First thing you have to do is invite us.lol From our experience and what we heard you have to invite more than what you want at your gathering,because believe it or not you will have no-shows. Even with single guys which doesnt make any sense at all. Perfect chance to get some and they dont show. Other than that you have to pick and choose,but make sure she helps with the selections.
US TO US TO SOUNDS LIKE FUN 
Heyy now... were only over here on the east coast.
We're not far from you so give us a shout. We will be at Tastebuds Saturday night if anybody's interested. Lets play. Kim and John
ummm taste buds we will be there to look us up D&J
No shorage of volenteers on here..lol