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Just moved back here to Utah and what is wrong with the lifestyle here where are the couples looking for single guys. I was living in Ohio and I would have no issues finding couples. Here in Utah is is like mining for gold 99% of the time you get trash 1 % of the time you get lucky. couples please help us guys out if you are looking.
runmanand wrote:

Just moved back here to Utah and what is wrong with the lifestyle here where are the couples looking for single guys. I was living in Ohio and I would have no issues finding couples. Here in Utah is is like mining for gold 99% of the time you get trash 1 % of the time you get lucky. couples please help us guys out if you are looking.


Not our fault. They recently added SM's to the list of forbidden things on the Word of Wisdom. Sorry, bro. Rules are rules.
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Anyone...even SM’s can vote opposed at the next general conference session...just saying.
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:

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Anyone...even SM’s can vote opposed at the next general conference session...just saying.
And it holds 0 weight, single or not.
We see singles on occasion but not often. We are very picky and the candidates are sub par on manhy levels. If you are not picky s/m area dime a dozen.
It's a bit more complex than supply and demand. I first was a SM 10 years ago. It was a challenge but not as difficult as it has become. I was a couple with a friend for a few years then later a married couple. It's a night and day difference going from being a couple and becoming single again after losing my wife. I used to host parties as a single and faced a lot of raised eyebrows from those that said I would regret it. I may have been more selective in whom I invited but I've encountered much more problems with males from couple profiles than the single males. I don't know the reasons but I first was told that they (single males) ruined things or were flaky. I don't think that has been there case. There are flakes, flakes, and "imitakes" from every type and it's definitely spiraled down in the last few years. I'd hate to say I know why.. but one thing I've not liked since it happened was the format the chat room took on. You used to see 20-30 people actively chatting all hours of the day. Now? Zero, zero, ok the most I've seen is 3 in the last couple of years. Maybe people felt more comfortable meeting someone they could not only chat with but anyone in the room could just watch what others were saying and therefore had an inkling of who they were interested in and those to avoid. Just my 2 cents. By the way.. it was always interesting that parties turn out so much better when there are a few good single males there. And the ones that used to critique are usually the ones that seek and find them first.
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