hey can someone please tell me why some couples claim the lady is BI and then she has not effort to mess around with the lady of the couple and goes right for the penis i mean he is so not penis for hire its about us not his assets, im a good looking girl who will try what ever but now this has made me and or us think that maybe this is not for us.how do you let people know and have them listen to what you really want from this
in my defense im ok with then dick having but not at first. is all i was saying or not only the dick is all she can play with hubby but she needs to go through me is all im saying thanks
"how do you let people know and have them listen to what you really want from this"
By telling them upfront what your expectations are.
It sounds as if your problem is that he is getting his before you are getting yours.
If the rules by which you play are that stringent, then you have to let people know this
before you get together.
By telling them upfront what your expectations are.
It sounds as if your problem is that he is getting his before you are getting yours.
If the rules by which you play are that stringent, then you have to let people know this
before you get together.
I can get agressive....ooops, but its usually to pin her down for hubby LOL. kisses
Come to Utah. My wife is aggressive but only when it comes to the ladies!
SIRENSEXTRESS hit it right on the proverbial head! 
I am Bi-Curious as well playing with the ladies is nice but the penis is the goal!
Mrs FlCpl4fun
I am Bi-Curious as well playing with the ladies is nice but the penis is the goal! Mrs FlCpl4fun