So the last two events we've been to some people have been using the playroom as more of a meet and greet to discuss work, kids, and vacations while others are having sex. We find this a real mood killer and poor playroom etiquette. Are we the only ones that feel this way? It's not like there isn't other rooms to mingle and talk.
We thought playroom etiquette was like holding your pinky straight out whilst giving a hand job. But if it was us we would likely start saying ever more grotesque things until the offending parties got up and left. And we DO have the capacity to say some VERY gross things. 
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
First time we played in a event playroom maybe 12 people were in the room watching maybe 10 people playing. They seemed pretty focused on watching the sex. It was hot being watched. We went to a house party where we ended up in a bed with a few friends having sex, and again there were people that watched. Again it was exciting. Now if they had just been in the room and totally disinterested that could have been annoying. We all have boundaries when it comes to sex. Maybe people need to consider buzz killing the mood crosses a boundary. Asking someone to leave the room where others are having sex, for any reason might fall into the category of no means no.
Deliciouslywet, it was more the second scenario, just being totally totally disinterested and not even watching. We enjoy the 1st scenario where people are watching and into it, maybe you might even here them whispering and that is ok with us, but they are being part of the experience. Being totally disinterested and talking about their kids take away from the experience.
EVILDOERS wrote:
We thought playroom etiquette was like holding your pinky straight out whilst giving a hand job. But if it was us we would likely start saying ever more grotesque things until the offending parties got up and left. And we DO have the capacity to say some VERY gross things.
Huuummm, that pinky out while giving a hand job could be hazardous. Could poke an eye out of an innocent bystander. 😂😂
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
We thought playroom etiquette was like holding your pinky straight out whilst giving a hand job. But if it was us we would likely start saying ever more grotesque things until the offending parties got up and left. And we DO have the capacity to say some VERY gross things.
Huuummm, that pinky out while giving a hand job could be hazardous. Could poke an eye out of an innocent bystander. 😂😂
If they need to get that close to see what's happening I lend them my reading glasses. That way they can see better and it gives them a modicum of eye protection.
Play room voyeurs should exercise some common sense and courtesy. Cheering the participants on, seems to be okay, but talking about work and family is definitely over the line. We have been on both sides of this situation and they people we party with are generally better behaved.
Probably the worst, all-time buzz-kill for me was when the love of my life, looked deep into my eyes, during what I thought was some pretty intense sex, and said, "I think I just figured out how to make glazed carrots." And that was at home, when we had no visitors. We don't even eat glazed carrots!
Probably the worst, all-time buzz-kill for me was when the love of my life, looked deep into my eyes, during what I thought was some pretty intense sex, and said, "I think I just figured out how to make glazed carrots." And that was at home, when we had no visitors. We don't even eat glazed carrots!
INTIMATEDUO wrote:
Play room voyeurs should exercise some common sense and courtesy. Cheering the participants on, seems to be okay, but talking about work and family is definitely over the line. We have been on both sides of this situation and they people we party with are generally better behaved.
Probably the worst, all-time buzz-kill for me was when the love of my life, looked deep into my eyes, during what I thought was some pretty intense sex, and said, "I think I just figured out how to make glazed carrots." And that was at home, when we had no visitors. We don't even eat glazed carrots!
Now that was funny!!!