Polyamory is something we believe in and another reason why we are in the lifestyle but we've experimented in this aspect very little while swinging. One reason being is every couple and single we meet isnt into it and it really is all about finding the right people. Its not something we really talk about or push onto others. But I'm curious to know how those who've done it or are currently in multiple relationships have accomplished this in their lives
It is a difficult thing, we have dated a few couplea but nothing has lasted. Most people dont know what they want or dont really understand the concept in general. We have had very little to no success in this area. But it isn't for everyone and we have noticed that unless you are super active and go to all the get togethers and meets and stuff you're not considered to be legit or real poly... so that is another aspect that makes the poly life hard. But we have noticed that when in another relationship with others it has made the feelings and relationship between us like we are newly dating again and love that.
We've dabbled in the poly dynamic and while it can be a heady experience (and fraught with many VERY real pitfalls) I think it would be relatively hard to go into any meeting, encounter, or relationship with polyamory is your primary goal. Shouldn't ANY relationship that moves into that territory happen organically and without a preset agenda?
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That’s the best description I have ever heard. Thank you for sharing that. I know a couple someone else’s that will read this and smile 😜
That’s the best description I have ever heard. Thank you for sharing that. I know a couple someone else’s that will read this and smile 😜
Though we have not found it we seek it, it takes time to find those special ones in any relationship so I'm sure if you continue to seek it out it can happen
We have an interest in doing this, however the problem is we’ve been hurt and it makes us a little hesitant to stick our necks out again. The other issue is sometimes when one of us is garnering interest, the other isn’t and then issues can potentially start to pop up. What would be ideal is another couple that we are poly with, as in I (guy) am involved with the other female partner and my wife is involved with the other guy. Problem is, getting that while having the right level of chemistry and connection for all parties is like trying to throw a needle through a moving target inside of a haystack while suspended from a helicopter in a raging wind storm.
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Our ultimate goal is to find another couple or single to share our relationship with, we have not had much luck with this, however, we do know a couple that has found another couple and it has been working perfectly for them, so we have not given up hope!
We’re just waiting for you to stop by. We have found it hard to meet the right couples. A couple times in the past ten years we have met and clicked with a couple. The most it lasted was three years then priorities changed and they went off into neverland not to be seen again. ☹️
Ho Lee Fuk Delicious. Are you a philosophy major?? :-)
We are totally searching for a polyamorous relationship. I feel like it would be such a giant piece to our lives. But there is zero (that we have found) women looking to be in a relationship with a married couple. I want that connection and companionship with another female, and he also wants the same thing.
I feel like having a 3rd adult would make everything complete.
I feel like having a 3rd adult would make everything complete.
@leatherandlace1234 would you be open to a couple or just wanting a female?