My wife and I have been in the lifestyle now for about two-and-a-half years. It's been fun to look back and talk to each other about the whole journey. This has been so good for our marriage. We already had a great marriage. but this lifestyle has gotten us to communicate on a whole different level. we were looking back on and some of our first experiences and laughing at the rules that we had.
We are completely full swap couple now, completely open and totally happy. We are happily dating another couple, so to say things have changed would be an understatement. We used to have a rule about no kissing on the lips... Hahahaha
What are some things that have changed for you in your journey?
We are completely full swap couple now, completely open and totally happy. We are happily dating another couple, so to say things have changed would be an understatement. We used to have a rule about no kissing on the lips... Hahahaha
What are some things that have changed for you in your journey?
✋🏻 Same here... there have been those rules, like kissing, that we started with which we found, what a tic, we actually like it a agreed to adjust.
But, one rule stands that can NEVER be broken, NO ONE TOUCHES MY DRUMS... NO ONE! And secondly, i we see Randy Jackson, we are totally getting his autograph!
But, one rule stands that can NEVER be broken, NO ONE TOUCHES MY DRUMS... NO ONE! And secondly, i we see Randy Jackson, we are totally getting his autograph!
HereAndThere4Fun wrote:
✋🏻 Same here... there have been those rules, like kissing, that we started with which we found, what a tic, we actually like it a agreed to adjust.
But, one rule stands that can NEVER be broken, NO ONE TOUCHES MY DRUMS... NO ONE! And secondly, i we see Randy Jackson, we are totally getting his autograph!
Do you wanna go do karate in the garage?!?
21 yr journey here... Started in our 20's, now in our 40's... Nothing has changed, still same old perverts we were in our 20's meeting people, making friends, partying and fucking 
Only advice we have is to stay SINGLE MALE FREE. You guys deserve wayyy better than that.
Only advice we have is to stay SINGLE MALE FREE. You guys deserve wayyy better than that.
SUENDAN wrote:
21 yr journey here... Started in our 20's, now in our 40's... Nothing has changed, still same old perverts we were in our 20's meeting people, making friends, partying and fucking
Only advice we have is to stay SINGLE MALE FREE. You guys deserve wayyy better than that.
21 years! That's incredible!!! Congratulations!
NOFun wrote:HereAndThere4Fun wrote:
✋🏻 Same here... there have been those rules, like kissing, that we started with which we found, what a tic, we actually like it a agreed to adjust.
But, one rule stands that can NEVER be broken, NO ONE TOUCHES MY DRUMS... NO ONE! And secondly, i we see Randy Jackson, we are totally getting his autograph!
Do you wanna go do karate in the garage?!?
YUP! Hit us up if you’d like to chat. Kik HereAndThere4Fun
We spent considerable time discussing and agreeing to rules . . . .they went out the window after the first or second play date. All in all I think the discussion was productive, even if we abandoned them quickly. We'll play to the level of other people's rules but we don't put limits on one another.
Rules is what inexperienced couples talk about to ease more comfortably into the lifestyle. In the Lifestyle just like in life, rules are broken often. Think of running stop signs or speeding a little. We do not have rules, we only have natural conditions. For example, the Mr. here is straight and we do not even talk to single males. Also, we only meet with normal married couples, not people hooking up to play.
we are toddlers in our journey but have really enjoyed and cherish the communication and personal growth we have gained so far. we want to play as they say with more local couples. one of our old rules was that we could only play out of town soooo...
Yeah rules tend to change a lot. Like I said we had a no kissing rule until we discovered it was hard to cross home plate without getting to first base. Haha