Hey cuttie
My advice from the male halfe here and being over weight but down quite a bit as most know from what I weighed a year ago and 6 months ago was over 300 now 235.
Have your husband go with you and also take a friend or another cpl to pick it out. have some drinks and hit a sexy clothing store make it a fun outting pre party thing. BUT THEY and you need to be honest with what looks good on you and shows you off the best. Dont take them telling you that the outfit you have on is not the one. Just try another till you all agree thats the one and when you have them all turned on from the way you look in the new outfit take them home and PLAY LOL last part optional
Just what I think you should do. figure it this way the night of the party you know the ones that count will think you are HOT IN THE NEW OUTFIT if a few others do to you picked a great one. We all know this we are all differant and we all will never be liked by everyone so go have fun dance and bring your party to the party dont go looking for one.
have a hot time we wish we could go.
Traci and Pat
My advice from the male halfe here and being over weight but down quite a bit as most know from what I weighed a year ago and 6 months ago was over 300 now 235.
Have your husband go with you and also take a friend or another cpl to pick it out. have some drinks and hit a sexy clothing store make it a fun outting pre party thing. BUT THEY and you need to be honest with what looks good on you and shows you off the best. Dont take them telling you that the outfit you have on is not the one. Just try another till you all agree thats the one and when you have them all turned on from the way you look in the new outfit take them home and PLAY LOL last part optional

Just what I think you should do. figure it this way the night of the party you know the ones that count will think you are HOT IN THE NEW OUTFIT if a few others do to you picked a great one. We all know this we are all differant and we all will never be liked by everyone so go have fun dance and bring your party to the party dont go looking for one.
have a hot time we wish we could go.
Traci and Pat
doesn't bother either of us
Ok, I know you might be thinking this is from some single old-fart in the middle of a desert but you look great and I have always liked women with substance. You are not in my book in any means, overweight. I think you should not worry about it at all and just have a wonderful time selecting SEVERAL outfits.
Cutie, First, you look great. I think that women who have a little extra weight are far more sexy than those who are skinny as a rail. Just my opinion. A woman's smile and personality go miles more to enhance that. I know a number of women who are bigger than, say, what fashion says is ideal... and who are not largley endowed in the chest but who are sexy as hell... B also tends to larger women as well... BTW you are very cute and I would consider you very sexy....
Hugs, Kisses and LiXXX
Hugs, Kisses and LiXXX
Cutie
You have NOTHING to worry about. Where I'm from you'd be called thick, and that's a good thing. Junk in the trunk is highly sought after!
Tnp
Great advice. You should only really concern yourself with what the people you care about, think.
You have NOTHING to worry about. Where I'm from you'd be called thick, and that's a good thing. Junk in the trunk is highly sought after!
Tnp
Great advice. You should only really concern yourself with what the people you care about, think.
Mr Cutie...Be honest,..Other than that...go with each other and pick out omsethign hot...
BTW...you are in no way shape or form needing to worry...you are not heavy at all....
BTW...you are in no way shape or form needing to worry...you are not heavy at all....
Mr here...as you may expect. Personally I tend to lean toward the thinner women, BUT...I have to strongly echo the sentiments here. Attitude is everything and secondly, I looked (like you might expect also) and I could only wish I could go with you picking out something. You have a great look, and you could not possibly pick out anything that would not make you look good.
"SIZE of "PERSONALTY" is more important then "SIZE of BODY" & most Ken & Barbie don't have any.