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Swingers Forum - Why do you like to play with other races.

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Since there seem to be quite a number of people who play with people of different racial backbround, I thought it might be a good subject for discussion. I heard about exotic women, the myth or fact about black men's size, color contrasts.

So what is the draw, for you? Is it kind of a fettish or some other reason..?

Did/does this arrangment satisfy or meet expectations?

Your thoughts about inter racial relationships/play partners?

This is kind of like a pole.. not meant to start a debate but more about learning about and why people are drawn to certain people of other racial background. Remember Native Americans, Chineese, JApaneese, Polynesians and Micronesians are also different races... not just white and black.
I'm married to a black man - we've been together for 15+ years - FAR before it was the 'in' thing to do. I never really cared what race he was - he has always been a great person, and to me, that's what matters and what drew me to him.

However, in a sexual context, I just find men with dark completions more attractive - be it black, hispanic or bi-racial. It seems equal to asking why some guys prefer redheads - is there REALLY any logic to it? It boils down to personal taste. For some, I'm sure it's the whole taboo of it that makes it exciting, similar to how having sex in a public place is fun because of the chance you MIGHT be caught. There is something erotic and thrilling about 'forbidden fruit'.

And can I just state that the whole 'every black man has a huge penis' theory is SOOOOOOO silly. Black guy are NORMAL, just like white guys, just like Asian guys, just like Hispanic guys. I've seen every possible size - from the "WHOA - HOLY SHIT" to the "NO YOU DIDN'T CALL *THAT* A PENIS?!?!" It makes NO difference what race a person is.