I know this subject gets beat up on, but seriously so sick of the... we are down to play... well, she isnt but I am after numerous texts and time waster. Happens more and more frequently. If your spouse isnt on board to play, cancel your account and make one as a single dude.
My biggest beef with it is.. A. Your wasting my time, I could give a shit less about yours if your the one lying about it. And B, the biggest is... I bet 99% of the time this happens your sharing pictures of a wife or a gf or an ex who has no idea you are sharing. It would tickle my ass to find these females and let then know there ex partners are sending dirty pics of them to whoever they please.
Sorry for the vent session, i really wish we could get a thread going with all these peoples names but I know that would just turn into chaos. There may have been a time or two where we couldnt meet w a couple and we appeared as flakes for one reason or another. But we are who we say we are. We both chat. We both verify with live pics. We are both interested. Several members could vouch we are real. Just frustrating.
My biggest beef with it is.. A. Your wasting my time, I could give a shit less about yours if your the one lying about it. And B, the biggest is... I bet 99% of the time this happens your sharing pictures of a wife or a gf or an ex who has no idea you are sharing. It would tickle my ass to find these females and let then know there ex partners are sending dirty pics of them to whoever they please.
Sorry for the vent session, i really wish we could get a thread going with all these peoples names but I know that would just turn into chaos. There may have been a time or two where we couldnt meet w a couple and we appeared as flakes for one reason or another. But we are who we say we are. We both chat. We both verify with live pics. We are both interested. Several members could vouch we are real. Just frustrating.
Great posts guys.. through the years we have noticed all the same things time after time and even come across a guy in real life that was posing as a couple, what a fucking loser as he tried to explain his wife’s illness and that just made it worse, there was nothing wrong with her other than she had no idea of what was going on lol
We have never had it happen the way you described. Our experiences is that one person in the couple just was not as interested in playing. Perhaps its the age difference in who you are seeking to play with. We can detect false circumstances before we meet a couple most of the time but we can never predict what the experience is like when we get our clothes off and thats ok.
Our explanation is probably not one you are gonna like but you get situations that "waste your time". Learn how to laugh it off and just move on. Hopefully you will find that circle of people who love to play and when you get together its a really great time.
Good luck and dont get frustrated. You have a lot of years to be swinging and you guys are you and from what we see very nicely proportioned.
Our explanation is probably not one you are gonna like but you get situations that "waste your time". Learn how to laugh it off and just move on. Hopefully you will find that circle of people who love to play and when you get together its a really great time.
Good luck and dont get frustrated. You have a lot of years to be swinging and you guys are you and from what we see very nicely proportioned.
We’ve run across this a bit too. We’ve found there is one easy-to-spot red flag that indicates a single asshole male posing as couple, heretofore referred to as a SAMPAC.
Complexity!!!
The more confusing his stories, excuses or reasons, the more he is lying. “I can only meet daytime on the fourth Tuesday of the month”, what’s not said is “while my wife is at relief society presidency meeting”. They only text certain times of the day. They flake because of some way too complicated reason - “my cousin in Connecticut sent an overnight express package of rare dog medicine I need to pick up from DHL so I can save my grandma’s chihuahua named pickles life from flesh eating worms he picked up from eating a hot diaper in the park”.
We get it, we’re all busy, we have work, we have families. We all cancel, we all flake. We had to cancel our plans last week because of a child, who the hell hasn’t had to do that???
. But when it’s always too hard it’s just because of lies.
We had a post up just recently for a mfm and got a good response. As I said we didn’t end up hanging with anyone but, when someone asked for a picture we TOOK one, and sent it. It’s easy to verify if their real. Cut them off soon and save yourself some time.
B of BnK
Complexity!!!
The more confusing his stories, excuses or reasons, the more he is lying. “I can only meet daytime on the fourth Tuesday of the month”, what’s not said is “while my wife is at relief society presidency meeting”. They only text certain times of the day. They flake because of some way too complicated reason - “my cousin in Connecticut sent an overnight express package of rare dog medicine I need to pick up from DHL so I can save my grandma’s chihuahua named pickles life from flesh eating worms he picked up from eating a hot diaper in the park”.
We get it, we’re all busy, we have work, we have families. We all cancel, we all flake. We had to cancel our plans last week because of a child, who the hell hasn’t had to do that???
. But when it’s always too hard it’s just because of lies.We had a post up just recently for a mfm and got a good response. As I said we didn’t end up hanging with anyone but, when someone asked for a picture we TOOK one, and sent it. It’s easy to verify if their real. Cut them off soon and save yourself some time.
B of BnK
@ucouple: well said! Kudos
We have this happen all the time. The latest was an account from here, Adamann. We had a group kik going, the wife never says anything (ok, maybe busy or not in to it), then she messages out of no where and says "...just trying to find a lady for my man tonight."
Oh this guy is a charmer too. Sends the most ridiculousness dick shots that no one asked for. BLOCK!
Oh this guy is a charmer too. Sends the most ridiculousness dick shots that no one asked for. BLOCK!
We have message people back on here for potential orgy or meet up and it never goes anywhere. Or we get directed to kik and it seems like it's a catfish. As in the pictures dont really match what is set up on here. I think what scares people is we're a couple plus one mfm? To much meat and not enough bun lol.
COUPLE801801 wrote:
I know this subject gets beat up on, but seriously so sick of the... we are down to play... well, she isnt but I am after numerous texts and time waster. Happens more and more frequently. If your spouse isnt on board to play, cancel your account and make one as a single dude.
My biggest beef with it is.. A. Your wasting my time, I could give a shit less about yours if your the one lying about it. And B, the biggest is... I bet 99% of the time this happens your sharing pictures of a wife or a gf or an ex who has no idea you are sharing. It would tickle my ass to find these females and let then know there ex partners are sending dirty pics of them to whoever they please.
Sorry for the vent session, i really wish we could get a thread going with all these peoples names but I know that would just turn into chaos. There may have been a time or two where we couldnt meet w a couple and we appeared as flakes for one reason or another. But we are who we say we are. We both chat. We both verify with live pics. We are both interested. Several members could vouch we are real. Just frustrating.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Amen 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Really hate to say it to you sexy ass couples on here, but you are getting on here with the wrong mindset. OMG we wish this was a fun judgement free, local community, but it’s really not. We are newer than most and I think things have changed here from what we have heard.
One of the first questions you ask is who your talking to and if it’s the guy where is she and is she interested. I have a couple screening questions before pass them to the wife but I would much rather her setup couples dates.
Second do they have another form of communication? Who doesn’t have 5 minutes to download some form of messaging app that all parties can group up and talk? More than likely they are hiding from someone and don’t want an app on their phone. If they play the discreet card p2p encryption is way safer than anything on a web page or email.
Third, ask for a current face picture of both people. If they hesitate then likely something dishonest is going on.
I could go on with blind friend requests and so on but you get the idea. Go in with a suspicious mindset and your valuable time will be better spent.
I’m not saying there isn’t great people who are members here, they just used this place to find kik groups and parties and are happy and don’t use this site for match making.
I feel the few of honest people are here looking for something more and having to wade through all the ones that really shouldn’t be on here. The wife loves the butterflies from first encounters so we always seem to be looking even though we have some awesome groups and great LS friends.
One of the first questions you ask is who your talking to and if it’s the guy where is she and is she interested. I have a couple screening questions before pass them to the wife but I would much rather her setup couples dates.
Second do they have another form of communication? Who doesn’t have 5 minutes to download some form of messaging app that all parties can group up and talk? More than likely they are hiding from someone and don’t want an app on their phone. If they play the discreet card p2p encryption is way safer than anything on a web page or email.
Third, ask for a current face picture of both people. If they hesitate then likely something dishonest is going on.
I could go on with blind friend requests and so on but you get the idea. Go in with a suspicious mindset and your valuable time will be better spent.
I’m not saying there isn’t great people who are members here, they just used this place to find kik groups and parties and are happy and don’t use this site for match making.
I feel the few of honest people are here looking for something more and having to wade through all the ones that really shouldn’t be on here. The wife loves the butterflies from first encounters so we always seem to be looking even though we have some awesome groups and great LS friends.
Ucouple wrote:
We’ve run across this a bit too. We’ve found there is one easy-to-spot red flag that indicates a single asshole male posing as couple, heretofore referred to as a SAMPAC.
Complexity!!!
The more confusing his stories, excuses or reasons, the more he is lying. “I can only meet daytime on the fourth Tuesday of the month”, what’s not said is “while my wife is at relief society presidency meeting”. They only text certain times of the day. They flake because of some way too complicated reason - “my cousin in Connecticut sent an overnight express package of rare dog medicine I need to pick up from DHL so I can save my grandma’s chihuahua named pickles life from flesh eating worms he picked up from eating a hot diaper in the park”.
We get it, we’re all busy, we have work, we have families. We all cancel, we all flake. We had to cancel our plans last week because of a child, who the hell hasn’t had to do that???
We had a post up just recently for a mfm and got a good response. As I said we didn’t end up hanging with anyone but, when someone asked for a picture we TOOK one, and sent it. It’s easy to verify if their real. Cut them off soon and save yourself some time.
B of BnK
Did somebody really say they needed to save pickles? Roflmao
COUPLE801801 wrote:
I know this subject gets beat up on, but seriously so sick of the... we are down to play... well, she isnt but I am after numerous texts and time waster. Happens more and more frequently. If your spouse isnt on board to play, cancel your account and make one as a single dude.
Seeing yer rant and seeing that last sentence makes me feel like I made the right choice in doing the single male acct lol. Not that my lady isnt on board, we just have different tastes in people that has a narrow overlap, and shes a demi so people on websites isnt something she can connect with or develop attraction from.
Here is the problem. 90% of the couples on this website are afraid to show their faces until the last minute. Unfortunately for most physical attraction is still about looks and not penis and breast size. Also if people were honest about their age and what the truly look like, that would help as well. Sorry if that offends anyone but it’s the truth.
Okay, okay! So just so I'm clear...
A. Stop loading our profile with a parade of dick pics.
2. Tell my wife we have a profile on this site.
4. Don't let my grandma's dog eat hot diapers when I walk it in the park.
B. Tell my cousin the Driver's Hopelessly Lost with the dog medicine.
- Download this new KiK app asap and establish an account so I can message on National Fruitcake Toss Day, National Whipped Cream Day, National Bubble Bath Day, National Rubber Ducky Day, Squirrel Appreciation Day, National Sticky Bun Day, National Worship of Tools Day, Steak and BJ Day, National Wear Your PJs to Work Day, Hairball Awareness Day, National Zipper Day...
* And stay off this site while my wife is at the shelter serving meals to the homeless.
So many rules. BTW, what's swinging?
A. Stop loading our profile with a parade of dick pics.
2. Tell my wife we have a profile on this site.
4. Don't let my grandma's dog eat hot diapers when I walk it in the park.
B. Tell my cousin the Driver's Hopelessly Lost with the dog medicine.
- Download this new KiK app asap and establish an account so I can message on National Fruitcake Toss Day, National Whipped Cream Day, National Bubble Bath Day, National Rubber Ducky Day, Squirrel Appreciation Day, National Sticky Bun Day, National Worship of Tools Day, Steak and BJ Day, National Wear Your PJs to Work Day, Hairball Awareness Day, National Zipper Day...
* And stay off this site while my wife is at the shelter serving meals to the homeless.
So many rules. BTW, what's swinging?
Hey
Hey
SexyPowSkiers wrote:
Okay, okay! So just so I'm clear...
A. Stop loading our profile with a parade of dick pics.
2. Tell my wife we have a profile on this site.
4. Don't let my grandma's dog eat hot diapers when I walk it in the park.
B. Tell my cousin the Driver's Hopelessly Lost with the dog medicine.
- Download this new KiK app asap and establish an account so I can message on National Fruitcake Toss Day, National Whipped Cream Day, National Bubble Bath Day, National Rubber Ducky Day, Squirrel Appreciation Day, National Sticky Bun Day, National Worship of Tools Day, Steak and BJ Day, National Wear Your PJs to Work Day, Hairball Awareness Day, National Zipper Day...
* And stay off this site while my wife is at the shelter serving meals to the homeless.
So many rules. BTW, what's swinging?
Roflmao! Yup you got it!
JadedVeteran wrote:Ucouple wrote:
We’ve run across this a bit too. We’ve found there is one easy-to-spot red flag that indicates a single asshole male posing as couple, heretofore referred to as a SAMPAC.
Complexity!!!
The more confusing his stories, excuses or reasons, the more he is lying. “I can only meet daytime on the fourth Tuesday of the month”, what’s not said is “while my wife is at relief society presidency meeting”. They only text certain times of the day. They flake because of some way too complicated reason - “my cousin in Connecticut sent an overnight express package of rare dog medicine I need to pick up from DHL so I can save my grandma’s chihuahua named pickles life from flesh eating worms he picked up from eating a hot diaper in the park”.
We get it, we’re all busy, we have work, we have families. We all cancel, we all flake. We had to cancel our plans last week because of a child, who the hell hasn’t had to do that???
We had a post up just recently for a mfm and got a good response. As I said we didn’t end up hanging with anyone but, when someone asked for a picture we TOOK one, and sent it. It’s easy to verify if their real. Cut them off soon and save yourself some time.
B of BnK
Did somebody really say they needed to save pickles? Roflmao
You got this guy too? Maybe he's legit if we aren't the only ones. I'll download that app and let y'all know how it goes! 🤞
One of the ways we avoid this is to create a group text or chat between all people in both couples. This way we know everyone is on board and feels the same way about it. Plus we really enjoy the group flirting and naughty talk.
KeJ wrote:
One of the ways we avoid this is to create a group text or chat between all people in both couples. This way we know everyone is on board and feels the same way about it. Plus we really enjoy the group flirting and naughty talk.
That's a really good idea. Suggest everyone get on a group text or on Kik or whatever. Still prolly won't get rid of ALL the flakes but might cut down on the ones who are really just a dude who hasn't told wifey or doesn't even actually HAVE a partner.