Swingers Forum - House Parties

So I was thinking about back in 2011/2012 when I was previously in the Life style there was always a house party on the weekend. Someone's had a public event posted here or some private house party event was being talked about in the forums.

So what happened to the house party?

If I threw a party would anyone come?

ALLWENEEDISU wrote:

So I was thinking about back in 2011/2012 when I was previously in the Life style there was always a house party on the weekend. Someone's had a public event posted here or some private house party event was being talked about in the forums.
So what happened to the house party?
If I threw a party would anyone come?

We are sure people will come. It's tricky to manage the number of people coming as well as the quality of the people coming.

If it's a swinger party, it would reprehensible for people not too cum. 😈

Sorry boys if I have a house party no single men would get the invite unless I know them. Not even with a date.

GOODTIMES4US wrote:

We have house parties a lot but would never post on the site for it. Reason being, we'd rather have a party with people we know and trust that we know will not destroy our house or cause drama. We slowly invite new people into our groups of friends to see how they get along. If we ever have drama or problems then they aren't invited again. We've just heard of too many bad things happening at random house parties where the host doesn't know everyone. So yes they are around I just think people are being more selective on who they invite.

This is honestly the best way to go about it. You've already had a good time with your friends and created a network of people you trust. Not invited 10 random couples that you never met for the sake of having a party and fucking. I still want to have a good time drinking and having fun on top of the fucking. That's just me though.

Some of the best times we have had have been house parties.

We love a good house party! It’s a great way to meet people. Like goodtimes4us said it can be scary inviting strangers you’ve never met into your home.

We have a lot of house parties(almost every month) and have been doing it for a few year(like 10 yrs) and have only had maybe 5 people or couples out and never have we had anything broken, call it luck or it maybe to age of a lot of the couples/people that show up.
We do not let single guys show up because every time I do let single guy show up we have had a problem or getting to hanzi or some other problems.
For the most part all of our parties have been fun for all that show up

Hornynhappy76 wrote:

We enjoy a small house party over the bar party life. It’s hard to find couples that want to just kick it at a slower pace. We also like the camping style party.

Well then you need to join our group this summer camping!

Sounds like a fun time, we’re new to Utah so most of the areas are new to us

We would be interested too. Let us know.

We love house parties and have been to several that some generous members here have put on. Always great to socialize with like minded people, even if not playing.

We miss having these options every weekend. I think people stopped because of to many were coming out that were not known of vouched for. Plus many of the hosts over promised and under delivered. We are going tonight though.

@ateam83. That is a REALLY GOOD PROFILE Picture.

We have parties all the time. But it is a lot of work. But we do enjoy it. We will only let single guys come with a couple that has vouched for him. Or we know him personally. We have very minimal issues over the years. And I’m not sure what someone said about a host over promising and under delivered. We don’t charge for our parties. And just expect all to BYOB and a snack. We always have different themes or none just a good old party. We have rooms to play for those that want. And we invite new people all the time. It’s the best people we have met in this lifestyle.

HERRIMANFUN wrote:

We have parties all the time. But it is a lot of work. But we do enjoy it. We will only let single guys come with a couple that has vouched for him. Or we know him personally. We have very minimal issues over the years. And I’m not sure what someone said about a host over promising and under delivered. We don’t charge for our parties. And just expect all to BYOB and a snack. We always have different themes or none just a good old party. We have rooms to play for those that want. And we invite new people all the time. It’s the best people we have met in this lifestyle.

You guys have the best parties. So glad you remember us when you do your invites.

HERRIMANFUN wrote:

We have parties all the time. But it is a lot of work. But we do enjoy it. We will only let single guys come with a couple that has vouched for him. Or we know him personally. We have very minimal issues over the years. And I’m not sure what someone said about a host over promising and under delivered. We don’t charge for our parties. And just expect all to BYOB and a snack. We always have different themes or none just a good old party. We have rooms to play for those that want. And we invite new people all the time. It’s the best people we have met in this lifestyle.

This is exactly how we handle it. We are perhaps a little different than some house party groups in that age, or physical attributes matter not. Maybe that's because we tend to be a little over weight or too old for some, ourselves! We have all types come and have a good time with no expectations of anything else. But...rooms tend to be visited pretty regularly.

Back to the original poster inquiry, why don't we post it here? Frankly, as some one else mentioned...it's crowd control. We used to post quite regularly, and it got to the point that so many were showing up, that it was just no fun for us.

So how do we do it now? We send invites from our friends list. Most of our friends know what our concerns are here, and we trust them to invite anyone else they want to. Ultimately, we love to meet new people, too!

AANDR wrote:

We used to get invites all the time. We are starting to think we are just getting old and boring so we don't get the invites anymore lol. We're always interested in house parties.

Hey you guys are awesome and are always invited to our parties!

Use to really enjoy the mansion always had good parties

We try to do monthly house parties

We wouldn't mind throwing or going to a house party. The most important things in our lives, like building connections or having fun, never feel urgent, so ppl tend to put them off. But those are the things I feel are worth the effort

We havent been to one in a while now. Kind of miss it.

Count us in fiestaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Im introducing my girl to the lifestyle. We’re wanting to set something up Saturday. We can’t hist but we are getting a room. If anyone can host or wants to come to the room let us know!

KittyBear wrote:

What is a house party like? I am guessing it is not a fuck puddle on the living room floor. Just wondering.

Well it can be... or not. Hosts usually set the tone and vet the guest list through invitations, recommendations, or even a more formal application process. Sometimes the venue is a private home or a rental property especially if it's larger. We haven't been to any that welcome single men and we prefer it that way.

Often there's a theme to get people in the mood and put in some effort. Sometimes people play in common areas and sometimes it's really restricted to separate areas like bedrooms, which can require you to discuss where your boundaries lie if guests play separately. Regardless, they're more intimate and without pressure really. Bad behavior stands out more when you see people repeatedly in a smaller setting and is more easily dealt with should it occur.

It is extremely difficult to have dinner with another couple, I am sure that a house party must be challenging. We will be delighted to attend one.

Athleticeuropean wrote:

It is extremely difficult to have dinner with another couple, I am sure that a house party must be challenging. We will be delighted to attend one.

We would disagree with that dinner with other couples is difficult. All of the couples we met in the SLC area were at dinner. We have also met great couples at parties but it is more impersonal sometimes. We prefer to get to know a couple over some conversation before disrobing. At a house party you better have something to say or be extremely hot because participation at most parties is why everyone is there unless it's just a meet and greet.

The best parties are those with people you know and the people they know. It makes the comfort level for play much better.