This site has become really stagnant as of late, searches for what we are looking for are turning up mostly the same small handful of profiles which usually are
A. Somewhere we’ve been before and don’t want to go down that road for one reason or another
B. A profile we don’t find to be compatible with us for one reason or another
C. A profile we’ve reached out to and gotten no response, either they didn’t find us compatible or aren’t active enough on here to be checking their profile
D. Further away than we would like
So I was wondering, does anyone have a good Facebook secret group mainly in Utah that is for either swingers and/or polyamorous people? Feel free to message info if you’d rather not broadcast. Thanxx.
A. Somewhere we’ve been before and don’t want to go down that road for one reason or another
B. A profile we don’t find to be compatible with us for one reason or another
C. A profile we’ve reached out to and gotten no response, either they didn’t find us compatible or aren’t active enough on here to be checking their profile
D. Further away than we would like
So I was wondering, does anyone have a good Facebook secret group mainly in Utah that is for either swingers and/or polyamorous people? Feel free to message info if you’d rather not broadcast. Thanxx.
I'm interested in this. I live in St george.
Having the same issue. Interested.
So, for Polyamory there's the Utah Polyamory Society.
I'll caution anyone who's wanting to join that it's not a dating group, but a support page. There's also a trend of people voicing frustrations with people who want sex too quickly. So keep that in mind. There's also rules against blind fb friend requests and blind fb messages. So, if there's someone you want to talk to, I'll recommend that you leave a comment of, "hey are you okay with chatting with me?" Or something to that effect.
As far as swinging FB groups go, I don't know.
I'll caution anyone who's wanting to join that it's not a dating group, but a support page. There's also a trend of people voicing frustrations with people who want sex too quickly. So keep that in mind. There's also rules against blind fb friend requests and blind fb messages. So, if there's someone you want to talk to, I'll recommend that you leave a comment of, "hey are you okay with chatting with me?" Or something to that effect.
As far as swinging FB groups go, I don't know.
zugzug wrote:
So, for Polyamory there's the Utah Polyamory Society.
I'll caution anyone who's wanting to join that it's not a dating group, but a support page. There's also a trend of people voicing frustrations with people who want sex too quickly. So keep that in mind. There's also rules against blind fb friend requests and blind fb messages. So, if there's someone you want to talk to, I'll recommend that you leave a comment of, "hey are you okay with chatting with me?" Or something to that effect.
As far as swinging FB groups go, I don't know.
I can see that. I can see how someone who says they’re “looking for swinging and/or polyamory” might be perceived as someone looking to exploit polyamory for sexual purposes as a primary motivator. In some cases, more shady people than us actually probably do that. Just to put myself out there and make myself perfectly clear, we do have a true interest in polyamory. Our ideal “situation” (and we’ve had it before but unfortunately it blew up in our faces) is that I (guy) am in a polyamorous relationship with the girl of another married couple, and her husband is in a polyamorous relationship with my wife. It’s fine if sex takes awhile to build up to, we just want that “click” or at the risk of sounding like a teenager “spark”.
Gotcha. I figured if you were actively looking for a local poly group, you already had a clear idea that polyamory is what you and your wife need.
The extra information was just provided to let people make a more informed choice before requesting to join.
The extra information was just provided to let people make a more informed choice before requesting to join.
I have heard there is a Utah swingers group but it’s a secret group so I’ve yet to find it. Essentially need to know someone in it in order to get in. Hopefully someone on here is in it!
Looking for a truly bi Male to start a true friendship
Just a thought as to Facebook. Every keystroke you perform in Facebook it is Recorders’s for ever. Even after you delete a post. If you are ever in a lawsuit you can count on the attorney to demand a copy of your entire history. It’s easy to pull up takes a bit for FB to export but simple.
Our thoughts are we are what we are and not ashamed of anything we do so if it came out no big deal. But many folks would or could be devastated by such info coming out in a court proceeding,
But have fun... we do!
Our thoughts are we are what we are and not ashamed of anything we do so if it came out no big deal. But many folks would or could be devastated by such info coming out in a court proceeding,
But have fun... we do!
I run the Northern Utah Polyamory Dating facebook group with the main idea that people try to meet to go on dates unlike the other poly group(UPS). If any of you are interested in meeting poly people here is the link.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/NUPolyDating
https://www.facebook.com/groups/NUPolyDating
Oasis and echo are Utah LS Facebook groups.
We have tried this ourselves and found there is never mutual connections for all four. So we’ve gone a different route. She has her circle of partners/friends, we have each other, and I have myself lol (never seem to find a good match for me but still looking.
MMS wrote:
We have tried this ourselves and found there is never mutual connections for all four. So we’ve gone a different route. She has her circle of partners/friends, we have each other, and I have myself lol (never seem to find a good match for me but still looking.
This is us. For the most part we prefer playing alone or threesomes, but like you it is much easier for my wife to find interested men.
We’ve wondered about this for a long time... and have always wanted to find a group on fb of like minded folks that’s easier to communicate with and talk about ls things...
surely they’re all private, hidden groups that require an “invite”... so if someone reading this could facilitate that, we’d really appreciate a message to help us join. 😉😘
surely they’re all private, hidden groups that require an “invite”... so if someone reading this could facilitate that, we’d really appreciate a message to help us join. 😉😘
Joe8286 wrote:
Oasis and echo are Utah LS Facebook groups.
Do you have links for those groups? I’ve tried searching and there are many options for both groups. Descriptions of groups are very candid as well. Thanks
NOGDEN wrote:
We’ve wondered about this for a long time... and have always wanted to find a group on fb of like minded folks that’s easier to communicate with and talk about ls things...
surely they’re all private, hidden groups that require an “invite”... so if someone reading this could facilitate that, we’d really appreciate a message to help us join. 😉😘
Ditto!!!!
Ditto the Echo and Oasis. I'm in the echo group so a can find it with a search of "Echo Lifestyle". Did a search for Oasis and didn't pull up. I'm assuming they are private groups and require someone to invite you, but I could be completely wrong. I know who hosts Echo and can ask what their entrance requirements are. Not sure they have any, so try the search.
SAMEROOMONLY wrote:
Ditto the Echo and Oasis. I'm in the echo group so a can find it with a search of "Echo Lifestyle". Did a search for Oasis and didn't pull up. I'm assuming they are private groups and require someone to invite you, but I could be completely wrong. I know who hosts Echo and can ask what their entrance requirements are. Not sure they have any, so try the search.
I tried searching for “Echo Lifestyle” and the group didn’t show up. They may be private and require an invite. If you like the Echo Group and thinks it’s worth joining, I’d appreciate an invite. We can private message to get connected on FB?
Agreed, we couldn't find anything either. If anyone has any information on these groups or a link, that would be much appreciated!
Interested
There are several FB LS sites for Utah. We are part of 4 groups. They are all mostly the same people. Echo is the largest and easiest to find.
DESERTCOUPLE101 wrote:
There are several FB LS sites for Utah. We are part of 4 groups. They are all mostly the same people. Echo is the largest and easiest to find.
Would you share a link? I’ve looked for it without success.
Wanderlustduo wrote:
Would you share a link? I’ve looked for it without success.
DM us.