Ladies and the rare couples who play with single men, What do you do if the guy has a shorter cock than you expected? If you had made it known you were looking for a well endowed guy and he was shorter than you expected would you go on and play with him or send him packing? What is your experience with this?
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Well, it's happened...she wasn't thrilled, but he wasn't incredibly small, really. Just not what she prefers. It's hard enough to set things up anyway, so we indulged the evening.
Had he been fantastic in every other way, I think she wouldn't mind, honestly. But, he really didn't do well in a number of areas. So, her thing - when she's not happy for whatever reason - is she just won't see them again.
What's your experience?
Well, it's happened...she wasn't thrilled, but he wasn't incredibly small, really. Just not what she prefers. It's hard enough to set things up anyway, so we indulged the evening.
Had he been fantastic in every other way, I think she wouldn't mind, honestly. But, he really didn't do well in a number of areas. So, her thing - when she's not happy for whatever reason - is she just won't see them again.
What's your experience?
Great to hear from our favorite couple. Your experience is the same as ours. Do men really think the lady won't know the difference? We know one lady who laughed at the guy and sent him packing. Short of making the guy send a clear pic with it along side a ruler how can you be sure?
I like the picture idea. Try mine for example. 
No reason to make things up. You are right, the lady will know for sure.
Christian
No reason to make things up. You are right, the lady will know for sure. Christian
oh c'mon now, what single guy doesn't have a picture of it on his profile lol, most of them use it for their main photo. I say if the lady is so concerned about the size to make sure she at least sees a pic before he is invited.
True, a lot of guys have a pic of their cock on their profile. But how many here can tell 5 inches from 7 inches in a pic? Pics have proven to be very deceiving. We met one guy so far who wasn't lying. This is not a male bashing thread. We just need a better way to screen guys.
Totally agree with Wonda on this one, if size is what your lady is looking for then a simple question of what he's packing (we feel) is not a bad thing either. Just ask him, but please make it before your all 'Nekked' and hopeing to get lucky. I'm sure the singles who have smaller equipment will still feel pretty bad if your lady just started laughing at him. And with todays society who know's you might create the next pysco killer or something.
We've actually known a couple where the guy was very short, and very sensitive. All my honey had to do was give just a few licks and a very short hand job before he was popping like ole' faithful.
But you know what they say even little guys need loving too!!
We've actually known a couple where the guy was very short, and very sensitive. All my honey had to do was give just a few licks and a very short hand job before he was popping like ole' faithful.
But you know what they say even little guys need loving too!!
Just asking them their size does not work. They are not truthful about it. It was not MY wife who laughed at the guy. She has been very patient with the guys so far, even though she hasn't gotten what she wanted. I hate to see her disappointed. We are exclusively looking for singlemen, we do not go to house parties or swingers clubs.
I do all the "screening" (assuming we're talking meeting guys form online). I've certainly asked before...nothing too insensitive, mind you - but still. She wants to know, and what she wants...well, *hehehe*
It *is* often misrepresented, though. Most profile pic cock shots are difficult to gauge - but, honestly, there had better be more pics than that, or she's instantly turned off, anyway.
As for size, one reason the closeups are hard to judge is because there's often little in the pic to reference. So, something that I will usually do is ask if they have a 'full-body' type pic, which she prefers anyway, but that shows everything - perspective, if you will.
There have only been a few guys that were small, but (as mentioned above) if a guy knows how to use it, she'll be just fine
I'm not huge myself.
It might seem a little strange, that I'm doing all this...but then, to us, that's what this is all about. I love it when things work well for her...and if I have a part in that (no pun intended *lmao*)...good!
Have fun
SnS
It *is* often misrepresented, though. Most profile pic cock shots are difficult to gauge - but, honestly, there had better be more pics than that, or she's instantly turned off, anyway.
As for size, one reason the closeups are hard to judge is because there's often little in the pic to reference. So, something that I will usually do is ask if they have a 'full-body' type pic, which she prefers anyway, but that shows everything - perspective, if you will.
There have only been a few guys that were small, but (as mentioned above) if a guy knows how to use it, she'll be just fine
I'm not huge myself.It might seem a little strange, that I'm doing all this...but then, to us, that's what this is all about. I love it when things work well for her...and if I have a part in that (no pun intended *lmao*)...good!
Have fun
SnS
Well for us that alone would be a deal breaker, the lying part that is. We feel if a person male, female, or both has to lie to get someone into the sack then their not worth the time anyway. Also if they lie about something such as that what else do they or will they lie about.
As for me, when I'm soft... I can honestly say he doesn't look all that impressive, maybe 2 1/2-3 inches, but get him excited and he will show you just how proud he can be. Not huge but 7 inches and about 4 inches around, with an even larger head.
To date I've never had anyone tell me they were disappointed in my size.
As for me, when I'm soft... I can honestly say he doesn't look all that impressive, maybe 2 1/2-3 inches, but get him excited and he will show you just how proud he can be. Not huge but 7 inches and about 4 inches around, with an even larger head.
To date I've never had anyone tell me they were disappointed in my size.
I guess I must be really strange ... I don't have a clue how long or thick I am. Where the hell do you even measure from?
Must be OK though ... no one has ever complained and most have come back for round 2....3...Etc.
Interesting question/dilemma though ... We look forward to seeing how it is resolved.
Must be OK though ... no one has ever complained and most have come back for round 2....3...Etc.
Interesting question/dilemma though ... We look forward to seeing how it is resolved.
We totally agree with Valence and Hunt. We're not sure why size is such a big deal. I'm your average 6" and don't feel like I have any reason to feel ashamed about it. The one person it should matter to loves it the way it is.
We love the point about women who layer/pushup/tighten or whatever else to make themselves look better with clothes on. Wouldn't it be the same disappointment when the clothes come off as you have had with these single men that weren't the size they said they were.
Having said that, we would also find it upsetting that he had lied about his size if that was indeed what was important to you. So maybe force the single men in the future to provide a picture with their unit being measured with a ruler, then you should know exactly what you're getting.
We love the point about women who layer/pushup/tighten or whatever else to make themselves look better with clothes on. Wouldn't it be the same disappointment when the clothes come off as you have had with these single men that weren't the size they said they were.
Having said that, we would also find it upsetting that he had lied about his size if that was indeed what was important to you. So maybe force the single men in the future to provide a picture with their unit being measured with a ruler, then you should know exactly what you're getting.
"We totally agree with Valence and Hunt. We're not sure why size is such a big deal. I'm your average 6" and don't feel like I have any reason to feel ashamed about it. The one person it should matter to loves it the way it is. "
No one here said small guys should be ashamed, As usuall the insecure guys here all came out to complain even though none of the original post was directed at them in anyway.
If your wife is happy with what you got great. This is my wifes play time, she wants what she wants. She doesn't settle for what ever is offered. Why should she?
"We love the point about women who layer/pushup/tighten or whatever else to make themselves look better with clothes on. Wouldn't it be the same disappointment when the clothes come off as you have had with these single men that weren't the size they said they were. "
We Always provide full nude pics of her to good candidates, nothing left to guess. He knows what he is getting. Most swingers and adult sites always show the woman in various stages of undress. More than I can say for the men. You usually never see them there. Mine are in our private pics so anyone we wish to play with can see them.
"we Having said that, we would also find it upsetting that he had lied about his size if that was indeed what was important to you. So maybe force the single men in the future to provide a picture with their unit being measured with a ruler, then you should know exactly what you're getting. "
Some will do this, the rest get all defensive when asked. 99% of the ones who send pics try to fake them so their real size will not show. We don't play with just anyone regardless of looks or size. If there is no physical attraction it won't happen. In our own experience most couples are quite selective. We are too ands thats our right.
None of the original post by us was ever directed at any guy on here. No need to get all defensive and complain. Your manhood is not in question. I knew when we brought the question up what would happen but the wife wanted to ask others their experiences.
No one here said small guys should be ashamed, As usuall the insecure guys here all came out to complain even though none of the original post was directed at them in anyway.
If your wife is happy with what you got great. This is my wifes play time, she wants what she wants. She doesn't settle for what ever is offered. Why should she?
"We love the point about women who layer/pushup/tighten or whatever else to make themselves look better with clothes on. Wouldn't it be the same disappointment when the clothes come off as you have had with these single men that weren't the size they said they were. "
We Always provide full nude pics of her to good candidates, nothing left to guess. He knows what he is getting. Most swingers and adult sites always show the woman in various stages of undress. More than I can say for the men. You usually never see them there. Mine are in our private pics so anyone we wish to play with can see them.
"we Having said that, we would also find it upsetting that he had lied about his size if that was indeed what was important to you. So maybe force the single men in the future to provide a picture with their unit being measured with a ruler, then you should know exactly what you're getting. "
Some will do this, the rest get all defensive when asked. 99% of the ones who send pics try to fake them so their real size will not show. We don't play with just anyone regardless of looks or size. If there is no physical attraction it won't happen. In our own experience most couples are quite selective. We are too ands thats our right.
None of the original post by us was ever directed at any guy on here. No need to get all defensive and complain. Your manhood is not in question. I knew when we brought the question up what would happen but the wife wanted to ask others their experiences.
Sadly even if you ask for a picture there will always be some guys that will even go so far as post a pic that is not their's. Yes this has been a complaint of a few couples in other forums.
It's sad that some guys will lie about weight and penis length. I don't see the point when it comes time to meet most of these guys will not show, the ones that do I hope couples feel comfortable enough to send them packing.
I'm over 6 inches, but under 7. Sadly a lot of women seem to be looking for 7 or 8, but that in way would ever encourage me to lie.
It's sad that some guys will lie about weight and penis length. I don't see the point when it comes time to meet most of these guys will not show, the ones that do I hope couples feel comfortable enough to send them packing.
I'm over 6 inches, but under 7. Sadly a lot of women seem to be looking for 7 or 8, but that in way would ever encourage me to lie.