We have seen quite a few posts about people looking to date other couples or find just one couple that they can be with. We are curious if there are any couples out there who are interested in something similar, but more along the lines of all being friends and being able to go out to dinner or dancing. Then heading back and swapping if the mood is right and then all cuddling in bed til the sun comes up.
We have had quite a few swinging experiences that end in the awkward goodbye after everybody’s clothes go back on. We’d love to find some couples who want to experience the friends And sexual side of things who also are ok with all sleeping together and cuddling that night and then waking up and making breakfast together or something fun like that!
Has anyone experienced this or is anyone interested in the same?
Sorry for the long winded post!
K+S
We have had quite a few swinging experiences that end in the awkward goodbye after everybody’s clothes go back on. We’d love to find some couples who want to experience the friends And sexual side of things who also are ok with all sleeping together and cuddling that night and then waking up and making breakfast together or something fun like that!
Has anyone experienced this or is anyone interested in the same?
Sorry for the long winded post!
K+S
WildCouple88 wrote:
We have seen quite a few posts about people looking to date other couples or find just one couple that they can be with. We are curious if there are any couples out there who are interested in something similar, but more along the lines of all being friends and being able to go out to dinner or dancing. Then heading back and swapping if the mood is right and then all cuddling in bed til the sun comes up.
We have had quite a few swinging experiences that end in the awkward goodbye after everybody’s clothes go back on. We’d love to find some couples who want to experience the friends And sexual side of things who also are ok with all sleeping together and cuddling that night and then waking up and making breakfast together or something fun like that!
Has anyone experienced this or is anyone interested in the same?
Sorry for the long winded post!
K+S
Cuddling?!!? Hmmmm, well, that all depends on whether or not you guys want to be the big spoon or the little spoon!
Evil you just crack us up!
We totally see what you are wanting.
I would “guess” it takes time for a couple to get that comfortable.
We have had unicorns spend the weekend,
And/or come
Over and sleep over Several times a week.
We have 3 extra rooms so it’s always nice to be able to escape to some private space.
Sometimes I would leave the room and let the girls play, sleep, wake up every couple of hours to play again. Usually ending with them barging in the spare room I was in to tackle me again.
Couples are a whole other ball of wax.
Most have kids, responsibility’s or even just like there own bed. (I know we do) we have had couples head down to the spare room and sleep over a few times, then leave pretty early. We have also had couple come back for breakfast!
That’s our experience, yet we are pretty new at this.
Best of lucky.
I would “guess” it takes time for a couple to get that comfortable.
We have had unicorns spend the weekend,
And/or come
Over and sleep over Several times a week.
We have 3 extra rooms so it’s always nice to be able to escape to some private space.
Sometimes I would leave the room and let the girls play, sleep, wake up every couple of hours to play again. Usually ending with them barging in the spare room I was in to tackle me again.
Couples are a whole other ball of wax.
Most have kids, responsibility’s or even just like there own bed. (I know we do) we have had couples head down to the spare room and sleep over a few times, then leave pretty early. We have also had couple come back for breakfast!
That’s our experience, yet we are pretty new at this.
Best of lucky.
Yeah we've had it, with you guys lol.
Ha exactly and it was great! We’d love to find other couples who are into it in addition to you guys! Especially since you’re leaving us 😭
We have a couple of regular couples friends. Sometimes we get together and don’t even have sex! We prefer friends not just live sex toys (I have heard others call their “dates” just that).
Loveskings, that is phrased very well. We have had meetups that have happened very fast, and some much slower, the commonality between the positive ones have been the friendships we have made
There is a balance in regards to this. We think everyone wants a couple they can connect with but yet we like a little space there. How has everyone handled being good friends but yet not too good 
?
?Our first couple became our "besties" for several years. It was challenging sometimes because if we ever sought friends outside of our "foursome" there were a few hurt feelings. We were "pretty" exclusive, which also bit us a little when they divorced. Now, we have several bestie couples... to the point where we play less often, but hang out nearly every weekend with cool people.
The sex is great, but riding, camping, dancing, concerts... dates are how you make the sex even better. ( at least in our experiences )
The sex is great, but riding, camping, dancing, concerts... dates are how you make the sex even better. ( at least in our experiences )
Utahldscouple wrote:
There is a balance in regards to this. We think everyone wants a couple they can connect with but yet we like a little space there. How has everyone handled being good friends but yet not too good
When we first started out in the lifestyle we dated another couple exclusively for a year and became close friends. We had SO much fun together. My wife and I loved the experience and hoped we would all be lifelong friends but sadly, we drifted apart and haven't heard from them in years.
We love spending the night having fun with friends and then everyone waking up together for another go and then brunch. When it works it's awesome...but finding THAT couple? Ha ha. Yeah. We've met a few couples that we've been sexually compatible with and have had a lot of fun with but we haven't found another couple where we all clicked on that level like that again.
We love spending the night having fun with friends and then everyone waking up together for another go and then brunch. When it works it's awesome...but finding THAT couple? Ha ha. Yeah. We've met a few couples that we've been sexually compatible with and have had a lot of fun with but we haven't found another couple where we all clicked on that level like that again.
We would love to find couples that we can do weekend bars, concerts, glamping, hot tubbing, etc. We don’t feel like every event needs to lead to a swap, but would like to find friends that are into the same things as us. No pressure, let’s hang out kinda friends. lol we don’t usually do “sleepovers” but, fun late nights for sure.
This is definitely the real unicorn!
We want the WHOLE package. We want spooning AND we want a couple we can have cute little endearing nicknames for.
We are headed to Desire on Thursday for a week with close friends. We may not wake up next to each other. But we will be naked most of the week around each other and 80 other couples. Wish is luck. We have never been to Desire.
Wish is luck
Wish is luck
Sometimes things work out better than we could possibly imagine.
We like this, with not just one significant other couple but with few. We've been in the LS for a long time and have become tired of the ghosting, couples that are really just him, pushy men who don't understand boundaries, etc. We like that we have several "go-to" couples that are perfect for us, that we trust, We know we're compatible, we don't have to waste time getting to know, etc.
We don't mind adding new singles/couples to our "go-to" group every once in a while, just don't do it that often anymore because we don't have to! LOL
We don't mind adding new singles/couples to our "go-to" group every once in a while, just don't do it that often anymore because we don't have to! LOL
We meant we are looking for multiple couples for this kind of scenario as well. The more the merrier 
We were but it doesnt exist. Everyone says they are but have yet to prove it.
JJSEXYTIME wrote:
We are headed to Desire on Thursday for a week with close friends. We may not wake up next to each other. But we will be naked most of the week around each other and 80 other couples. Wish is luck. We have never been to Desire.
Wish is luck
You will love Desire small resort with a fantastic staff and wonderful couples, we have been several times and bought a membership we love all of their resorts. if you would like to talk about the resort or the company message us.
WildCouple88 wrote:
We have seen quite a few posts about people looking to date other couples or find just one couple that they can be with. We are curious if there are any couples out there who are interested in something similar, but more along the lines of all being friends and being able to go out to dinner or dancing. Then heading back and swapping if the mood is right and then all cuddling in bed til the sun comes up.
We have had quite a few swinging experiences that end in the awkward goodbye after everybody’s clothes go back on. We’d love to find some couples who want to experience the friends And sexual side of things who also are ok with all sleeping together and cuddling that night and then waking up and making breakfast together or something fun like that!
Has anyone experienced this or is anyone interested in the same?
Sorry for the long winded post!
Those couples are out there don't get discouraged we have had that experience and it is great don't give up!!
K+S
Sounds great
Not to discourage you, but we spend quite a bit of time in other states, traveling...spending the winter here...the summer there, but we’re not sure what you’re describing exists in Utah. So, we just make the best of it when we are here. 
We have been at this a while now and did not just start looking yesterday, but the land of Zion is seemingly a different animal. “Finding that Couple” or a match with the culture, social aspect and places to meet is simply not the same as we have found in other areas of the country. So, once again...we just make the best of it when we are here.
We may be different than many, but we did not get into this to simply have sex with others. Or as some would say, “sex with others without the feeling or thought of guilt or cheating.” We got into this to make friends first and if anything of sexual nature were to happen, we always consider it a bonus...but certainly not expected.
Good sexy, stimulating conversation over dinner, drinks, bbqs and outdoor activities with other couples that share similar interests...certainly adds spice to our already great long term relationship. Hope it does for yours as well.
GLTA
We have been at this a while now and did not just start looking yesterday, but the land of Zion is seemingly a different animal. “Finding that Couple” or a match with the culture, social aspect and places to meet is simply not the same as we have found in other areas of the country. So, once again...we just make the best of it when we are here.
We may be different than many, but we did not get into this to simply have sex with others. Or as some would say, “sex with others without the feeling or thought of guilt or cheating.” We got into this to make friends first and if anything of sexual nature were to happen, we always consider it a bonus...but certainly not expected.
Good sexy, stimulating conversation over dinner, drinks, bbqs and outdoor activities with other couples that share similar interests...certainly adds spice to our already great long term relationship. Hope it does for yours as well.
GLTA
WildCouple88 wrote:
We have seen quite a few posts about people looking to date other couples or find just one couple that they can be with. We are curious if there are any couples out there who are interested in something similar, but more along the lines of all being friends and being able to go out to dinner or dancing. Then heading back and swapping if the mood is right and then all cuddling in bed til the sun comes up.
We have had quite a few swinging experiences that end in the awkward goodbye after everybody’s clothes go back on. We’d love to find some couples who want to experience the friends And sexual side of things who also are ok with all sleeping together and cuddling that night and then waking up and making breakfast together or something fun like that!
Has anyone experienced this or is anyone interested in the same?
Sorry for the long winded post!
Patience is key. There are some awesome couples out there. It just takes patience to find the right one.It may be short lived or may work out for a long time. In our experience, it's better to take your time to find the couple you like and trust than rush in to hooking up with whoever. We avoid drama like the plague and being picky isn't a bad thing...other than making some people butt hurt on here lol
Great topic - we’ve been around the Lifestyle since 2003 with people we know, going to resorts like Hedo, SMI etc. we didn’t start to play with others until a little over a year ago.
We have a number of couples we’ve met over the years who we have naked party weekends with, travel with and enjoy thoroughly. But, no play other than fun touching etc.
We then met a couple we became great friends who like us are soft play only. We do as many or more vanilla activities as play activities. Sometimes we declare a weekend as a nakkid weekend & we all know it is going to be more sexual vs just hanging out. They usually spend the whole weekend at our place. That is the awesome part. The bad part is they just moved due to a job.
So, we are looking for other couples we can have a similar relationship with. But, not easy to find.
We have a number of couples we’ve met over the years who we have naked party weekends with, travel with and enjoy thoroughly. But, no play other than fun touching etc.
We then met a couple we became great friends who like us are soft play only. We do as many or more vanilla activities as play activities. Sometimes we declare a weekend as a nakkid weekend & we all know it is going to be more sexual vs just hanging out. They usually spend the whole weekend at our place. That is the awesome part. The bad part is they just moved due to a job.
So, we are looking for other couples we can have a similar relationship with. But, not easy to find.
This is definitely something we're also looking for! Would love to meet others like this and are trying. We haven't been in the LS very long, so we're a bit shy. But we're putting ourselves out there more, so feel free to contact us if you're interested.
We are definitely looking still so those who are interested message us!
We have been seen just such a relationship for years. Seems more elusive than unicorns though.