We have tried full swapping without much time to talk or meet beforehand a couple times lately, and while it was hot and steamy, it seems to be missing something.
We have always enjoyed going out and getting to know a couple before playing, but even more so lately it seems like the pursuit of the other partner seems to make things even sexier. The flirting, touching, and sexual tension before going back to someone’s place or before finishing dinner just seem to make things even more erotic!
We’d love to find some couples who feel the same way or share similar interests and are interested in the excitement of the sexual buildup and tension before just jumping right into things. Possibly even dating or frequently going out with the same couple if the chemistry is right to just enhance the friendship and sexual relationship.
Anyone else feel the same way?
Maybe that’s just us feeling some type of way lately.
K+S
We have always enjoyed going out and getting to know a couple before playing, but even more so lately it seems like the pursuit of the other partner seems to make things even sexier. The flirting, touching, and sexual tension before going back to someone’s place or before finishing dinner just seem to make things even more erotic!
We’d love to find some couples who feel the same way or share similar interests and are interested in the excitement of the sexual buildup and tension before just jumping right into things. Possibly even dating or frequently going out with the same couple if the chemistry is right to just enhance the friendship and sexual relationship.
Anyone else feel the same way?
Maybe that’s just us feeling some type of way lately.
K+S
That’s exactly how we are! We’d love to meet you guys.
I wouldn't even call it "the fun of the chase" as much as just liking to get to know people a little bit before jumping into the sack. I know there are plenty of swingers who really prefer no prelims of any kind and just getting down to the sex but that's not usually us.
For us there has to be an attraction on at least another level beyond simply physical attraction. Personality and being able to carry on a conversation are very important to both Ms. Evil and I. We much prefer to talk, at least a little bit, and get to know people a bit better and maybe flirt and tease and kid around a little bit. We find that it makes the sex a LOT hotter if we like you at least a little bit first. :-D
For us there has to be an attraction on at least another level beyond simply physical attraction. Personality and being able to carry on a conversation are very important to both Ms. Evil and I. We much prefer to talk, at least a little bit, and get to know people a bit better and maybe flirt and tease and kid around a little bit. We find that it makes the sex a LOT hotter if we like you at least a little bit first. :-D
We are ok with quick hook ups as well, it just feels like it leaves something to be desired. The intimacy is something we crave definitely, because it makes the sex better and the build-up even more fun!