Are you “just here to fuck” (NSA), looking for friends with benefits (FWB), or unsure what you want?
We have met couples in all three situations.
We prefer FWB.
We have met couples in all three situations.
We prefer FWB.
It depends.
If we are in our home town or a place we visit frequently (Utah, Arizona, SoCal), then we prefer FWB.
If we in an area of the country that we rarely visit,or a resort like Hedonism or a lifestyle cruise, then NSA is the norm.
If we are in our home town or a place we visit frequently (Utah, Arizona, SoCal), then we prefer FWB.
If we in an area of the country that we rarely visit,or a resort like Hedonism or a lifestyle cruise, then NSA is the norm.
We like both
We enjoy both and being both 
Enjoy both but I prefer Fwb
We are in the middle, we don’t need or generally want to know your kids names or your daily life, but like to be have common interests, both personal and sexual, to be able to talk about.
We prefer having friends that we can be ourselves around. We also don't mind spontaneous encounters either. So both for us
I want someone to play with and to go do stuff with .
It depends on the day, both can be great.
We are okay with both BUT we don’t do emotions. With FWB sometimes it can get there.
But when we are a good swing we swing 😉
But when we are a good swing we swing 😉
FWB preferred .....but NSA on a vacation or when your not expected it or looking is great.
Def FWB. In fact, the B's are completely optional. Don't get us wrong, we LOVE the B's, but we're happy to just hang out and talk and flirt and laugh our asses off. If the vibe is right and everyone involved is feeling it then game on. But we never go home at the end of the evening upset or disappointed if things don't go that direction. YMMV
FWB is always our hope and the overwhelming majority of our experience. NSA is completely situational.
We are absolutely in the FWB camp. Or hell, just friends. It's so hard making friends as adults, so why not use the one thing where you for sure know you have at least one thing in common with them and go from there.
We prefer FWB, it makes it way more enjoyable for us to have a connection with someone before jumping into bed with them. But on the flip the random NSA experience can a ton of fun as well..
Fwb
FWB would be great, but we are DTF if everyone is feeling it 😘😬
FWB
Both can be fun, but we prefer FWB
We prefer FWB, just seems to make it better for us.
We prefer FWB
We're down for both.
The sex gets better the more you do it with some one and the more comfortable you are communicating what you want in the moment as well as after the last play session and in anticipation of the next one.
NSA/One night stands definitely have their benefits. There's less complication, especially if there's only chemistry between one half.
The sex gets better the more you do it with some one and the more comfortable you are communicating what you want in the moment as well as after the last play session and in anticipation of the next one.
NSA/One night stands definitely have their benefits. There's less complication, especially if there's only chemistry between one half.
If a relationship begins as a no strings attached relationship, there is no reason it can't become a friends with benefits relationship.
FWB completely. More fun to socialize, laugh, have fun, rather than the other. Now if it was FWB vs girlfriend/boyfriend, that might have a different result.
Somethin like fwb with another couple of even poly if the fit is right.
Complicated for us. I (him) prefer FWB and folks I can hang out with. Shes demisexual and in getting to know somebody, if there is enough attraction for her to have fun with someone, after the act she prefers to just never see them again so she doesnt become attached. So shes totally NSA after but kind has to follow the FWB format up to that point. Primarily why we play separately other than at parties or events. Again, complicated.
Definitely a close connection (Fwb) is the best for us. With good friends, the fun seems endless. Is there a sexy couple out there who wanna be fwb?
Fwb. Had nsa’s, and mehh...better to have continual friends that you can hit on lol
Friends last a lot longer.
NSA is hot of course, but we definitely LOVE FWB.
A lot of the people we meet, and every encounter, with the people we meet, is packed full of all sorts of potential outcomes. To move toward some level of intimacy, there has to be some attraction, chemistry and trust. How far the relationship travels depends on the strength of the attraction, chemistry and trust, and on a lot of other factors, like agreeable schedules and proximity. The way we see it, some encounters have all sorts of potential for some fantastic, mostly about the sex couplings, but due to the inability to see each other often, not so much potential for day by day, weekly or even monthly hanging out. With that said we go with the flow. We prefer FWB when it just seems to be what works, and NSA encounters when that’s what seems to be what works.
If everyone isn’t equally interested, or someone is not at all interested, then no works too.
If everyone isn’t equally interested, or someone is not at all interested, then no works too.
We are flexible to either , but making a real connection and having great friends is the best.
FWB for sure.
FWB. .. but obviously, there has to be a connection.
Fwb
FWB 😁
FWB, we enjoy getting together and having a good time even if we can't have the benefits everytime. It's more of a bonus when it does happen.
We prefer building friendships.. and the benefits!!
Friendships with healthcare plans, PTO, and 401ks are the way to go.
FWB only for us!
We are always open to whatever adventure comes our way.... But we prefer friends with options... 😊
Fwb
Fwb. We are actually looking for a long term relationship.
FWB!!!
Either way both are extremely fun
We prefer friends! And benefits.
Love it!
Absolutely fwb.
FWB for sure. Its interesting, when we first dipped our feet into the warm waters of the LS - we thought for sure if we played with someone . . . we would never want to run into them again. Total NSA is what we thought. After we played with someone we got to know first . . . there is just no comparison. In fact, the 'benefits' are completely optional with us. We just love meeting people, going out to dinner, movie, concert or other event, dancing, or just drinks - the conversations are SOOOO much sexier with LS friends . . . we're no longer interested if you don't want to be friends. Weird ... we know. Thats just us!
I’m open to either, however I lean more towards. Who would ever want to limit one thing to a one time thing especially if it’s a good experience
Def FWB. Anyone can Fuck. Knowing the person and having a truly sensual experience takes commitment. I'm in it for the long haul. Why waste my time having mediocre sex?
As a single male I prefer a FWB couple. I enjoy getting to know both wife and husband on a personal level. The sex gets better when everyone is comfortable with each other
FWB
FWB for us
We are definitely all about friends first. Our goal is frankly to expand our friend circle. If play is included then that’s great, but friends first. We like to meet initially just to see if there’s chemistry, and if there isn’t, then we just like to be honest and potentially still develop a friendship, not that everyone likes such honesty. 🤷🏼♂️
I would love to be your friend ;]
Agreed!
We are FWB. We like meeting new couples but its so damn time consuming and difficult. We want 1 or 2 regular couples.