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After reading through the MMF thread, I am wondering if we filled out our profile correctly, and if I am defining these orientation options correctly. Looking forward to hearing your input.

Straight: I am not attracted to people of my gender, and don't care for much if any contact with them

Bi-comfortable: Straight, but I don't care what your orientation is. If we hit it off, we'll have a discussion on boundaries, and what contact I would be comfortable with (this seems like a pretty standard consent conversation, regardless of orientation). I am not interested in exploring bisexuality, but don't really have any qualms about it. This is how I personally identify.

Bi-curious: While I consider myself straight, I would like to explore some level of sexuality with someone of my same gender.

Bi-Sexual - I am attracted to member of both sexes to some degree, and want to have sexual experiences with both genders.


Did I oversimplify these? Does it even matter? It seems like nearly all of the women label themselves as bi-sexual, and all of the men are straight.
Those definitions seem legit to us. For so long the only 'in-between' option was bi-curious when in actuality I think more people, well, women anyway, are actually just bi-comfortable.
Good luck with this one.... we have found that each person has their own definition for each of the levels.. and they vary from one extreme to the other.
Thanks for the discussion I always get them mixed up and hav noticed a lof of profiles with males having marked other than straight.
Also worth mentioning that there is a difference between MMF and MFM, with the focus on the person in the middle...
SoScrewMe wrote:

Thanks for the discussion I always get them mixed up and hav noticed a lof of profiles with males having marked other than straight.
Also worth mentioning that there is a difference between MMF and MFM, with the focus on the person in the middle...


Exactly. I'm glad you get it.
. . . wow - you learn something every day on this site!
I still put bi-curious on my info of our profile, because I have only been with 1 other guy and don’t want to mislead anyone that I’m full-fledged knowledgeable and I’m still exploring and experimenting with it. I did find the MMF thread funny because most of the people engaging there obviously meant MFM.
I am a straight male not at all attracted to the male body but i condsider myself bicurious because there are a few things i want to try with a couple. I want to 69 with the female on top while she is being done doggy style so i can give the guy head and try licking his balls. I would consider receiving a sex if i had my head burried between a ladies legs, i would consider giving anal sex if that turned the female on. I want eat a cream pie. I think if i was encouraged by a female i would do almost anything. I also want to share in giving a blowjob with a female. But this is what has me confused about this whole bi thing, i wouldnt even attempt these without a females encouragement or paricipation. Couplesvlet me know if your interested in trying any of these and i would like the ladies to chime in on this "watching two guys together turn you on?"
I am a straight male not at all attracted to the male body but i condsider myself bicurious because there are a few things i want to try with a couple. I want to 69 with the female on top while she is being done doggy style so i can give the guy head and try licking his balls. I would consider receiving a sex if i had my head burried between a ladies legs, i would consider giving anal sex if that turned the female on. I want eat a cream pie. I think if i was encouraged by a female i would do almost anything. I also want to share in giving a blowjob with a female. But this is what has me confused about this whole bi thing, i wouldnt even attempt these without a females encouragement or paricipation. Couplesvlet me know if your interested in trying any of these and i would like the ladies to chime in on this "watching two guys together turn you on?"
Straight guy = dont think about touching my dick. Exception.. we can both do her or dvp her and that's cool for her pleasure cause she's fine as hell.

Bi comfortable guy = if you wanna blow me you can but doesnt matter to me either way. I dont have a desire for cock but I'm not opposed.

Bi curious guy = I'd like to suck his dick and eat that pussy.

Gay = pussy? Gross!!!!

Seems simple to me.
I think the definitions are simple enough, like couple801801 has above. the complicated part for guys in a couple is when you mark anything but straight you get much fewer messages and requests because guys think you are after their cock when you are mostly just not afraid of anything happening if it did. I myself am somewhere between straight and bi-curious. it all depends on the flow and how pretty that cock is. lolbut would still rather see your wife naked over you
Yeah I get what your asking like I didnt realize mfm is different than mmf etc but do now dm me if you want.
HOTPASSIONATE wrote:

Yeah I get what your asking like I didnt realize mfm is different than mmf etc but do now dm me if you want.
We had no idea there was a difference between mmf and mfm but now know 😀!
Bi-comfortable could be understood any number of ways. I'm heterosexual, but I am not at all uncomfortable around anyone who self identifies as LGBTQ. Which means I'm comfortable around people whose sexual preference is different and or more expanded than mine. I'm just not sexually excited or motivated to have sex with a man. It does not offend or disgust me in the least. I'm comfortable with bisexual men, I'm just not bisexual. I have been inside my wife's pussy, and a couple of other women's pussy at the same time as another man, and the other guy was bisexual; and if his penis proximity to mine was as exciting to him, as it was to be inside my wife, then good for him! For me the woman was a key element for me to have an erection. Bisexuals, male or female are lucky. They can become aroused and sexually enjoy twice as many people. Mrs. Delicious is extremely bisexual. Bisexuality between women is and has been pretty much celebrated and rewarded in the swinging lifestyle. Bisexuality between men seems to be headed that way as well, and that is a good thing. In an enlightened mindset everyone would be comfortable with anyone's sexual preference involving consenting adults. I post my preference as straight because I really am heterosexual. I'm not uncomfortable around bisexuality, so really bi-comfortable is also accurate.
Lol yeah me either.... I'm lot more aware of how I type it now!
Ok so... we are both bi and not afraid of it. Second thing... your profile pic looks like a liberty insurance commercial... lol.. but seriously. We think there are plenty of bi folks who are scared to admit it. In the end it really doesn't matter. Have fun! That's the point.