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Yep, happened again. Browsing the forums on Swingular, looking at pictures, canvassing the personal ads of DoubleList, when you come across that picture that makes you take a double take.

Wait! Is that??

Bill and Mary from next door? I thought they were good church going people.

Hahahahahhaha, just makes you go, hummmmmm! Who else do I know is in the lifestyle.

Cheers!
Mav
kik maven2014
Shit. Can't change the misspelling of Swingular. :(

Head held in shame...... walking away........
I assume you’ve both confronted them?
My partners parents...
Find a way to go to lunch together and I assure you it will come up!
We always hope to see someone we know but never do!!!
I'm always thinking if my neighbors are in here... anyone near Indian hills JH??? Hahahaha
Shit we wish we had neighbors on here. Anyone in the tooele (overlake) area here?
Or a co-worker....
I (the hubby) have a few co-workers that are in the Lifestyle, but we don't play with co-workers. Now if only we can find some of our neighbors, lol
Former colleague who knows a family member. I keep getting friend requests from them and continually reject them.
Loverofthewife wrote:

OURDOUBLELIFE2G wrote:

I assume you’ve both confronted them?

Nope. Huge HR violation. Can you imagine?
“Hi Steve. I think about what you look like naked every time I see you in staff meetings. I would say that’s a six, maybe seven incher you’ve got there?”


I had a good laugh with a co-worker a few years ago about us both being on the site. It was fun. Until HR got involved. LOL
We’re looking forward to meeting new neighbors. We sold our house and have rented in old Farmington near the lagoon offices. So if anyone sees us feel free to say hello.
Years ago, one of our co workers said hello to us on this sight but didn't have enough information for us to identify him. We were nervous for weeks until he finally identified himself. We took a very deep breath and sigh of relief. Later, got to know him and his wife very well and shared some very fun moments together. Time has separated us and we rarely see or hear from them now, but what memories we shared and will never forget.
My neighbor is on here! 😂she knows I know! Soooo her hubby I work with doesn’t have a clue and every time I go to lunch with him he talks about the swinging lifestyle. I’m like if you only knew what I know that you don’t know about me. Lol 😂 im just waiting for them to approach me together and then I just might break my silence?
😂😁🤣
Haven't seen any neighbors on Swingular but, at parties, we HAVE run into people we previously thought were vanilla acquaintances and even, once, a family member!
Neighbor, high school acquaintance, cousin, daughters teacher, ex best friends sister in law. We’ve had a few.
Damn, folks!! When do i get my owset of freaky neighborhood m
ismelloa wrote:

Loverofthewife wrote:

[quote=OURDOUBLELIFE2G]I assume you’ve both confronted them?

Nope. Huge HR violation. Can you imagine?
“Hi Steve. I think about what you look like naked every time I see you in staff meetings. I would say that’s a six, maybe seven incher you’ve got there?”

that would be embarassing[/quote]

Wait, wait, that's NOT accessible!?! 🙁😔😯
Our neighbors were a very sexy couple. Loved playing with them. Really wish they never moved.
And here i talk about wanting neighbora to play with and i get a coworker joining my tooele kik group instead
And here i talk about wanting neighbora to play with and i get a coworker joining my tooele kik group instead
CentralFling wrote:

My neighbor is on here! 😂she knows I know! Soooo her hubby I work with doesn’t have a clue and every time I go to lunch with him he talks about the swinging lifestyle. I’m like if you only knew what I know that you don’t know about me. Lol 😂 im just waiting for them to approach me together and then I just might break my silence?


Wait! Are you saying the hubby doesn't know she's on Swingular? Or that he doesn't know that you know he's on Swingular? I'm confused as to what your neighbor has no clue about.
I can't even begin to tell you how many people we know, and work with, and have run into on the website and parties...got to be at least a dozen so far.
Great thread to read! Always in the backs of our heads who else is around us that is part of the lifestyle. Recognized a couple at Twigs once.
We wish we'd run into one set of our neighbors on here
LinaK wrote:

Great thread to read! Always in the backs of our heads who else is around us that is part of the lifestyle. Recognized a couple at Twigs once.
We are always there and have wondered how many other couples are there like us 😀!
I can think of some neighbors I'd love to run across here :)
Bawhahaha
Oh, sooooo many experiences I have had .

Ran into a HS friend at a meet-n-greet.

Found out that one of my best friends in HS was in the LS when her husband hit on me .

A former boss knew and outed me to the whole company . Instead of working, everyone gathered their chairs around my desk to ask me questions . Then our IT guy offered to pay my way to parties if I would take him .

Those are only the few I know about . I will no longer be surprised when I uncover more .
Dang, we haven't seen anyone we know, or been recognized yet from here ... but then we also don’t show our faces in our public folder. We keep wondering when someone will recognize us from our kinky Fetlife profile photos and videos lol ... that will be interesting when it happens.
It's happened a lot to us... my favorite was going to an event seeing a male coworker fucking in the play area, I spent the rest of the time in the play area making sure my wife blocked my view from him.
ROCKYMTN2 wrote:

We know a couple business related acquaintances that are on here. we laugh at it because, first we would have NEVER pegged them as such. Second, they would freak out if they ever thought that they had been identified on here.
If anyone knows us please tell us 😀 in person!


Loverofthewife wrote:

OURDOUBLELIFE2G wrote:

I assume you’ve both confronted them?

Nope. Huge HR violation. Can you imagine?
“Hi Steve. I think about what you look like naked every time I see you in staff meetings. I would say that’s a six, maybe seven incher you’ve got there?”
hahaha...I used to work for a company that I knew 6 or 7 people that were on the site. just can't get away from it
We've had several people message us to tell us they know us, but they're never willing to tell us who they are and they dont have any pics on their profile.
On a different forum a girl I went to high school with saw me. Then she friended me on facebook and I realized why. We went to dinner to catch up, but nothing more.
Fun69times wrote:

We've had several people message us to tell us they know us, but they're never willing to tell us who they are and they dont have any pics on their profile.
Wow that’s creepy!
No way.... parents?! That’s would be crazy to run across.

We have found several people we knew as well it’s always a funny double take!
Would love to see the neighbors that live in our building. A couple of weeks ago they were getting out of their car while we were as well. She had a 6 pack of angry orchard. While my wife was carrying a box of liquor bottles and I was carrying two boxes of beer to restock our bar. We took the stairs while they took the elevator and missed the most likely awkward moment...instead of what we planned in our head.
I don't think this story matches this topic. But here it goes...

We lived in the south of Spain from 2015 to 2018 and became very close lifestylewise with a super cute Andalusian girl and her male partner, both around our ages. On a more vanilla balmy weekend evening, we had the couple and her smoking hot young adult daughter with her handsome boyfriend over for some BBQ, drinks, music and pool fun at our beach place in Puerto Santa Maria. Them being Spanish and very open about sex, our friend's daughter knew what was up. Also, all ladies were topless at the pool to begin with (our friend's partner is not the her daughter's biological father)

After nightfall, our friend's daughter expressed interest and curiosity about being with a girl. So, my wife Susana, being such a good sport, offered the young lady to join her in our bedroom. It did not took much convincing. They left the patio giggling holding hands into the house, we heard the bedroom door closing.

Everyone else died from envy.

The End.
Sometimes I'll be in my local Smiths or at my gym and think to myself "I've seen that person's picture somewhere" or "do I know them?"
It's happened to us twice. Unfortunately, they were both work related. The first couple's husband is a major client of mine. We had to block them because I didn't want any awkwardness to affect our business relationship. The second was a single guy who works with my wife. It would be nice to recognize someone not work related though
Our first encounter came right as we set up our account on here a few years ago. My wife had a coworker who's husband used to be an admin on here. He thought that maybe I had set up the account on here without my wife's knowledge (in actuality it was my wife that found this site and set up the account) so he confronted her about the account through his wife, which meant that my wife's mom also found out since they used to work together. She was so embarrassed.

Next one came at a meet and greet where I met the parents of a friend from high school. Followed closely by finding their daughter (my friend from high school) on a different dating site where I found out she was also in the lifestyle.

There have been a few others, but the most recent one came as I recently found an ex-coworker on here. He and his wife are actually quite active but I haven't hit them up to say hi, yet.
Loverofthewife wrote:

One of my EMPLOYEES is on here. With a cock shot. So that’s fun every time I go into the office.


Hahaha lmfao.
Our accountant and a couple we know have reached out to us on swing sites before, ended up playing with the couple for years
NaughtyAlder wrote:

PARTYINLV wrote:

It's happened to us twice. Unfortunately, they were both work related. The first couple's husband is a major client of mine. We had to block them because I didn't want any awkwardness to affect our business relationship. The second was a single guy who works with my wife. It would be nice to recognize someone not work related though

Your wife is gorgeous!! Both of us, wish we worked with her ;-)


awwww... you're too kind. Thank you for the nice comment.
An old work buddy found us year after last we talked. Him and his lovely are fun to say the least!
I have found current and past coworkers. I messaged them directly always fun and great to share experiences with. I wish I found my neighbors in here especially if they are open to single males..A guy can dream right
That sure would make things easier!
Haven’t seen our neighbors, but we have our suspicions... 😂
We have have run into customers, employees and friends on this site. We aren’t shocked to see anyone these days.
VANESSA_BABY wrote:

My partners parents...


Haha! Way worse than finding coworkers or neighbors!
I never run into people I know lol. I'm kinda jealous.
That naked pic at Jackson Square....haha love it.
Neighbors...no...coworkers and peeps from the bowling league, definite maybe....
We went to a house party and saw our neighbors there, great friends now. We've found some friends from way back in high school on here. Awkward at first but they turned out to be quite fun 😉😉. We were also messaged by my husbands cousin on here. Luckily they posted face pics or that could've become a really bad encounter, instant block.
Naughtytooelecpl wrote:

Shit we wish we had neighbors on here. Anyone in the tooele (overlake) area here?


My wife and I are out here in Tooele, it's rare to find people out here in our experience.
We have found co-workers and neighbors, I guess as long as people are mature and respectful, and don't talk about it in front of others, it should be just fine.
We have found co-workers and neighbors, I guess as long as people are mature and respectful, and don't talk about it in front of others, it should be just fine.
Agreed. We've run into the same situations. It's all about integrity and respect.