if not rigid, selection criteria. And it's always a little bit humorous how often we've talked to people who have very strict physical requirements for those they interact with in the lifestyle but who also get quite upset if they aren't chosen by someone who finds THEM lacking in certain physical qualities. Especially if it's a physical element that they have absolutely no control over...like penis size. Just some thoughts and as always, YMMV.


Smart, witty, hung, and other stuffs. 😎. Haha.
We’re lots of fun and have above average goods. 😛

She’s endowed in all the right places too. If you’re interested. We are pretty cool too besides the appendages. 😂
maybe we should have a big cock get together at our place in the hot tub who ever rises to the top of the hot tub wins
the tub