Being in this lifestyle we’ve came to the conclusion that it’s a rare occasion to find a single female wanting to play with a couple. Is there even any single female looking to play anymore lol??
Has anyone else ran into this? or are we just not looking in the wrong places??
Has anyone else ran into this? or are we just not looking in the wrong places??
Yeah the single ladies are hard to come buy. It makes sense though when you put it into perspective. They are a hard to find product that’s in high demand. They get to literally pick and choose. When they find a couple they like, they stick with them until something changes.
On another note, put yourself in their shoes. Can you imagine going to meet another couple by yourself??? We, like many others out their are looking for the same. We have over the years ran across a couple but then again things change and poof they’re gone.
I guess stay patient and keep looking.
Best of luck!!!
On another note, put yourself in their shoes. Can you imagine going to meet another couple by yourself??? We, like many others out their are looking for the same. We have over the years ran across a couple but then again things change and poof they’re gone.
I guess stay patient and keep looking.
Best of luck!!!
It was more common back in the day. Not sure what happened, but we find it's easier to just convert a single female friend into joining rather than finding someone
BellRose wrote:
Being in this lifestyle we’ve came to the conclusion that it’s a rare occasion to find a single female wanting to play with a couple. Is there even any single female looking to play anymore lol??
Has anyone else ran into this? or are we just not looking in the wrong places??
There's a very good reason they're called "unicorns". Not sure what people's actual expectations are when they join the lifestyle but if the forum threads are any indication they're disproportionately unrealistic. LOL
we have had a few. we find it easier to find a couple and then just sharing once and a while when the timing is right. there are a ton of selfish males out there in a controlling style relationship. more then you'd think. there is a term for it, but I wont go into it.
FUNFINDFRIENDS wrote:
we have had a few. we find it easier to find a couple and then just sharing once and a while when the timing is right. there are a ton of selfish males out there in a controlling style relationship. more then you'd think. there is a term for it, but I wont go into it.
Is the term asshole? Twatwaffle? Douchecopter? Hosenscheisser? Let me know if I'm getting close.
We agree. The fastest, easiest way to find a SWINGER lady to play with is to find a couple who is okay with separate play and take turns. Sharing is caring! Otherwise your best bet IS to hit up your single vanilla friends and coworkers or cruise the meat market bars.
A lot of couples out there with hallpasses
I’m single but I’m very picky. I have. Found that couples that approach with “I want to fuck you so let me know when you are coming over” I have found that about half of couples don’t even ask me if I’m wanting any sexual things with them and instead decide to just assume that I’m going to actually want to meet them
As a married female who has a single female profile, I find that I'm selective about who I see. The experience for me isn't about quantity as much as it is quality. That may be the reason why many couples don't see a lot of single females throughout their swinging time.
I have a great relationship with my hubby, but we also have started branching out alone for a little extra spice. I've had people who were angry to learn I was married, not an actual single female. Which I found surprising. However, if I have the opportunity to choose who I want to be with, and be picky at the same time, they get to have that opportunity, as well.
Therefore, your ability to be selective about your choices are a benefit that is also afforded to single females. You're welcome.
I have a great relationship with my hubby, but we also have started branching out alone for a little extra spice. I've had people who were angry to learn I was married, not an actual single female. Which I found surprising. However, if I have the opportunity to choose who I want to be with, and be picky at the same time, they get to have that opportunity, as well.
Therefore, your ability to be selective about your choices are a benefit that is also afforded to single females. You're welcome.
Just a note with this quote.
But when you run into a single male thats married does one have a single male profile or a couple and states they are not single and open.
It just made me LOL....
LILMISSRIDINGHOOD wrote:
I've had people who were angry to learn I was married, not an actual single female. Which I found surprising.
But when you run into a single male thats married does one have a single male profile or a couple and states they are not single and open.
It just made me LOL....
FUNFINDFRIENDS wrote:
Just a note with this quote.
LILMISSRIDINGHOOD wrote:
I've had people who were angry to learn I was married, not an actual single female. Which I found surprising.
But when you run into a single male thats married does one have a single male profile or a couple and states they are not single and open.
It just made me LOL....
When I come across a single male who's married but says they are open, I require confirmation from his wife that all is okay. If wife is fine with it, there's nothing wrong with married men who play single. I know, and have played with, many.
FUNFINDFRIENDS wrote:
Just a note with this quote.
LILMISSRIDINGHOOD wrote:
I've had people who were angry to learn I was married, not an actual single female. Which I found surprising.
But when you run into a single male thats married does one have a single male profile or a couple and states they are not single and open.
It just made me LOL....
Right! IMO It’s just creepy to say you’re single when you’re not.