When considering meeting another couple, whether they contacted you or you initiated contact after looking at their profile, which factor is THE most important factor (and why) that you use to help determine whether or not you might be interested in meeting and possibly playing with a couple or even a single?
1) Body type. Height/weight proportionate.
2) Age.
3) Where they live.
4) Content of their profile that seems compatible with our interests and/or desires.
5) Face pics, if they have them, or once they open their private pics.
6) Whether or not they seem real. Things like photos of both, if they are a couple, length of time they've been on the site, or maybe testimonials from others who have met them.
7) Lack of 'red flags' on their profile and/or in their communication with you.
8) None of the above/other.
I know it seems a little weird that I'm asking all these questions but I'm very curious as to why so many people seem to complain that being on Swingular is a waste of time and/or money and why, in general, people seem to be hooking up less than they did in years past. Thanks in advance for your feedback.
1) Body type. Height/weight proportionate.
2) Age.
3) Where they live.
4) Content of their profile that seems compatible with our interests and/or desires.
5) Face pics, if they have them, or once they open their private pics.
6) Whether or not they seem real. Things like photos of both, if they are a couple, length of time they've been on the site, or maybe testimonials from others who have met them.
7) Lack of 'red flags' on their profile and/or in their communication with you.
8) None of the above/other.
I know it seems a little weird that I'm asking all these questions but I'm very curious as to why so many people seem to complain that being on Swingular is a waste of time and/or money and why, in general, people seem to be hooking up less than they did in years past. Thanks in advance for your feedback.
1 & 4
Agreed, 1 and 4 and if there are no pics of the male half is a red flag. Not sure why 99% of the pics are of the female.
When I use to swing it was more based on the other dude not being to dominate or controlling and how my gf felt. About both. Attracted to the girl and not weirded out by the dude.
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When considering meeting another couple, whether they contacted you or you initiated contact after looking at their profile, which factor is THE most important factor (and why) that you use to help determine whether or not you might be interested in meeting and possibly playing with a couple or even a single?
1) Body type. Height/weight proportionate.
2) Age.
3) Where they live.
4) Content of their profile that seems compatible with our interests and/or desires.
5) Face pics, if they have them, or once they open their private pics.
6) Whether or not they seem real. Things like photos of both, if they are a couple, length of time they've been on the site, or maybe testimonials from others who have met them.
7) Lack of 'red flags' on their profile and/or in their communication with you.
8) None of the above/other.
I know it seems a little weird that I'm asking all these questions but I'm very curious as to why so many people seem to complain that being on Swingular is a waste of time and/or money and why, in general, people seem to be hooking up less than they did in years past. Thanks in advance for your feedback.
If I could add 9. Personality? Emojis and LOLs are my biggest turn ons.. people say they want to have “fun” but when you start Communicating you get a business-like vibe. This site a waste of money? LOL. LOL I disagree, I don’t think it can get better than this.. I LOVE IT HERE
#6 is probably the most important to us. You can usually tell a "fake" from those items. #3 is also important. Nothing worse than traveling for hours just to find what was supposed to be a bi couple only to find a straight guy cheating on his wife.
7, 4 ,1 in that order
We feel 4,6,7,2,1,5,3 would be the order. Personality would be a huge consideration and in the top three.