Do people actually hook up without ever even seeing who they are talking to? We are new to this lifestyle and still learning the ropes but personally I think if you have a profile and want to be discreet at least have private pictures for people to be able to see who they may potentially hook up with. I myself would like to see a face with the body LOL! If someone doesn't want me to see who they are and they have sent me a friend request well like I stated No face No ass lol!
Ha! Right on sista! Fellow freaks dont hide. Wave that freak flag high!!
dixierose wrote:Yep we always say most look pretty much the same from the neck down it’s the neck up that matters (looks and intellect). It also amazes us how many people without private pictures (with limited public pictures) ask to be friends with us?!?! What’s the point? We will show you ours if you show us yours 😀!
Do people actually hook up without ever even seeing who they are talking to? We are new to this lifestyle and still learning the ropes but personally I think if you have a profile and want to be discreet at least have private pictures for people to be able to see who they may potentially hook up with. I myself would like to see a face with the body LOL! If someone doesn't want me to see who they are and they have sent me a friend request well like I stated No face No ass lol!
Utahldscouple wrote:
Yep we always say most look pretty much the same from the neck down it’s the neck up that matters (looks and intellect). It also amazes us how many people without private pictures (with limited public pictures) ask to be friends with us?!?! What’s the point? We will show you ours if you show us yours 😀!
utahldscouole .... deal!
SweettAndH wrote:
utahldscouole .... deal!
Heck yeah Utahldscouple, deal for us too!
No.... people do not agree to meet in a dark room and play without seeing each other.... LoL -
Although, we can not count the number of times we have seen peoples faces for the first time over dinner or drinks or at a house party, which is fine. If people want to hold onto the anonymity right up to the last moment, more power to them. Some of these situations have turned out to be among the best people we've met on here. ( and turned out to be super sexy as well )
Moral of the story... everyone shows, just not on everyone else's expected timelines.
We are always willing to show, and have face pics in our private folder.
Although, we can not count the number of times we have seen peoples faces for the first time over dinner or drinks or at a house party, which is fine. If people want to hold onto the anonymity right up to the last moment, more power to them. Some of these situations have turned out to be among the best people we've met on here. ( and turned out to be super sexy as well )
Moral of the story... everyone shows, just not on everyone else's expected timelines.
We are always willing to show, and have face pics in our private folder.
dixierose wrote:
Do people actually hook up without ever even seeing who they are talking to? We are new to this lifestyle and still learning the ropes but personally I think if you have a profile and want to be discreet at least have private pictures for people to be able to see who they may potentially hook up with. I myself would like to see a face with the body LOL! If someone doesn't want me to see who they are and they have sent me a friend request well like I stated No face No ass lol!
SweettAndH wrote:Look what you started. Guess we will just have to go to a club and share for everyone 😂!Utahldscouple wrote:
Yep we always say most look pretty much the same from the neck down it’s the neck up that matters (looks and intellect). It also amazes us how many people without private pictures (with limited public pictures) ask to be friends with us?!?! What’s the point? We will show you ours if you show us yours 😀!
utahldscouole .... deal!
We have never met anyone without seeing a face, and even then we need a connection. We have talked to people on kik, shared pics and then planned to meet, but they wanted us to guarantee we would fuck regardless of chemistry. Them: "We have babysitters Friday from 7 to 12pm, so dinner then fucking by 830, no backing out. Either we guarantee we fuck, or we aren't meeting." Definitely not our style. We think even mid-fuck, if things aren't feeling right, we bail and hope the couple would have enough confidence and communication to do the same if they weren't feeling it. There is some eroticism about fucking someone you don't know (mask party or blindfolded scenario) but that's a very specific type of scenario.
We don’t have any face pics in our profile but are willing to share them. We want to stay discrete and swingular puts a watermark on the picture
letshavekinkyfun wrote:
We don’t have any face pics in our profile but are willing to share them. We want to stay discrete and swingular puts a watermark on the picture
Same. If you like the pictures on our profile then message us. We'll trade and see how it goes from there.
letshavekinkyfun wrote:
We don’t have any face pics in our profile but are willing to share them. We want to stay discrete and swingular puts a watermark on the picture
Exactly. What I don't get is why people put face pics in a private folder just to blur them out? Why?
We have been doing this for 9 years ,and always ask for current pictures ,( some of these profiles have pics that are 10 yrs and 50 lbs. ago ) a current selfie is always a good idea !!!
NAKEDBY9 wrote:We asked a couple directly why their photos with dates from 2008 and they said to show how long they have been swinging. That’s great but maybe put some up from at least 2018 too!
We have been doing this for 9 years ,and always ask for current pictures ,( some of these profiles have pics that are 10 yrs and 50 lbs. ago ) a current selfie is always a good idea !!!
You all seem to believe it's about anonymity when in reality it's about deception for many. Every site is loaded with accounts she doesn't know about, single males posing as females, photo collectors, and couples only interested in some fantasizing online to spice things up at home. The dated, blurred, borrowed, sneaky ones she didn't pose for, no photos are often designed for you to contribute to their personalized porn feed without reciprocating. Sorry, but of course you knew that already right?
I think alot of the no face pics profiles come from people being nervous they will be recognized by someone they know. Not understanding that the people they may know are here for the same thing!
Honestly it’s all about connect..and you never know unless you meet in person. We have met with opposition body types and had a out of mind experience. Never judge a book by its cover!!!!!
No face, no ass!?
We definitely need to see more pics than most couples put in their profile. Pics of both the male and female! And not of the hands, feet, toes or the angled, distorted or laying down pics...meant to hide one’s true shape or physical condition.
Not speaking for everyone, but we generally look for physical attraction first and chemistry second in order to make a connection. We are definitely not looking for the prom king & queen here, but if you can’t take care of your body (overweight & unhealthy looking), there would be no interest in going for a roll in the hay with us.
Now let the bling friend requests start rolling in...lol!
We definitely need to see more pics than most couples put in their profile. Pics of both the male and female! And not of the hands, feet, toes or the angled, distorted or laying down pics...meant to hide one’s true shape or physical condition.
Not speaking for everyone, but we generally look for physical attraction first and chemistry second in order to make a connection. We are definitely not looking for the prom king & queen here, but if you can’t take care of your body (overweight & unhealthy looking), there would be no interest in going for a roll in the hay with us.
Now let the bling friend requests start rolling in...lol!
Interesting thread, definitely helpful information. We are still investigating the LS. We will put up pictures to our profile but probably not face pics. Not even to a private folder. Im not sure id still have a job if my face pics were linked to a swinger site.
I do understand the need for body pics bc Of body style and the healthy body assessment. I get that 10000000%.
I appreciate reading the posts and profile information and its all very interesting. So far its looking like going to the social events and meeting face to face in a casual environment may be what we are best at. I think both of us are attractive and both of us are in ok shape but getting better every week.
We wont send blind friend requests bc we dont have pics, but would welcome any friend requests we receive.
Do keep posting threads like this bc its very helpful for us as we navigate our entry into the LS.
In any event we are more likely looking for something more steady and consistent than fucking everything that walks. But fuck sessions do sound like a lot of fun, wed just probably have needed to meet somewhere first. 🤷♂️
I do understand the need for body pics bc Of body style and the healthy body assessment. I get that 10000000%.
I appreciate reading the posts and profile information and its all very interesting. So far its looking like going to the social events and meeting face to face in a casual environment may be what we are best at. I think both of us are attractive and both of us are in ok shape but getting better every week.
We wont send blind friend requests bc we dont have pics, but would welcome any friend requests we receive.
Do keep posting threads like this bc its very helpful for us as we navigate our entry into the LS.
In any event we are more likely looking for something more steady and consistent than fucking everything that walks. But fuck sessions do sound like a lot of fun, wed just probably have needed to meet somewhere first. 🤷♂️
Friend or talk to yes, meet up NO
Hey sexy 🍌