Thats insane! I never thought Richard Hendricks from Pied Piper would be in the lifestyle. Love it.
We saw that and thought wow maybe the lifestyle will become more acceptable 😂!
The Lifestyle does not save nor breaks anyone's marriage, the couple does. It is a good tool if used intelligently for the couple to quench the curiosities and needs for sexual diversity we all have as non-monogamy is our natural state. The Lifestyle has been as unaccepted as the LBTG Lifestyle was until recent years. However, that censorship never stopped lesbians, gays and other groups included on that group to have their own clubs, dating services, long term relationships and associations. Eventually, the Swinging Lifestyle will be known and accepted at the same level of LBTG relationships. There will be couples living with couples such as we were in Spain from 2017 to 2018, polyamory love groups, Swinger Friendly mainstream places and more presence in the media. Thank you for bringing this to this respectable forum Mr. Evildoers lol
SUENDAN wrote:. Nice one! Seriously nice one.
The Lifestyle does not save nor breaks anyone's marriage, the couple does. It is a good tool if used intelligently for the couple to quench the curiosities and needs for sexual diversity we all have as non-monogamy is our natural state. The Lifestyle has been as unaccepted as the LBTG Lifestyle was until recent years. However, that censorship never stopped lesbians, gays and other groups included on that group to have their own clubs, dating services, long term relationships and associations. Eventually, the Swinging Lifestyle will be known and accepted at the same level of LBTG relationships. There will be couples living with couples such as we were in Spain from 2017 to 2018, polyamory love groups, Swinger Friendly mainstream places and more presence in the media. Thank you for bringing this to this respectable forum Mr. Evildoers lol
massageBBCguy wrote:
. Nice one! Seriously nice one.
forgot the 2nd part.. single males will be obliterated from the lifestyle and will be transferred to the LBTG lifestyle.. the will attend gay parades and trap orgies
I saw this earlier and thought how fucking cruel to wait until after you’re married to drop a bomb on someone that loves you. A decent person would have figured this shot out before they exchanged rings and actually given her a choice.
JEMBJE0707 wrote:
I saw this earlier and thought how fucking cruel to wait until after you’re married to drop a bomb on someone that loves you. A decent person would have figured this shot out before they exchanged rings and actually given her a choice.
We were married 24 maybe 25 years when we decided to start swinging. Monogamy was never a burden. Maybe that's why swinging has worked for the two of us. It was never so important, that if either one of us had said no, let's not try it, that it would have hurt the relationship. Swinging, save a bit of a miscommunication with a couple of people early on in our adventure has been really pretty drama free. We chalk that up to inexperience. If you meet the right sorts of people, if there is some conflict, it is usually more miscommunications than any bad will. People need to know themselves and be honest with others to avoid real drama leading to sorrow.
JEMBJE0707 wrote:
I saw this earlier and thought how fucking cruel to wait until after you’re married to drop a bomb on someone that loves you. A decent person would have figured this shot out before they exchanged rings and actually given her a choice.
totally agree... we went trough a similar situation... my wife confessed she was bisexual after 3 months of being married. at first I was puzzled and insecure but then started seeing it as a very welcomed bonus.. we did not acted on it after being married for a little over 3 years as we were very young and wanted our relationship to solidify plus we had a little one. Eventually we met a sweet single girl who was going trough a divorce and we hit it off.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:JEMBJE0707 wrote:
I saw this earlier and thought how fucking cruel to wait until after you’re married to drop a bomb on someone that loves you. A decent person would have figured this shot out before they exchanged rings and actually given her a choice.
We were married 24 maybe 25 years when we decided to start swinging. Monogamy was never a burden. Maybe that's why swinging has worked for the two of us. It was never so important, that if either one of us had said no, let's not try it, that it would have hurt the relationship. Swinging, save a bit of a miscommunication with a couple of people early on in our adventure has been really pretty drama free. We chalk that up to inexperience. If you meet the right sorts of people, if there is some conflict, it is usually more miscommunications than any bad will. People need to know themselves and be honest with others to avoid real drama leading to sorrow.
wow very insightful. Yes, we had run into our share of drama ourselves and we agree, miscommunication that starts with the individuals whom are part of the couple. We met the eager guy and the hesitant wife, the eager wife but jealous when her man gets with another girl and the couple who has a very good time then ends up arguing and leaving (or us enthusiastically kicking them out) over nothing. But most of our experiences had been positive and beautiful, also had made some great friends. It just takes good screening. I think bad experiences in the LS are as normal as in regular relationships.