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Is it ok to play if you are married to someone else and your partner knows you are playing with another person? You have beeen totally up front and honest?
yes thats how we have it set up some times
It depends on if your spouse thinks that it is O.K....
Works well for us... As long as no one is getting hurt and all parties agree, our response is why not?

Obviously this does not work well for everyone as we each have our own set of principals and comfort zones we all have to take into consideration...
We feel it's a bad idea, because people will always have issues even if the subject was discussed prior to the events happening, reason being someone we believe will always feel as if they are not getting thier fair amount of playtime or feel as if they are the one always being left out.

But then again that's out 2 cents !!
completely depends on your relationship with your significant other. With us we prefer to play together its an enhancement not a replacement of each other. I don't think we would recommend that choice however what ever is your turn on.