I am a newbie, and unfortunately single now. I am looking to make connections and having a difficult time. I live in Mass near southern NH and am trying to meet neww and interesting people. Please help
I hate to break this to you, but not too many couples are looking for single males. They are out there, but the odds are against you. Go to any Yahoo chat room for 3somes, most couples are looking for single females. Here is a recent example:
40 chat members in a room
3 - are couples looking for a single female
0 - are single females
37 - are single males looking for couples.
To cite another example this (and other) swinger sites have a special little box you can check to block single males from e-mailing you. The reason for this.. (see above)
The answer to your problem:
1: Find an open minded female to swing with.
2: Go to a Local Swing Club that accepts Single Males (usually at an inflated price to get in the door)
3: Keep searching..
The odds of you finding a couple that is looking for a single male are greater than the odds a couple finds a single female to join them..
40 chat members in a room
3 - are couples looking for a single female
0 - are single females
37 - are single males looking for couples.
To cite another example this (and other) swinger sites have a special little box you can check to block single males from e-mailing you. The reason for this.. (see above)
The answer to your problem:
1: Find an open minded female to swing with.
2: Go to a Local Swing Club that accepts Single Males (usually at an inflated price to get in the door)
3: Keep searching..
The odds of you finding a couple that is looking for a single male are greater than the odds a couple finds a single female to join them..
Hi there CHANDO69 and welcome to the lifestyle. It would be a great help in your search if you publish a picture or two so folks can see what you look like. We feel it is helpful to see who it is we are "talking" too. You might want to add some more information on your profile. The more you can tell others about yourself the better.
Post a nice pic, have a completed profile, do not intrude with couples that have NO single males, be polite, post intelligent responses and have patience...good luck!
DItto to what Destin said! Its all about patience and Single men are not hard to find in the lifestyle!
I don't have the definitive answer, but while we do play with singles occasionally it has never been with someone we met online. Male or female it has always been someone we met at a party or adult social. Sometimes Males who post on the sites try to come on too strong like they are superstuds or something and that can be a turnoff.
Most of our experience has been with single men and we have yet to meet someone from online, although this is not ruled out. What defintely helps is a picture on the profile, that i would say is a must. Also dont be pushy or aggresive, just lay it on the line, if you have any experience or none at all. Just be as honest as you can and dont give up.
The biggest thing is to have a few nice (current) g-rated pics. I can't tell you how many times we get a single guy who all he wants to do is send a pic of his cock as if that's enough to make the girls go wild. Have class and don't do that, be polite.
Sad to say though single males are a dime a 100 on the net. It's difficult to tell the difference between the true singles, cheating husbands and players. The best way to meet someone perhaps is putting out some profiles on sites with a pic and hope for the best.
Most of the parties that we have heard of don't allow single guys because of a few bad apples.
Sad to say though single males are a dime a 100 on the net. It's difficult to tell the difference between the true singles, cheating husbands and players. The best way to meet someone perhaps is putting out some profiles on sites with a pic and hope for the best.
Most of the parties that we have heard of don't allow single guys because of a few bad apples.
Go to a lifestyle social attempt to start a conversation with a cpl and make sure you INCLUDE the male half of the cpl in the converstaion most of all if you get negative vibes from the cpl (like they are making a deliberate attempt) to move away from you DON"T push it and maybe at a following event they may strike up a converstaion with you.
Here is what you need to remember SINGLE GUY 's are NOT hard to find but as a single guy you have to CHARM your way into a conversation bottom line Don't BUG the cpls or single gals if they are not interested and you WILL find some cpls that will welcome your CHARM but despise you if you go in with a unwanted " I have a "big dick" attitude.
Here is what you need to remember SINGLE GUY 's are NOT hard to find but as a single guy you have to CHARM your way into a conversation bottom line Don't BUG the cpls or single gals if they are not interested and you WILL find some cpls that will welcome your CHARM but despise you if you go in with a unwanted " I have a "big dick" attitude.