Swingers Forum - Spanish Fork to American Fork

Go to 2nd south if you want a personal slut. Your talking to someone's wife here. I know this is a swinging site but this just rubbed me wrong. Sorry I dont wanna talk for everyone..

Its best if you work together and find a couple to make great memories amd lasting fantasies with.

Seriously? People gonna act like what he is seeking does not exist? Leave him alone. He is seeking what he is seeking.. if you are not interested move on...

This message is so far off it's even hard to respond. You seem to be as deranged as the OP.

"wives are submissive enough to allow a second woman even though secretly just want cock" - LMFAO - the majority of women we know in the lifestyle prefer to have the wives play for the MAJORITY of the time, in the LS mostly for girl/girl time. Also, husbands don't feel threatened by another "man" fucking his wife, but they sure do want to avoid them EVER running into a prick like yourself or the OP.

The only "teenage girl" we see around here is the one spewing this garbage in a sort of temper tantrum for not being able to get any sex, on a sex site.

Glavnichoovak wrote:

Funny how this single guy is ridiculed for wanting what he wants. You don’t see single guys making fun of the couples who only want sex with another female so that the husband doesn’t feel threatened by another man fucking his wife lol these men are like insecure teenage girls. Most women are submissive enough to give in to allow a second woman in bed even though quite a few secretly just want cock. It’s astounding to see how much hypocrisy there is! There are women who enjoy being used as a slut and it’s super hot for both the husband/boyfriend and the man fucking her! I thought this Lifestyle was supposed to support being open minded about sexuality???

It's easy to get into the cuckold lifestyle... just....

A) - Get Married
B) - Get a hold of the OP so he can fuck your wife like his personal slut while you watch.

You're welcome...

ismello wrote:

what is some cuckold-specific websites?

ismello wrote:

what is some cuckold-specific websites?

Google is your friend.

massageBBCguy wrote:

If a PAYING MEMBER is trying to have sex with an exhaust pipe.. don’t get all bent out of shape..lol
He is paying for the forum..
My thoughts are not parallel with his and I am not defending his desire
For some reason.. It makes me laugh how he wants a “personal slut” lol. I really don’t even know what he is looking for but I have a general idea.. the whole slut thing makes me uncomfortable I see the ladies as Queens (some of spades)...

We're not really getting bent out of shape. But we are, perhaps, trying to maybe manage expectations and possibly even police our own community somewhat. God knows ADMIN can't always be relied on to do it.

If you don't think that there are a least a few people with ill intent lurking in our midst then you're extremely naive. Talk to a few of the single females on the site and ask them if they've ever had any scary experiences meeting certain individuals.

And I don't give a rat's ass if someone is a paying member if they might possibly harm someone in some way because of their misconceptions about swinging. There are plenty of BDSM or other alternative sites that they can go look for "sluts" or for people that WANT to abuse or be abused in some way.

If you were a paid member of a website for, say, people interested in healing from a particular malady would you be okay with someone paying to come into the site to sell essential oils or some other kind of substance that could potentially do harm to someone?

massageBBCguy wrote:

I am probably extremely naive because I am extremely selective.. if that makes any sense.. but if it doesn’t I’ll try to explain just a little more... I am not Mr anything goes..
I am sorry Evil and I am glad you are not bent out of shape.. obviously, the guy said he wants a personal slut from Spanish fork to American fork (I am wondering why honestly. LOLLLL).. I really don’t see the ill intent lurking in this case.. I just think he did a not so great job Putting out he wants..
You are yet to point out what is wrong with that post.. lol. What is it? He can’t say “slut”? What’s bdsm about what he said? lol. Leave the guy alone... HE IS PAYING FOR THE FORUM.. lol.
JUST YOU KNOW.. I get a ton of messages when I stand up for bullied singles and couples.. your view is not the most popular buddy.... leave admin alone.. they have done well.. LOL

Don't care in the slightest if my view is or isn't the most popular. I get to voice my opinion just like everyone else.

My main premise was that the tenor of his post was, to my ears, crass and disrespectful and that he might be better served on some cuck-specific sites. And I don't necessarily think that there is ill-intent in his post either but I ABSOLUTELY think that it can give someone who DOES have ill-intent the wrong impression and possibly even lead them to act in an unethical (Or WORSE!) way towards women.

I'm so glad that the "bullied singles and couples" have you to defend their delicate sensibilities. I would hate for someone to get their feels hurt by someone not agreeing with them on the interwebs. In the future, I'll try to only post stuff where I 100% agree and endorse whatever the OP says. /s

UTSNOWCITYCOUPLE wrote:

Maybe the OP should check out fetlife.... Also, if a couple is into cuckolding, the the way he posted would probably appeal to a specific type of role play. So I think the audience he is looking for would understand it. I don't think that audience is here! LOL This is the Mrs., and I would never want to be addressed like that! However, I am not super offended because I can see what he is doing.

Wow, Ms. Evil would LOVE those shoes! LOL Quick question. You mention stag/vixen (Well, you said Stag/Hotwife.) play in your profile. Do you get SM's who misinterpret that as cuckolding? We had some friends who were really into that dynamic and they said they were CONSTANTLY fending off guys who mistakenly thought it was the same as cuck play. They said they felt like maybe one in one hundred single guys truly "got it" and that the rest of the time they were either educating them (Surprise! Many were into it even after they were shot down on cuckhold play!-lol) or dodging them altogether. And even when they thought a guy understood he would often fall back into a cuck-type scene once play started and it would ruin the whole evening for them.

If you posted in the "Neighbor Nextdoor" website, that you were looking for another couple that wanted to swap partners for sex, you would get all sorts of people upset. You'd stop getting invitations to go to most of the churches in the neighborhoods events. Maybe, you might have a couple send you a message. I am sure some of your male neighbors, single or married, would just happen to start to take a few walks past your house out of curiosity, maybe hoping to run into both of you, or the wife, and start a conversation. The socially acceptable response from your neighbors might be to just let it go, and most would. The site would probably ban you. Some neighbors, would choose to get digitally medieval about it. Is it wrong to hope you might find a swinging couple just down the street? No, but what you did was about like going into the "Long Life Vegetable House Asian Restaurant" and asking how they cook their steaks? They are not cooking steaks, or any meat. But really, the OPs search is more like going into a Chicago chop house and asking for a vegetarian meal. Their chef might say, "yeah, here's some fries and baked potato." This site is not primarily a site for cuckold couples, but there may be a few out there. There are a lot of couples that will play with single men, like us, but we are just not into cuck stuff. The OP's approach may well kind of take him off the list as a good fit, for a lot of couples, and some of us may even block him, just to not waste our time, should he try and send an email; but hey, none of us our on everyone's I just really, really, really want to fuck them list.

This is a swing site and old school swingers may get a bit frustrated that the expanded desires within the "community" are now much less specific, and way more convoluted. Live and let live.

TOTALLY4FUN wrote:

massageBBCguy wrote:

If a PAYING MEMBER is trying to have sex with an exhaust pipe.. don’t get all bent out of shape..lol
He is paying for the forum..
My thoughts are not parallel with his and I am not defending his desire
For some reason.. It makes me laugh how he wants a “personal slut” lol. I really don’t even know what he is looking for but I have a general idea.. the whole slut thing makes me uncomfortable I see the ladies as Queens (some of spades)...

If you read the very definition of the word Forum, you'll find-"a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged" So, you're reminding us all that he has paid for the right to have his ideas and views heard and that we should "leave him alone". Essentially, you're wanting to take our right away to share our ideas and views on the same subject/forum since they do not align with his, so we shouldn't be heard? Keep in mind, we've all paid for the right to share our ideas and views like the guy who started this thread. Just because we don't agree, doesn't mean we can't share our ideas and views on the topic. A forum is not a medium that we all stay silent unless we agree with every point of the original post, what would be the point of a forum if that were the case?

I like your profile picture.... and like *************.. I’ll stick to what I said on Page 1. Lol... and like ******** he is paying for the forum.. btw... leave me alone bye. Lol.

Glad I could start a fire storm. You all are untitled to your opinion. But the code used is for the areas I am willing to travel to. I not so much into BDSM as I am into D/s. Pretty much my thing as an alpha male. Yes I am a member of FetLife and the activity level in Utah is low. Being alpha supports one couples statement that hubby only wants girl/girl action and is afraid of men such as myself. But to each there own, I say. I am not sex starved, I am looking for exactly what I want and enjoy. So for those thinking I have ill intentions, I wonder if you can pass a rigorous background check? I did.

JoeThe1Mac wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

[quote=massageBBCguy]I am probably extremely naive because I am extremely selective.. if that makes any sense.. but if it doesn’t I’ll try to explain just a little more... I am not Mr anything goes..
I am sorry Evil and I am glad you are not bent out of shape.. obviously, the guy said he wants a personal slut from Spanish fork to American fork (I am wondering why honestly. LOLLLL).. I really don’t see the ill intent lurking in this case.. I just think he did a not so great job Putting out he wants..
You are yet to point out what is wrong with that post.. lol. What is it? He can’t say “slut”? What’s bdsm about what he said? lol. Leave the guy alone... HE IS PAYING FOR THE FORUM.. lol.
JUST YOU KNOW.. I get a ton of messages when I stand up for bullied singles and couples.. your view is not the most popular buddy.... leave admin alone.. they have done well.. LOL

Don't care in the slightest if my view is or isn't the most popular. I get to voice my opinion just like everyone else.
My main premise was that the tenor of his post was, to my ears, crass and disrespectful and that he might be better served on some cuck-specific sites. And I don't necessarily think that there is ill-intent in his post either but I ABSOLUTELY think that it can give someone who DOES have ill-intent the wrong impression and possibly even lead them to act in an unethical (Or WORSE!) way towards women.
I'm so glad that the "bullied singles and couples" have you to defend their delicate sensibilities. I would hate for someone to get their feels hurt by someone not agreeing with them on the interwebs. In the future, I'll try to only post stuff where I 100% agree and endorse whatever the OP says. /s

With that said, Because I prefer to play in this fashion, I have ill intentions. Far from it, what I am sure in some of your minds I am sick and twisted. But since I have worked in many of our great United States, I have found that this suits well with many couples. Why you ask? Because I fill a specific void in a relationship. So far only this state is hands off single men, because only couples are allowed. Let me ask why some of you men fearing couples run off to Las Vegas? 🤔[/quote]

Most couples we know from Vegas complain about the SMs there too.

Your filling no ones Void bud, unless that void is for a 55 year old SM who in there own profle says they are looking for anice special couole and then goes on to write about the "Slut" he wants to use (which won't happen). Best stick to your cheating wives as your peofile also claims. That right there shows that your out of touch with this community; let alone your message.

And yeah this does seem a lot like the no condom guy.

I guess it's time for me to come out of the closet, so to speak, as an omega male who is here in the sweet, all-encompassing arms of the swinging community to announce my particular kink/fetish... my niche, if you will. I am looking for a harem of slutty, cucky, single males that will stand in a line dressed in frilly dresses and holding rubber chickens and then they will all bend over at the same time and patiently wait as I rape them one by one anally with a cobby old softball bat that I left out in my back yard for a few years.

Yes, it's warped and splintered but as an omega male I'm not without mercy and compassion and will use a little bit of lube (Probably organic, extra virgin coconut oil.). I will definitely be filling a "void" in these men whether they realize they have a void in their lives or not. And again I'm just so grateful to the swinging nation for embracing me and my wants, nay, desires to shove a bat up a bunch of single guy's asses. Now does anybody know what time the fun bus leaves for Vegas?

Oops, almost forgot. I'm looking for dudes from Urda to Kamas.

EVILDOERS wrote:

I guess it's time for me to come out of the closet, so to speak, as an omega male who is here in the sweet, all-encompassing arms of the swinging community to announce my particular kink/fetish... my niche, if you will. I am looking for a harem of slutty, cucky, single males that will stand in a line dressed in frilly dresses and holding rubber chickens and then they will all bend over at the same time and patiently wait as I rape them one by one anally with a cobby old softball bat that I left out in my back yard for a few years.
Yes, it's warped and splintered but as an omega male I'm not without mercy and compassion and will use a little bit of lube (Probably organic, extra virgin coconut oil.). I will definitely be filling a "void" in these men whether they realize they have a void in their lives or not. And again I'm just so grateful to the swinging nation for embracing me and my wants, nay, desires to shove a bat up a bunch of single guy's asses. Now does anybody know what time the fun bus leaves for Vegas?
Oops, almost forgot. I'm looking for dudes from Urda to Kamas.

Evil, I have read many of the forum posts on here and always love it when i see you responding because you have a way with your words that usually makes me laugh. Thanks for being you.

I have been on this site for 8 months. Reached out to couples that advertised for SM. I have run ad"s in the hookup section. What I have found in the state of Utah is for couples and most women is WOMF. Not that this disappoints me, it just the double standard. Heck AFF picked up all of the Craigslist picture collectors. But I believe to each there own. 😘