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Haven't seen this particular topic on this site very often so I thought I'd throw it out there and maybe even make it into a poll. It's much easier for the ladies to decide what to wear for a particular type of event. Sexy (But not TOO sexy if it's out in public!) is always a good choice.

For guys it's much harder. So I thought it would be fun to get the female perspective for what women would like to see a potential playmate wear, say, for the first time you're meeting them for drinks or a 'meet and greet' or whatever.

1) Casual- Jeans and a t-shirt or maybe a button-down shirt with a collar. MAYBE shorts if it's really hot out, but no fucking socks with sandals!

2) Grunge- Doubtful many would choose this option but what the hell. Ripped, dirty jeans and an old stretched out Metallica t-shirt. A hoodie with a big fry sauce stain and...well, you get the picture. LOL

3) Business casual- Maybe some nice khakis of Docker-type pants or, better, some nice jeans with a button-down shirt and maybe even a blazer.

4) A fuckin' suit. LIKE A BOSS! (with or without a tie).

5) Other, please specify.

Hopefully this thread will get some traction as Ms. Evil is more often than not a little disappointed with what some guys wear to meet in general.
So what is Mrs. Evil's preference?
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:

So what is Mrs. Evil's preference?


It depends, somewhat, on the guy, but in general, she prefers they put at least a LITTLE thought and effort into what they decide to wear and to what's appropriate to a given venue (bar, restaurant, yacht club, Mormon temple Celestial Room, etc.).
4 - A man in a suit is always sexy!!
First impressions are very important. To me the connection, or not, begins with my initial impression. If you want to ruin or greatly diminish the possible connection, show up in ratty, wrinkled, or torn clothing. There is always a time and a place for everything though. If the situation is appropriate to be wearing a T-Shirt when we meet, please make sure it is nice and pressed and not torn or wrinkled like you just pulled it out of the drawer you stuffed it in when you took it out of the dryer. Take pride in yourself and the way you look and in turn it shows me that you will respect me as well. Just my take.
This is a great topic. Business casual is almost always appropriate and shows you put in some thought and effort to look nice. Too casual to me says you think this is a done deal (nope) or are just not excited about the meet up AND if you're not even putting in effort to look nice, it makes me wonder if that lack of effort carries into activities in the bedroom as well ๐Ÿค”
We actually do own clothing!
Jeans, nice T-Shirt or a button down shirt, with a suit jacket. Last time I saw this combo he was coming out of a store and I rubber necked and ran into the door...
Who the fuck taught the OP how to spell "menswear"? He probably thinks Colorado is on the border with Mexico too. JEEZUS!
EVILDOERS wrote:

Who the fuck taught the OP how to spell "menswear"? He probably thinks Colorado is on the border with Mexico too. JEEZUS!
Yeah itโ€™s Menswearhouse not Menswarehouse ๐Ÿ˜€! We saw that but figured weโ€™d play nice!
I always wear a tuxedo with pink crocks. Don't want to overdo it.
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:

I always wear a tuxedo with pink crocks. Don't want to overdo it.


Well, it IS breast cancer awareness month but I always wear my orange ones this close to Halloween.
Utahldscouple wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

Who the fuck taught the OP how to spell "menswear"? He probably thinks Colorado is on the border with Mexico too. JEEZUS!
Yeah itโ€™s Menswearhouse not Menswarehouse ๐Ÿ˜€! We saw that but figured weโ€™d play nice!


To be fair, Ms. Evil would TOTALLY be on board with a men's warehouse if she could browse thru their inventory and pick a few (But NEVER from the Bargain Bin!) to take home and play with.
LIVINLVN1 wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

Well, it IS breast cancer awareness month but I always wear my orange ones this close to Halloween.

And we all should be constantly aware of breasts!!!


Dunno 'bout you but I have been CONSTANTLY aware since about age eleven or twelve!
Utahldscouple wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

Who the fuck taught the OP how to spell "menswear"? He probably thinks Colorado is on the border with Mexico too. JEEZUS!
Yeah itโ€™s Menswearhouse not Menswarehouse ๐Ÿ˜€! We saw that but figured weโ€™d play nice!
Gives a whole new meaning to the big and tall section ๐Ÿ˜€!
I always dress Puertorrican:
No shirt
Denim shorts
Hat backwards
diamond earrings and gold chain
Air Jordans
Beer in one hand
Always talking
3 or 4.Was it ZZ Top that had song about a well dressed Man?