We're an attractive, fit and intelligent couple looking for the same to be FWB. We've dated 3 couples in the past 5 years and had a blast! We know we might not be the normal couple seeking other couples because we aren't into threesomes or same room play at all. We have a lot to offer and haven't had much luck finding what we're specifically looking for. It's more than just sexy for us, we want a lasting friendship with a really great couple. Anyone else in the same boat?
Honestly for us friendship is the most important side of the lifestyle. We enjoy playing but enjoy getting to know people and building lasting relationship. Most of the people we've encountered have been the same way. Keep your chim up and keep looking, your attractive and shouldn't have a hard time finding what your after.
Weve been looking aswell and unfortunately havent had any luck, just when we think things are going to go well they disappear.
Question, we are super new to all this and I’m wondering what does it mean to date another couple? Do you all go out together at the same time or do you each date the other party solo, etc? I find this intriguing.
It's really up to you guys what dating means to you. We've had more of a boyfriend / girlfriend type of relationship with the couples we've dated. The 4 of us would hang out and we'd split off. Sometimes we just do date night with the other spouses on our own. We've even traveled together and have had a blast.just gotta find a cool couple we can have more fun with.
We are actually looking for the same thing. However, that hasn't happened as of now. We would like to find a couple close to our age that can do some traveling and just hang out together. It would really be ideal if they were somewhat close by also. Good luck in your search, hope you find what your after.
Candyrocks69 wrote:
It's really up to you guys what dating means to you. We've had more of a boyfriend / girlfriend type of relationship with the couples we've dated. The 4 of us would hang out and we'd split off. Sometimes we just do date night with the other spouses on our own. We've even traveled together and have had a blast.just gotta find a cool couple we can have more fun with.
That makes sense! Sounds like fun to! Thank you for the response!! Best of luck to you guys.
Looks this type of fun with couples rarely happens, where all people enjoy each other and are attracted to one another...is that the bottom line? With many couples looking for it and rarely finding it, what do you do while waiting for this to come into your lives?
Well, we've dated 3 couples in the past 5 years and it was really great. We know it can work, just gotta find the right fit where all 4 of you connect.
Sunnyday
Sunnyday wrote:You Both look & sound like a lot of fun. We woule like to get to meet you both.
https://swingular.com/profile.php?_MID=179845Looks this type of fun with couples rarely happens, where all people enjoy each other and are attracted to one another...is that the bottom line? With many couples looking for it and rarely finding it, what do you do while waiting for this to come into your lives?
Were looking for a couple to date or have as regular basis fwb... but its not easy to find...
hot4tongue2 wrote:no way lolSunnyday wrote:
...what do you do while waiting for this to come into your lives?
Take one (or more) for the team.. lol
We’re trying to herb back into the lifestyle. We used to know a lot of people but it’s been awhile and most of them are gone. We liked the OP’s post and they look really hot. Hit us up and let us know if you think we could be what you’re after. There were several sexy couples replying. We’re anxious to meet a fun couple, find new friendships, and have some fun. 😉
We like this thread. Although we live in Las Vegas, we come up to SLC area often during the winter months to ski. We are looking for lasting friendships too. It would be nice to befriend another couple that would occasionally visit Las Vegas so we can play tour guide. For us, sex is just the icing on the cake. We enjoy separate and same room play.
Hit us up if this sounds fun to you.
Hit us up if this sounds fun to you.
Too much work. Yawn... lol. Won’t be long before someone starts catching a feeling or worse suspect someone of catching a feeling. Lol. That’s my opinion but I am sure I am way wrong
massageBBCguy wrote:So agree!
Too much work. Yawn... lol. Won’t be long before someone starts catching a feeling or worse suspect someone of catching a feeling. Lol. That’s my opinion but I am sure I am way wrong
Maybe someone should make a post of “how to prove you didn’t catch a feeling” lol
(I don’t start topics... I am not wired that way)
(I don’t start topics... I am not wired that way)
We would be curious how many people would be open to discuss any issues/feelings that result from these types of arrangements?!?!
We like to develope a friendship also but we realize not everyone has the schedule to accomodate that. Sounds like candyrocks had more of a poly relationship and that's great but not everyone wants that.
Yep FWB is great and we have that kinda relationship with lots of couples but we date couples and accept what evertype of relationship developes. We have no problem saying no if things progress outside of our boundaries.
This philosophy has worked well and the sexy/horny couples we play with and call friends must feel the same way because we keep having great times with them. Now we have also met couples that are friends that we don't play with and that's ok also.
We don't look for something that's not there (feelings perhaps). We just go with the flow and if it's a one timer that's ok also. If the date is too one sided we make a decision together on how to proceed. We always have fun and we never regret any of our decisions. If things did not workout we have a good laugh and move on.
Good luck and good swinging.
Yep FWB is great and we have that kinda relationship with lots of couples but we date couples and accept what evertype of relationship developes. We have no problem saying no if things progress outside of our boundaries.
This philosophy has worked well and the sexy/horny couples we play with and call friends must feel the same way because we keep having great times with them. Now we have also met couples that are friends that we don't play with and that's ok also.
We don't look for something that's not there (feelings perhaps). We just go with the flow and if it's a one timer that's ok also. If the date is too one sided we make a decision together on how to proceed. We always have fun and we never regret any of our decisions. If things did not workout we have a good laugh and move on.
Good luck and good swinging.
We've dabbled into the poly lifestyle and enjoy it but its hard to find others open to the idea
We have had a situation that was similar to what you described, and are looking for something similar to it again since she moved away 
. We like a woman that likes to play in the bedroom as a 3 way, or one on one with either of us, but also go out with us as well.
We don’t have to “date” persay, but we like having someone that is able to go out to dinner or stargazing or even dancing with us, or hang out with her and have a girls day then come back and cuddle and watch a movie with both.
In the case of another couple, we enjoy being able to swap partners and go on a date wether that together or separate in addition to the bedroom fun.
I think putting a label on it such as a “relationship” limits it too because they feel pressured to only be committed to that relationship.
That’s just our take.
But anyways, if any female or possibly couple reading this is interested in something like what we described definitely message us!
. We like a woman that likes to play in the bedroom as a 3 way, or one on one with either of us, but also go out with us as well. We don’t have to “date” persay, but we like having someone that is able to go out to dinner or stargazing or even dancing with us, or hang out with her and have a girls day then come back and cuddle and watch a movie with both.
In the case of another couple, we enjoy being able to swap partners and go on a date wether that together or separate in addition to the bedroom fun.
I think putting a label on it such as a “relationship” limits it too because they feel pressured to only be committed to that relationship.
That’s just our take.
But anyways, if any female or possibly couple reading this is interested in something like what we described definitely message us!
WildCouple88 wrote:
We have had a situation that was similar to what you described, and are looking for something similar to it again since she moved away
We don’t have to “date” persay, but we like having someone that is able to go out to dinner or stargazing or even dancing with us, or hang out with her and have a girls day then come back and cuddle and watch a movie with both.
In the case of another couple, we enjoy being able to swap partners and go on a date wether that together or separate in addition to the bedroom fun.
I think putting a label on it such as a “relationship” limits it too because they feel pressured to only be committed to that relationship.
That’s just our take.
But anyways, if any female or possibly couple reading this is interested in something like what we described definitely message us!
Everyone is looking for their own thing. What’s right for you may not be right for another couple. Hopefully you can find a couple that just clicks. I do agree though that pressure isn’t something you want in this situation. It has to be fun and worth it. We are busy professionals and we want to keep it fun.
HI everyone
Yes, everyone has their own wants, needs and desires and we all have busy schedules. Friendship first is what works best for us, it always seems to make the playtime even better.
We like to have friends for dinners, movies and going out.
We both have hall passes so another couple that we can have fun with would be amazing.
Thanks and have fun everyone
Yes, everyone has their own wants, needs and desires and we all have busy schedules. Friendship first is what works best for us, it always seems to make the playtime even better.
We like to have friends for dinners, movies and going out.
We both have hall passes so another couple that we can have fun with would be amazing.
Thanks and have fun everyone
Nothing wrong with “catching a feeling”. As long as it’s a good feeling, a physical feeling, and stays at purely a sexual level. Isn’t that why we do this? I want to fk your wife and you want mine. Great thing we have going on here. And it’s just a bunch of good, harmless fun. It’s feels good to cum! And feeling someone new and different is exciting. They look different, smell different, sound different. We’re stimulated by these things. Granted, I could have my wife and no one else ever and would be perfectly happy. But it’s like eating your favorite donut every day. You’ll always like it, but once in awhile you wouldn’t mind the cake filled one with sprinkles.
Enjoy life. This is our one shot to do just that. Cheers!
Enjoy life. This is our one shot to do just that. Cheers!
This sounds like almost exactly what we are looking for as well... Minus the part about dating. We want true friends outside of the bedroom, with awesome benefits. But damn it's hard to come by. lol
Any suggestions for getting started down the couples path?
Any suggestions for getting started down the couples path?
More4her1096 wrote:
This sounds like almost exactly what we are looking for as well... Minus the part about dating. We want true friends outside of the bedroom, with awesome benefits. But damn it's hard to come by. lol
Any suggestions for getting started down the couples path?
have patience and make sure you’re both happy and in it together.
That's exactly what we're looking for in a couple. Folks that we get along with outside the bedroom is more important than getting along inside the bedroom to us....
HOTOILER3006 wrote:
That's exactly what we're looking for in a couple. Folks that we get along with outside the bedroom is more important than getting along inside the bedroom to us....
Having a couple we genuinely enjoy being around is a huge plus. Fun conversation, dirty jokes, being ridiculous and inappropriate...that's what we want.
Well finding those couples are hard to find on here. We have a couple of them we hang out with from time To time as well. Have fun with see movie have drinks it's not all about the bedroom. That's the plus when that happens as well so treat people like you want to be treated . Those friends are hard to find so good luck on what you are looking for best wishes to you guys
Franknfelicity wrote:thank you kindly.
Well finding those couples are hard to find on here. We have a couple of them we hang out with from time To time as well. Have fun with see movie have drinks it's not all about the bedroom. That's the plus when that happens as well so treat people like you want to be treated . Those friends are hard to find so good luck on what you are looking for best wishes to you guys
We are always up for meeting new friends, we are not pushy or drama.
Evan n LaNae
Evan n LaNae
Such a hard thing to find, 4 people who get along well enough to do this. When you do it is fun and exciting. We have experienced this situation, and hope to find another couple.
Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
Bigc wrote:
Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
nooooooope
Candyrocks69 wrote:Bigc wrote:
Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
nooooooope
Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Wakeboarding love the sarcasm!!!! lol
EVILDOERS wrote:Candyrocks69 wrote:
[quote=Bigc]Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
nooooooope
Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯[/quote] lol
Candyrocks69 wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
[quote=Candyrocks69][quote=Bigc]Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
nooooooope
Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯[/quote] lol[/quote]
Besides, he's apparently a truck driver and he might have a sleeper in his cab so you wouldn't even need to spring for a hotel room. Your husband could even sit in the drivers seat and pretend to drive and toot the horn while you and Bigc do the nasty. Win/win!
We know quite a few poly people, as in they approach nonmonogamy more from a polyamorous point of view than that of someone mostly interested in recreational sex. Most of the poly people we know are actually in committed couples relationships and really not in any other committed relationship outside of their twosome, but the are open to the possibility. We know two couples, where one of them is in a relationship with a second person and two couples whose relationships became permanent and committed threesomes. The way we look at it, it just has to flow that way naturally.
Candyrocks69, you baited your hook and tossed it out in the water, with this thread. You may not be attracting exactly what you are looking for just yet, but all the responses to your thread just keep rebaiting your hook. We hope the catch you are looking for yanks at your line!
Candyrocks69, you baited your hook and tossed it out in the water, with this thread. You may not be attracting exactly what you are looking for just yet, but all the responses to your thread just keep rebaiting your hook. We hope the catch you are looking for yanks at your line!
EVILDOERS wrote:Candyrocks69 wrote:
[quote=EVILDOERS][quote=Candyrocks69][quote=Bigc]Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
nooooooope
Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯[/quote] lol[/quote]
Besides, he's apparently a truck driver and he might have a sleeper in his cab so you wouldn't even need to spring for a hotel room. Your husband could even sit in the drivers seat and pretend to drive and toot the horn while you and Bigc do the nasty. Win/win!
[/quote]This just wrecked our truck driver fantasy Evil. Thanks.
Candyrocks69 wrote:
We're an attractive, fit and intelligent couple looking for the same to be FWB. We've dated 3 couples in the past 5 years and had a blast! We know we might not be the normal couple seeking other couples because we aren't into threesomes or same room play at all. We have a lot to offer and haven't had much luck finding what we're specifically looking for. It's more than just sexy for us, we want a lasting friendship with a really great couple. Anyone else in the same boat?
You guys are super cute!
We seek both, long term friends who are open to sexyness when the occasion is right but sometimes like to get together with other couples for cheap meaningless sex lol. We have luck finding both. Sometimes casual encounters had lead to long lasting friendships. I guess there are a lot of nice people out there and "togethersex" is just one of the interests (among others) we have in common.
Bigc wrote:
Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
he just from FL lol
It's been hard for us as well. Especially since we're not on here often. We use kik more. Hit us up at bcarr214 (him) or acarr214 (her). Hit us up, we like friends with or without benefits.
Encore wrote:
It's been hard for us as well. Especially since we're not on here often. We use kik more. Hit us up at bcarr214 (him) or acarr214 (her). Hit us up, we like friends with or without benefits.
Do you guys travel to South California? We travel to SLC 2-3 times a year.
Hi
Hi
We're still looking for a fun couple to date. Any takers??? Check out our profile and message us if interested.
Hi ,
Melissag
Melissag
Sounds like we are most definitely in the same 🚣♀️...... hit us up and I can send ya a pic
If you all lived here in st George we would be totally interested! Seems like we miss out living here. Maybe my hubby needs to transfer areas 🤔😉😊
Soooo, are we all going out?
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A_G1978 wrote:
If you all lived here in st George we would be totally interested! Seems like we miss out living here. Maybe my hubby needs to transfer areas 🤔😉😊
Would love to have you two closer to us! 🥰
We wanna play!
EVILDOERS wrote:We love playing chest 😀!
We wanna play!
We are looking for the same thing. If a couple has kids the same age as ours, that is a plus too. We would love to have a couple we could vacation with.
We're also looking...
The real question is: who isn't looking? Are we all here for the same thing?? =)
So we've had very little problems finding fun couples to hang out with or have long-term relationships/friendships. Our first foray into the LS was at a lifestyle friendly resort. We did our homework - learned all we could online - and had an absolutely incredible time. We found that life-stylers come in many shapes and sizes, they also come with MANY different motivations. Some are only looking for eye-candy and want nothing to do with anyone that does not meet that criteria - they want Barbie and Ken and nothing less - most in that group have earned that 'right' because they also are Barbies and Kens. Others are there for the intimacy and connection - they stay away from the one and done group - they also are what they seek. Many just liked to be around honest naked people - they don't want any physical connection with anyone but their spouse - but they liked to watch! We found that just being honest and mingling with other naked people in the pool resulted in people attracting what they came for. Life-stylers are just more honest and authentic that vanilla couples (for the most part) - everyone in the LS knows that. Most in the LS have phenomenal communication skills because . . . well lets face it, because if they don't, they drop out of the LS VERY quickly.
That is the primary reason why so many of us only look for friendships in the LS - the people are just easier and funner to be around. We can't help but keep coming back for more! The law of attraction has never been more applicable than it is in the LS. Having never really searched online for partners . . . we're less certain about how that works. In an online relationship - chemistry is VERY hard to gauge. We would be very interested in your collective perspective - but thats ours. Feel free to contact us directly if you want additional info. By the way - the other thing the resorts teach you is that just because you have dinner with someone . . . or spend the day socializing with them doesn't mean you'll end up in bed. Our advice??? Seek friendship first . . . the sex will follow when it should. Hope that helps - please keep the thread alive - we're anxious to hear your thoughts. (sorry about the length!!)
That is the primary reason why so many of us only look for friendships in the LS - the people are just easier and funner to be around. We can't help but keep coming back for more! The law of attraction has never been more applicable than it is in the LS. Having never really searched online for partners . . . we're less certain about how that works. In an online relationship - chemistry is VERY hard to gauge. We would be very interested in your collective perspective - but thats ours. Feel free to contact us directly if you want additional info. By the way - the other thing the resorts teach you is that just because you have dinner with someone . . . or spend the day socializing with them doesn't mean you'll end up in bed. Our advice??? Seek friendship first . . . the sex will follow when it should. Hope that helps - please keep the thread alive - we're anxious to hear your thoughts. (sorry about the length!!)
Also . . . the wife reminded me . . . its like any relationship . . . always better to start out with the friendship and no strings . . . when you find a great friendship, the extra benefits is just a natural next step. For what its worth.
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We are still searching for this as well.. we're more poly than swingers though... if any couples are interested we'd love to chat with you both.
We Like To Date Couples, Anyone Wanna Play?
Really? We thought you would never ask.
Really? We thought you would never ask.
We're available and offer authentic GFE and BFE's. ;-P Actually, we think we might be finally ready for someone to re-pop our swinging cherry if anyone is interested. *cue the blind friend requests*
Still loving this post! It keeps popping up... 😁
We enjoy socially dating other couples. We also play separate, as we are in an open relationship!
Hit us up sexies!
We enjoy socially dating other couples. We also play separate, as we are in an open relationship!
Hit us up sexies!
We love dating couples. We had an exclusive relationship with another couple for about a year and it was really fun. As many others have said, it's just more fun if you're also great friends with the people you're sleeping with.
It would be amazing to have a tight friend-group of maybe 4-6 couples and a handful of singles who are all lifestyle and attracted to one-another and who keep in touch and hang out regularly. But, yeah...bit tough to find.
It would be amazing to have a tight friend-group of maybe 4-6 couples and a handful of singles who are all lifestyle and attracted to one-another and who keep in touch and hang out regularly. But, yeah...bit tough to find.
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I guess we are the exception.
There is an old adage "don't shit where you eat."
We are no looking for other couples that we can date. Candidly, WTF. The only reason we are on here is to find other sexy people that we are attracted to, get along with, so that we all can enjoy fucking each other together. Yup, FUCK buddies. Yes, we need to get along with each other and be similar socially, economically, etc. so that we can rinse and repeat with each other from time to time. We do like going out for drinks, dinner, etc. ahead of time. But past that, we really aren't looking to create bestie relationships and vacation buddies.
There is an old adage "don't shit where you eat."
We are no looking for other couples that we can date. Candidly, WTF. The only reason we are on here is to find other sexy people that we are attracted to, get along with, so that we all can enjoy fucking each other together. Yup, FUCK buddies. Yes, we need to get along with each other and be similar socially, economically, etc. so that we can rinse and repeat with each other from time to time. We do like going out for drinks, dinner, etc. ahead of time. But past that, we really aren't looking to create bestie relationships and vacation buddies.
We are interested in meeting fun people that enjoy the same as us - We are professional and we are discrete - We very selective and play safe - she is bi - he is straight-
My partner and I are in the same boat also. We should try drinks sometime to see if we're interested from both parties? Lmk
FUNSALTLAKECOUPLE wrote:
We love dating couples. We had an exclusive relationship with another couple for about a year and it was really fun. As many others have said, it's just more fun if you're also great friends with the people you're sleeping with.
It would be amazing to have a tight friend-group of maybe 4-6 couples and a handful of singles who are all lifestyle and attracted to one-another and who keep in touch and hang out regularly. But, yeah...bit tough to find.
We would like to find lasting friendships with really great couples as well. And yes, it would be amazing to have a tight friend group of maybe 4-6 couples that are all lifestyle and attracted to each another and who keep in touch and hang out regularly. However, even finding just one or two such couples...where the all important 4-way chemistry & attraction is present is difficult. We would be so lucky to find 4-6.
GLTA...
I'm trying to find a good woman. Then we will be a couple to play with. Wish me luck 😁
Looking for couples or interesting people to play
We are the same way. We look more for personality, yes there needs to be some attraction but we arnt judgmental. We prefer to get to know people first before saying no
We'd like to find a couple to take to prom or spring formal. Keep a lookout for our promposal.
I’d love to date you baby! 😉😘😈. What’s your kik name?
A FWB would be idea. It would be nice to know someone is attracted, compatible and available. Sex gets better as you get to know your partner. A regular get together takes out the need to do the search. We had a great situation once then had to move. It's our there .. keep looking!
we'd like to have a date mid week for drinks or a bite treat anyone up for that?
I think more than anything else and like everyone else, this is what we are looking for too. We would love to find people we can be friends with first. Socurious we would be up for it.
So many looking for the same thing, there must be a place packed with everyone mingling to gauge energy, connections, and interest.
We are in the same boat. When we started in 2015 there were house parties every weekend and we had a good group of couples that we saw regularly but then it all moved to Facebook and couples broke up or moved and now we are able to meet up sporadically but just haven't been able to find a community again.
Like many of you we would like to find a few couples we can meet up with regularly. Send us a note if you want a date. 😘
Not to far to travel!
Those of us in the south end of the SLC valley are almost like honorary Utah county couples, since we don't mind hopping over the county line. We, for instance, are full bi-county. Not just Utah county-curious.
What about those of us that, through no real fault of our own, are legally banned from entering Utah County? I mean, Cosmo the Cougar TOTALLY wanted us to top him on the 50-yard line of LaVell Edwards stadium. And we didn't know he was a celebrity mascot. We thought he was just your run-of-the-mill furry. #furriesneedlovetoo
What about those of us that don't give a shit about distance and wanna play? #toomanyobstacles #justplay
Okay, we'll take you on a date but you'd better put out if we spring for a movie AND dinner at Red Lobster!
Demanding exclusivity at first will limit your opportunities.
We are always looking for couples to meet. If any couples or ladies would like to meet let us know. We can always host or meet in public then go from there.
We are sticking our foot back in the water a bit after life getting busy and sort of not focusing on it. We have 3 young kids all the same age and our life is fairly busy, so we’d like to find a couple-with-couple situation with someone relatively close to the Lehi area, who understands that we may not always have a lot of time, but if we really click, that doesn’t mean we don’t care or aren’t interested, just means it will be more about quality than quantity of the relationship.
We have varying experiences of different levels of swinging and even a touch of polyamory if anyone wants to check us out.
We have varying experiences of different levels of swinging and even a touch of polyamory if anyone wants to check us out.