ladies, who uses Birth control, and who can't make kids?
gents, who has been cliped, and who can't make kids?
As for us: the wife use's birth control for the condums that slip off when the guy is to stuped to pull out after he cums. And for my self i shoot blanks.
gents, who has been cliped, and who can't make kids?
As for us: the wife use's birth control for the condums that slip off when the guy is to stuped to pull out after he cums. And for my self i shoot blanks.
Well, Felicia just got on some new BC that the Dr. said was almost 99.9999998% effective. She hates using condoms, although she will if the playmates do choose to use them. As for me, I am still having "Little Soldiers" deploy for duty...
D & F
D & F
Blank shooter here myself..Lori still has to be careful....aint lookin to be a mommy now...
Lar and Lor
Lar and Lor
Still loaded for bear (figuratively speaking), although I am planning to get something done about that fairly soon..
Blanks here, Best move I ever made......
Had my "wings cliped" many years ago (gus). Not long afterward, the doc advised gin she needed to have her plumbing removed. We have been "caredfree" for many years. Only way to go.
So.... if the subject is "This is for the lifestyle players who like sex before friendship", how did we end up on who can/cannot get prego? Just curious...
Anyway
Anyway
Badgirl, I was wondering the same thing... What does, who is and who is not able to procreate have to do with friends before or after sex.
SOAPBOX: Safer Sex;
Even though condoms are not a fun thing to use, HIV and a few other nice STDs are also not fun... And BTW if you say it can't happen..... It can and it does....Not often but still there is that risk. There is no safe sex but safety is not whether one can procreate but whether one believes that the risk is too high to themselves and to their friends and partners to rish STD's that can end your life.
SOAPBOX: Safer Sex;
Even though condoms are not a fun thing to use, HIV and a few other nice STDs are also not fun... And BTW if you say it can't happen..... It can and it does....Not often but still there is that risk. There is no safe sex but safety is not whether one can procreate but whether one believes that the risk is too high to themselves and to their friends and partners to rish STD's that can end your life.
I find having sex with people I don't feel an attraction to and liking for just isn't much fun. So I like to make friends and then fuck.
But that can happen on the first meeting! lol
But that can happen on the first meeting! lol
well if the sex isn't any good then why bother with the friend part
BADGIRL_INUT
it is to find out who shots blanks and who can not get peggo so the idea of bareback play may happen
it is to find out who shots blanks and who can not get peggo so the idea of bareback play may happen
If the sex is good you already have freinds mmmmmmmmmmm
oh and just a fyi I am clipped too, why dont all men who play do this ? Women are so much more relazed when they know they can not get pregnent
You might be a swinger if . . . . . The wife has her tubes tied and the husband is shooting blanks but you can always find condoms in the house! That would be us - Diane got turned into a "sports" model (instead of a "family model")for birth control prior to swinging and I got clipped for safety when we started to play.
Im clipped and shes matured enough, but we still wrap for our own protection.
As we met new friends in this lifstyle we were both having lots of sex with many people so we both got fixed.
We're both "fixed" and we don't have sex unless there is a friendship going on. We've run into several who just wanta "fuck" then leave. Not us.
i cant have kids but am on the pill anyway....we are bareback when possible.
Personally HOTTYZX2 if there is a friendship first then there's no reason not to work though the rough times.
We are both sterile, no worries of anyone getting pregnant with us. Sex is so much better when you can be carefree!
In reading this post, I am seeing a lot of replies from couples who prefer to obstain from using condoms. While this is obviously physically better, is it not a major concern of yours that you or your signifigant other may contract an STD, or perhaps something that there is no cure for?
Being safe from unwanted pregnancy is always smart. I am just curious about the STD issue. How do those of you who consider yourselves "bareback" couples/singles feel about this?
Testing is not preventative, and unfortunately, the people around us are not always as honest as we would like them to be, particularly in regard to their sexual history.
I am not judging, but rather trying to come to an understanding of the decision process involved...it must be considerable because essentially you are gambling with the life of your mate to have a good time. We all want to get layed, but...
Luvbugs! (mR.)
Being safe from unwanted pregnancy is always smart. I am just curious about the STD issue. How do those of you who consider yourselves "bareback" couples/singles feel about this?
Testing is not preventative, and unfortunately, the people around us are not always as honest as we would like them to be, particularly in regard to their sexual history.
I am not judging, but rather trying to come to an understanding of the decision process involved...it must be considerable because essentially you are gambling with the life of your mate to have a good time. We all want to get layed, but...
Luvbugs! (mR.)

condums are never ruled out but after being with someone awhile its nice to know that we can go bareback if all partys agree.
I've had my wing clipped and grounded fo 14 yrs best move we ever made. wifes child works are coming out soo, will be another go move for the both of us.
"the people around us are not always as honest as we would like them to be"
Hey Bugs, Mrs. FL4FUN had me neutered in "83" after watching CUJO.
I swear to god and cross my heart!
You're really missing US and Florida right now aren't ya! LMAO
Hey Bugs, Mrs. FL4FUN had me neutered in "83" after watching CUJO.
I swear to god and cross my heart!
You're really missing US and Florida right now aren't ya! LMAO