Just been exploring more of my fantasies. Been wanting to find out if anyone has had any luck on here getting their swinger fun with other fun. I like some light bondage, enjoy lots of sex, and lots of toys. But it seems that it's harder to find couples or women to have fantasies with on here. Years ago, it seemed a lot easier to meet and go from there. Maybe it's my age, size, or that I prefer to not host. Everyone has a type, I'm wondering if anyone finds them on here.
We would totally be up for that โบ๏ธ๐
I enjoy making the woman the center of attention when playing with a couple or a woman alone.
I too enjoy light bondage and toys. In fact, if you look through my public pictures.......
I am also on Fetlife and have found this to be a great website for those looking for a little bit more kink. Beware, this is a pretty intense website.
I am lustinsaltlake there as well.
I too enjoy light bondage and toys. In fact, if you look through my public pictures.......
I am also on Fetlife and have found this to be a great website for those looking for a little bit more kink. Beware, this is a pretty intense website.
I am lustinsaltlake there as well.
We are a BDSM couple, I am a dom and my partner is a sub. Love fisting, flogging caning, clamps, restrains, sensory deprivation, collaring.
NIKITA wrote:
Just been exploring more of my fantasies. Been wanting to find out if anyone has had any luck on here getting their swinger fun with other fun. I like some light bondage, enjoy lots of sex, and lots of toys. But it seems that it's harder to find couples or women to have fantasies with on here. Years ago, it seemed a lot easier to meet and go from there. Maybe it's my age, size, or that I prefer to not host. Everyone has a type, I'm wondering if anyone finds them on here.
We have found this site, not surprisingly, quite vanilla. A blindfold and having read 50 shades is pretty damn kinky for Swingular lol. We far more relate to the kinksters on Fetlife. I would look at making a profile there, but it is not a โswingersโ site ๐
Athleticeuropean wrote:
We are a BDSM couple, I am a dom and my partner is a sub. Love fisting, flogging caning, clamps, restrains, sensory deprivation, collaring.
Collaring ? ๐ Lol
Fetlife is better for BDSM. I have met a couple there that I enjoy. Talked to a few singles that are afraid to pull the trigger. Endless KIK. As for the second part of the title "group sex", what say you?
Maybe the respondants on this thread should start a KIK bdsm group?
Maybe the respondants on this thread should start a KIK bdsm group?
Very much into kink and swinging.. been a Dom for 15 years and love group fun
Very much into kink and swinging.. been a Dom for 15 years and love group fun
DANDTCURIOUS wrote:
Collaring ? ๐ Lol
It is extremely hot, total submission. Fisting, caning, flogging, bed restrainers
Athleticeuropean wrote:
It is extremely hot, total submission. Fisting, caning, flogging, bed restrainers
LoL yes we know what collars and cuffs are, and we know what being collared is, as a BDSM relationship dynamic, .. your use of the term โcollaringโ In your list of fetishes, is misplaced IMO.... butt any kinkyness is always good to see here.
Thanks, love your sense of humor. Sorry, but being European, my grammar is not perfect. Good morning
I can't be on FetLife. Too many bad experiences and not everyone plays by the rules on there.
NaughtyAlder wrote:
Not a lot of experience with group sex, but loads of experience with BDSM. Fetlife is a good place to look for BDSM type experience but it can be a process, go to a munch and donโt get frustrated. We agree with DANDTCURIOUS about the miss used term of collaring, but live and let live. A word- careful who you play with, choose wisely and be informed, references are not unheard of! Things like fire-play can be a bit dangerous if not done properly. Oh, one of our flogger cabinets. All hand made by us, except the electric flogger!
Is that a cheese grater in that pic? Let me give you my safe word now ๐๐
NaughtyAlder wrote:
Not a lot of experience with group sex, but loads of experience with BDSM. Fetlife is a good place to look for BDSM type experience but it can be a process, go to a munch and donโt get frustrated. We agree with DANDTCURIOUS about the miss used term of collaring, but live and let live. A word- careful who you play with, choose wisely and be informed, references are not unheard of! Things like fire-play can be a bit dangerous if not done properly. Oh, one of our flogger cabinets. All hand made by us, except the electric flogger!
Is that a cheese grater in that pic? Let me give you my safe word now ๐๐
We plays by rules. We have been disappointed not be able to find a bdsm bi couple in fetlife. Love to find one
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:NaughtyAlder wrote:
Not a lot of experience with group sex, but loads of experience with BDSM. Fetlife is a good place to look for BDSM type experience but it can be a process, go to a munch and donโt get frustrated. We agree with DANDTCURIOUS about the miss used term of collaring, but live and let live. A word- careful who you play with, choose wisely and be informed, references are not unheard of! Things like fire-play can be a bit dangerous if not done properly. Oh, one of our flogger cabinets. All hand made by us, except the electric flogger!
Is that a cheese grater in that pic? Let me give you my safe word now ๐๐
Cheese...skin...it all peels off the same. Safe word is NO FUCKING WAY, JOSE'! ;p
I luv light BDSM, playing with toys. Restraints and teasing a lot!
It is NOT your age or size. You just haven't found the right matches!
It is NOT your age or size. You just haven't found the right matches!
NIKITA wrote:
I can't be on FetLife. Too many bad experiences and not everyone plays by the rules on there.
What rules ? Itโs easy to block people there.
If you had a bad experience on fetlife, then you were with someone who is called a "Daddy Dom". Some people have had bad experiences in the lifestyle I think you need to go to a munch. You're going to need a sponsor, and go to a lifestyle party with a lot of people. And you can block people or report them to the administrator. Remember swing isn't the same as BDSM. I hope you can find a sponsor and get vetted, there's a lot of groups. Here were active in the Ogden group and know a lot of people in the house.
We will love to try it. We have 3 different types of canes and flogs, ๐คญ
If you have any luck let us know, we have had zero luck on here meeting anybody