just send them an email...meet me at such and such place. Then see how it goes.
I would agree that sending them an e-mail through swingular would be less threatening just e-mail them and ask if you may have possibly seen them at such place on such day. But first at least check thier profile to see if it is even worth the effort, if you are not compatible then you may choose to leave it well enough alone.
we have had that happen a few times ,If they are good friends then telling them you know is usually not a problem.but we have found out that a woman from our bank ,and one of my wife's former college teachers are on here (as well as other sites) we don't say anything to them ,but we think that they know we are on here and that we know they are on here too. Disgression is always a must ,but if you think you might want to play with them then by all means send them an E-Mail and weet ,but always assure them that there secret is safe.
I wouldn't recommend approaching with, "Hi, haven't we fucked before?"
I would start with a polite "Excuse me but I have a feeling I have seen you somewhere before." Then we would both try to figure out where that was. IF we didn't get there too quickly I might mention I have used several chat sites and wondered if they had been on a chat site for folks with common interests. :-) That gives them a chance to back out gracefully if need be. :-)
good way to go BLVL We have seen people we know are on here and wanted to say something but let it go. Last thing we want to do is put them in an awkward position. I know we all have heard of the bad situations where someone walks up and says hey guys we saw your profile and those naked pics are hot. lololol
LOL yeah that is not the way to go. We actually met a couple, not from swingular but another site, in a Walmart. I used the approach I mentioned and they were like really reluctant to admit it. Then I mentioned a topic of a forum I thought they were on the money. I said "I agree with the political comment you made" The guy then said "YEah those guys pissed me off......" OOPS. Then we laughed and they admitted they weren't sure if we would suddenly blurt out something about hot pics or what. I said no we have discretion. We ended up having dinner to talk and see if there was a connection. All I can say is I am glad we did. We had a wonderful night. At the end they admitted the recognized us and were wondering how to approach. LOL
Ahh Heck! Just do a "Print Screen" of thier profile and yours... Hand them both pages... Just make sure you are sitting in the same pew and your pastor is not looking....
LMAO TomandBeth
I always have people see me at work. They usually look at me for a while and then eventually, usually fairly quietly, ask me if I'm on a site called swingular.com. It's always fun times. 
The last time it happened was kinda funny though. 2 single gentlemen came in and asked me and we were discussing it while I was on stage (as I had nobody else around on the tipping area) and one of the other dancers was sitting with them. She looked thoroughly confused by our conversation. It was amusing.
The last time it happened was kinda funny though. 2 single gentlemen came in and asked me and we were discussing it while I was on stage (as I had nobody else around on the tipping area) and one of the other dancers was sitting with them. She looked thoroughly confused by our conversation. It was amusing.