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Luckily no one from this site (well at least that we know of)


Them (6/27/2006 12:23:50 PM): Sorry we're looking for different things, good luck in the fun
Us (6/27/2006 12:24:18 PM): np.. good luck too!
Them (6/27/2006 12:24:23 PM): you too
Us (6/27/2006 12:24:48 PM): oh and enjoy your vacation!
Them (6/27/2006 12:25:12 PM): We always do
Them (6/27/2006 12:26:04 PM): so what is it you are looking for?
Them (6/27/2006 12:26:21 PM): Justcurious
Us (6/27/2006 12:26:45 PM): generally more long term encounters.
US (6/27/2006 12:27:40 PM): Do you guys go to the swing clubs while down here?
Them (6/27/2006 12:28:06 PM): Obviously you haven't taken the time to read the profile, lol
Them (6/27/2006 12:28:14 PM): Bye
Us (6/27/2006 12:28:52 PM): Bye
Them (6/27/2006 12:28:59 PM): Christ, you're still writing
Them (6/27/2006 12:29:02 PM): What the fuck
Them (6/27/2006 12:29:15 PM): Move on to someone your size, Jeez
Us (6/27/2006 12:29:20 PM): Just being polite.. Sry for the inconvience
Them (6/27/2006 12:29:46 PM): Learn to read a profile before asking repeating assinine questions
Them (6/27/2006 12:30:24 PM): Here's a new phrase for you to learn....h/w/p she should really lay off of the carbs
Us (6/27/2006 12:30:50 PM): I'm sorry I don't know what that means.
Them (6/27/2006 12:30:52 PM): poor little porker is a heart attack waiting to happen
Them (6/27/2006 12:30:58 PM): height weight proportionate
Us (6/27/2006 12:31:22 PM): Cool thanks learn something new everyday
Them (6/27/2006 12:31:25 PM): we wrote you because friends that lived there found her body shape amusing.
Them (6/27/2006 12:31:29 PM): They were correct
Them (6/27/2006 12:31:53 PM): If she ever drops 50-75 lbs. Drop us a line


Talk about way to ruin your day!

Amanda
sounds like those people are the ones with the problem must be hard being as perfect as they are or at least think they are unless they are perfect assholes. well from what we saw in your pics and profile we dont see anything wrong with you
Thank you!

I really do appreciate your kind words and support.

Amanda
amanda, dont sweat the ass holes... there are a few of them out there...you are very hot.. if we ever make down your way we will be sure to let you guys knoe...dennis and sara
Seeing you guys are so far away I'm sure we will NEVER meet, BUT........... I see only a little extra on her and I'm sure we could all help her work up a serious sweat and work that lilbit off in no time. I know I'd love being a personal trainer ie: sex slave to help get that lil extra right back to where it needed to be. WEG ;)
We just checked your pictures expecting to see a BBW, which we could understand them since some people do not prefer girls of size....But your actually quite small...what the fuck are they talking about? If you lost 50 pounds you would be what 80?? We don't do stick figures :)
I agree, wouldn't it be wonderful to be as perfect as them? People who have low self esteem tend to try to take others down so they feel like the "big fish in the little pond". We have run into some very rude people in this lifestyle. But the good friends totally outweight (no pun intended LOL) the jerks we've met.

Haven't you found that the people who are the most beautiful (and I don't just mean beautiful on the outside) are the ones who are not aware of it and are the ones who treat others the same way they want to be treated?
Anyone who degrades to that level of "conversation" is just someone who gets off on being rude. It happens all the time in on-line forums: a core of people get friendly and start to have a great time. Then some brainless types can't form a sentence, so can't "join the group" by actually participating - so they then get their jollies by saying hurtful, mean, nasty - and *UNTRUE* things - and slowly tear the "community" apart.

I've seen it happen again and again.

The *only* way to deal with someone who is being rude - is to just "switch them off". Ignore them and forget all about them. If you met that person on the street, you'd see how *un*important their opinion is to you, but because you are a *nice* person, it's tough to just let it go. Been there. Done that.

And, by the way, would *love* to party with you two. So would the jerk who insulted you.

Smile. Smile like you're doing in your pictures. And be happy that you are *not* someone who gets his jollies by making others feel bad.
its so sad that some people are so stuck up on theirselfs that they feel that they are better then any one else. we saw nothing but a nice happy couple in u 2 and we would meet with u even if it were for a fun night out.
Sounds like their mind never left junior high. Be thankful you didn't have to contend with that bullshit in person.

*EDIT* After viewing your profile I'd like to say, there is *nothing* wrong with your body. :) It sounds like these people were probably some immature pricks trolling adult sites just to be an ass to strangers.

Beard summed up my thoughts exactly.

--Mr. AG
i will tel you you lady is very sexy and you on a man opinion you are no't bad and looking if you ever around fl les us know we will love to be with you
Dear PAD8,

I think you two are nice. No matter what I think you should not be bothered by an attempt to berate you, instead you should explore the adventure of life of eroticism. Check out tattoos, piercings and being with people who like company not those who NEED company. While the treatment can be cruel and I know as I am a single male, you should give the same attention to those who just said "hi" as they may be the ones who are shy but an opportunity waiting to happen.

Allow only your doctor to tell you when you need to do something different with your health.

-Rick
We find you very attractive and sexy!

We would party with you anytime........!!!

Tom Kat
After viewing your pictures we see nothing wrong at all. And even if you were large which you are not,we do not judge by looks but by what is inside. Sure glad to hear those you speak of are not on this site.
Brenda & James
wow...we still cant believe some of the assholes who say they are in "the lifestyle" but apparently just dont understand it at all. to us, being in the lifestyle has deepened our appreciation of people as individuals, not just people we know or, of course, people we swing with. those idiots you were talking to apparently arent real lifestylers at all...they only get together with people to "fuck". yes, i know, ultimately we all hope to end up having "fun" with others in the lifestyle, but virtually all of us have prb met people we didnt have sex with but still have contact with socially, etc. both my gf and i found your pics VERY hot, and maam, wed both LOVE to enjoy your sexy body. glad that there are still real people in the lifestyle and not just unrealistic bedpost notchers.!
I just like to thank everyone for there kind words. I really needed them today!
The swingular community is by far the best and I say that with all honesty.

All you guys have made me feel alot better about the situation and I and my husband really apprciate the support.

Thank you all!

Amanda & Peter
They have a really big problem. If u need to lose that much, I need to lose alot more. U guys look great. God what are they thinking. Im wishing i was in Fl right now. lol. There is nothing wrong with you guys.

Mrs Shy
Ok first off, you guys look awesome!!! Regardless of what some ass-hat says you both are great looking.

Second, you have MUCH more self control than I ever could have had. By the time they spouted off that you were still chatting I would have gone off. Had I gotten any of what was said that followed BYE typed to me I would have gone to great lengths to show these immature morons just how rude they were being and how offensive they are.

I am a fiesty BBW that will take it to the limit when people show their ass like that. I have no patience for rudeness and that was the epitome!!! So please don't let jerks like that ruin your day. You have a beautiful body and an amazing smile...one of my favorite quotes is from Eleanor Roosevelt and I definitely think it applies here "Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent".

MEAN People will say anything to make themselves look and feel better, even when its degrading someone else. In the end, they only make themselves look worse...MEAN PEOPLE SUCK...and not in a good way.

I hope you accept that you are beautiful and enjoy life to the fullest...Celebrate who you are!!!


~Amy~
From what I have read and seen in your profile? ( I think you two look great)Just what makes them so perfect and just what kind of drugs are they on to think that they are so perfect? Maybe we should all be on whatever it is that they are because then everyone would be perfect or maybe that's just what the drugs make them think? Just my 2 cents worth and I think you two look fine! If I didn't live so far away I certainly wouldn't mind having you as friends at the least because you seem like just plain good ole down to earth people and that is what matters the most!!!:z
Holy Flying Fucks! What assholes! Trust me little lady just looking at your pics i got so hard i had to jump the misses so i could be calm enough to write this!

You know how hard it is to write with a little raging blue hardon?

If EVER in Texas or if we are EVER in your area i would only hope that we would get to cum play with you two.

Dont let a few bad apples ruin your fun.There are always better apples out there to make apple butter with,sweety.


Papa Smurf & Smurfette
It is refreshing to see folks jumping at the chance to make a person feel good instead of jumping to attack. :-) I have to agree that the lady who started this post is nothing like the IM said. She is very pretty and has a great smile. If you want to see fat and ugly look at my pic on my profile. LOL I would just chalk it up to that fact that the jerks who made disparaging comments is full of it and realize there are so many more who find the lady posting this as a very sexy woman.
OK...Sorry...have to chime in here...

IF ANYTHING, YOU ARE TO THIN...I (the male) prefer something with some meat...some curve, some "padunkadunk" if you will...Cannot see your backside, so cannot judge...BUt you look quite attractive...

When you told them to piss off, they did not like it...therefore, go for the sore spot in most women, their weight...I do not understand this, but that is one of the ways to injure a woman's psyche...

I personally would have told them to piss up a rope and promtly iggied them...then wait for them to show up at a club...well....lets just say there is dark rooms, duct tape, and a baseball bat involved....

Jim

P.S.- If you ever get up Parrish way, drop us a line...
Amanda there is nothing wrong with the way you look wish we lived closer we would love to meet you both. The very reason of what you experienced from that very RUDE cpl is why we rarely chat we instead send a message and ask to meet face to face it reduces the amount of fakes and flakes.

Norm&Sharon
There are alot of nice people on here and a few assholes. Unfortunately you imed an asshole. Dont let it ruin your day. Party Hard!
Amanda, you are very attractive in my opinion. There are alot of people out there that cannot take "no thanks" for an answer. And when they are told this, simply attack! I don't reaaly have a preference as to body types but ample or a few extra pounds works well for me. My better half was treated badly in a prior relationship because of her weight. So, i have made it my mission to correct these negative feeling she has. SEXY is an attitude my dear, not a DRESS SIZE!!!!!