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I hesitate to even post a topic like this after many years of being in lifestyle and seeing this type of post come and go on a regular base. However, here I go throwing my hat into the ring with caution.

My wife, (and I), are looking for a GENTLEMAN to become a FWB for my wife on an extended period of time. Not a wham bam thank you ma'am evening. I use the term gentleman because I realize there are a lot of men who enjoy the pleasure of spending a brief encounter with someone's wife just for sex or quick entertainment. There is nothing wrong with that as long as both parties are in agreement. We are not looking for the quickee, rather someone who can become a friend mostly to my wife who can enjoy her company with the respect she deserves. She would like to find someone who can enjoy a social life as well as the more intimate moments. She would love to have a friend who can on occasion have an intense spur of the moment rendezvous, planned evenings together for fun as well as lunch together or texting. I don't think I need to fill in the gaps. There would be occasions that I may be present, others times she would be out on her own. In order for this relationship to work out, it would be beneficial if a mutual attraction is there and a feeling of trust and respect between everyone.

We would like to be selective to make sure who ever we invite into our marriage compliments our relationship rather than raises any concerns. Cyn and I love each other, always will, always come first before anyone else. If you think you would fit in and enjoy a friendship with a very attractive and sweet lady, please contact us.
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Your words say a lot. You have a tremendous love for your sweetheart. It tells me that you guys value yourselves and are looking for something special. Just wanted to at least recognize, what all of us single males, should recognize and appreciate. PM’ed you.
I forgot to mention, that I enjoyed an experience like that for over two years, before the couple moved to Texas. It was very special and fun.
My compliments on such a well drafted introduction.
That is very much the type relationship I would love to find on here too.
Let me know if you might be interested too.
Jay ;)
Regarding this topic, I have a question.. I am the other half of HYM4CYN and don't come here often. I follow what my husband does but keep to myself a lot of the time. I have had an interest of enjoying the pleasure of the company of other men for social and other reasons. I admit to being clumsy about getting back into lifestyle which tends to make me shy and awkward in dealing with others. I guess I am sort of a hotwife, I don't need to have my husband around but rely on him to help me find a trustworthy sole. Now, my question, what is it the single men are really looking for? Since I put my feet back in the water I have been stood up several times and unable to find that FWB / NSA. What am I missing? What is it single guys want? I am learning why people seem to feel apprehension when inviting men into their private lives. Is it age?
CYNANDHIM wrote:

Regarding this topic, I have a question.. I am the other half of HYM4CYN and don't come here often. I follow what my husband does but keep to myself a lot of the time. I have had an interest of enjoying the pleasure of the company of other men for social and other reasons. I admit to being clumsy about getting back into lifestyle which tends to make me shy and awkward in dealing with others. I guess I am sort of a hotwife, I don't need to have my husband around but rely on him to help me find a trustworthy sole. Now, my question, what is it the single men are really looking for? Since I put my feet back in the water I have been stood up several times and unable to find that FWB / NSA. What am I missing? What is it single guys want? I am learning why people seem to feel apprehension when inviting men into their private lives. Is it age?
Usually sex without any effort or work :D!
Where is the fun in that UTAHLDS? I like a little flirtation and teasing to get the mood set.
In my experience, a lot of single guys join swinger sites and attend swinger events prematurely. They are uncertain if they want to participate, but they are turned on by the photos and the fantasy of it--so they very actively "almost" join in the fun. While some single females also join out of curiosity or the potential to fulfill a fantasy, they aren't typically turned on or living out a partial fantasy just by perusing/contacting others on the site. In other words, many of the men that flake have likely lived out the fantasy they are currently ready to seek out just by exchanging photos and/or making arrangements to meet an attractive woman/couple. Such guys are frequently labeled as flakey or creepy. Of course, there are some genuine flakes and creeps, but I think a majority of those guys are just not committed to following through on the entire fantasy, at least not enough to supercede their anxieties associated with showing up or getting naked. Consider them like a premature ejaculation. If they stick around long enough to develop relationships and expand their fantasies, they will eventually last long enough to show up and follow through. That said, there are also gentleman in the lifestyle who know what they want and are ready to keep their commitments, they are just more rare.
I would love the opportunity to entertain your wife she looks very sexy..
I had an ongoing relationship with a couple in the past, and it was some of the most fun I have ever had.
Definitely interested in meeting and seeing if I am a good fit. My kik is Rubicon999. Take a look and let me know what you think.
Lovely wife! Would love to meet her but sadly the distance is to far to do that.
Hope you achieve your goal.
I am definitely interested, very respectful. If you are interested in meeting please send me a note. If not I wish you both the very best of luck in what you are looking for, life is meant could be happy
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