We have found it interesting how many couples seem to get hung up on age differences. Has anyone had that same experience? I know the term "Age Groups" can be interpreted just about any way. For the purposes of this post I loosely categorize them as following, with some overlap of course:
20-32
33-39
40-48
49+
I will say, some of our best experiences have been with other couples not in our same age group (especially ones younger than us). It feels like when they are open to other age groups, they seem to also be more open sexually.
20-32
33-39
40-48
49+
I will say, some of our best experiences have been with other couples not in our same age group (especially ones younger than us). It feels like when they are open to other age groups, they seem to also be more open sexually.
We like your attitude.
We are terrible. She struggles finding those extremely young difficult to connect with. Then again we probably aren’t as open as much so your point is probably valid.
We’re not hung up on age differences ... Dan and I are almost 20 years apart in age lol
We don’t worry about age so much as how we feel when we are with people.
Age difference isn't really a big deal to us as long as there's a connection.
I know this might sound a little strange to say on a swinger's site but since sex isn't our PRIMARY goal with the people we meet, age really isn't a big factor. Don't get us wrong, if there is a good connection and EVERYONE involved is on the same page we absolutely enjoy playing with other couples. But we're mostly looking for fun people to hang out with and have interesting conversations with and anything sexual that happens is just the cherry on top of the sundae for us. A sundae is still pretty freakin' awesome even without the cherry. 
We have never really made age an issue for playing we agree with evil we are looking for friends and if it comes up with a cherry then we will bring the whip cream.
Age has never been a issue with us at all, we like to play with young and old alike.
We play with any age. The biggest age difference for her has been 26 years. She liked it because he knew what he was doing and made her the important part. I personal would love to find her younger to play with.
We understand and agree with you Evil!
But a Sundae without a Cherry? You must be joking😛😜
But a Sundae without a Cherry? You must be joking😛😜
Age is a number.
We look for open people. People that can be who they are. This Lifestyle creates that! People growing! Challenging there beliefs! Freedom! It’s so exciting! Amazing people on this site!!! Thank you thank you thank you
We look for open people. People that can be who they are. This Lifestyle creates that! People growing! Challenging there beliefs! Freedom! It’s so exciting! Amazing people on this site!!! Thank you thank you thank you
This is a great topic because there are a lot of opinions about age. Its always a judgement call...I mean how many younger couples are looking for older couples. They may make a connection at a venue and things click but it might not be what they were looking for exactly. The lifestyle gives you the flexibility to be attracted to who ever you want, nothing may come of it but who cares.
It seems like most experiences are about the people you meet and the connection you get make. Age is only an issue when we choose it to be. Its just another way of looking at things.
It seems like most experiences are about the people you meet and the connection you get make. Age is only an issue when we choose it to be. Its just another way of looking at things.
age doesn't matter so much as a good connection and a sense that the other couple has a great communication level between them. we are on here for good people and sex, but sex with good people is the ultimate. we want some sex friends that are closer in proximity to us
We are open to all ages. Very open minded .
At this point, we're just happy that our junk still works.... But seriously, we agree that there are ageists who exclude certain ages, and we think they are probably missing out.
we personally get more intimidated by a couple that is super fit. we are currently working on transforming our bodies but aren't quite there yet, but sometimes when we feel like there might be a connection by reading someones profile and wanting to send a message and then not do it when we see some pics of super athletic bodies even though we are fun open minded secure and sexy in our own right. (personal hang up I know)
I think age is only a figure. I think fitness level, education, manners and open mind are more important attributes to decide if the chemistry between the parts is real. Furthermore, I believe in proper communication, where all parts are honest from the beginning.
Truthfully, aging has some impact. Mrs. Delicious says she feels a bit less confident than she was, when we first jump naked into the swinger's pool. She feels like perhaps she shouldn't be the life of the party and the first one naked, or bumping and grinding on people she really does not know on the dance floor. We address the age question in our profile, and we shared those thoughts below:
"We accurately post our ages on our profile, and yes we really do look like our profile pictures. We are probably, mostly going to appeal, to people older than fifty, and it just so happens, that we find a lot of people that are older than fifty to be very attractive. Isn't that convenient? If you are younger than fifty, and you still think we are hot, and you want to meet us, send us an email. You should probably make the first move. We kind of assume most of you decades younger than we are, may not be that interested in us. If you have read this much of our profile, then maybe you are a bit curious. If we meet you and you're game, and there is chemistry why not. We have been with people twenty some years younger than us on numerous occasions and it was great!"
"We accurately post our ages on our profile, and yes we really do look like our profile pictures. We are probably, mostly going to appeal, to people older than fifty, and it just so happens, that we find a lot of people that are older than fifty to be very attractive. Isn't that convenient? If you are younger than fifty, and you still think we are hot, and you want to meet us, send us an email. You should probably make the first move. We kind of assume most of you decades younger than we are, may not be that interested in us. If you have read this much of our profile, then maybe you are a bit curious. If we meet you and you're game, and there is chemistry why not. We have been with people twenty some years younger than us on numerous occasions and it was great!"
So i have been runing an adult group in salt lake since june of last year and have all ages and sizes. Its a mentality not a age
ThroughTheVeil wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
I know this might sound a little strange to say on a swinger's site but since sex isn't our PRIMARY goal with the people we meet, age really isn't a big factor. Don't get us wrong, if there is a good connection and EVERYONE involved is on the same page we absolutely enjoy playing with other couples. But we're mostly looking for fun people to hang out with and have interesting conversations with and anything sexual that happens is just the cherry on top of the sundae for us. A sundae is still pretty freakin' awesome even without the cherry.
This^
That said, it seems like younger couples are only looking for cherries in our experience.
On a not entirely unrelated note, our swinging cherries have totally grown back (Don't be a doubter, cherries can grow back!
). Anybody wanna pop 'em? We Wanna fuck you
EVILDOERS wrote:
On a not entirely unrelated note, our swinging cherries have totally grown back (Don't be a doubter, cherries can grow back!
LOL. That was pretty funny. Pop away my friend!
Hubby and I say variety is the spice of life!
With that being said its everyone's personal choice. Do what makes you happy!
No judgement here!
XOXO
Wifey
With that being said its everyone's personal choice. Do what makes you happy!
No judgement here!
XOXO
Wifey
He likes mature females. She likes older and younger males, but crushes on younger females.
In general, meeting people where we lived in California was easy and fun. Age didn't seem to be a factor and often, it was just to have fun. Utah.... unless we go to parties, which we don't care for, it's a lot of work and not fun at all.
In general, meeting people where we lived in California was easy and fun. Age didn't seem to be a factor and often, it was just to have fun. Utah.... unless we go to parties, which we don't care for, it's a lot of work and not fun at all.
Attraction doesn’t know an age difference. Just look at Katharine McPhee 😂
In all seriousness tho, we’ve had experiences with people older than ourselves (30), but if the attraction is there, age is pretty irrelevant for us for the most part.
In all seriousness tho, we’ve had experiences with people older than ourselves (30), but if the attraction is there, age is pretty irrelevant for us for the most part.