My Fellow Americans, can someone explain why it's exciting to witness another male doing my wife. For the life of me I can't figure out why it turns me on when I should be angry at the prospect of such a thing. And the answer is ?
I don't have the answer to your question but I do know that you are not alone.
I remember wathcing My wife the first time I wasn't sure how I would react!!! Then when I saw well....we all know the answer to that!!! 
As to why??? Who the hell knows!!!!
Its just fun to watch!!!!!!
As to why??? Who the hell knows!!!!Its just fun to watch!!!!!!
Agreed, it is a lot of fun to watch. What a rush!
is it because she'll look like a porn star??? hehe
that and much more from my perverted, kinky, perspective 
must be a gene....and we share it..nothing is as hot to me as watching Michele getting fucked. The sight of her sucking a cock drives me over the top....
Clay
Clay
It's a proximity thing. We (hubs) don't get the whole picture when we're fucking or going down. When we get to do it by proxy we see it all.
GAWD...watching her get off is just.... HOT
I don't know why I enjoy it so much, but sometimes youi just have to say....... WoW
Dave
I don't know why I enjoy it so much, but sometimes youi just have to say....... WoW
Dave
Will You all know how great and good your wife is. So when you see her with the other man you know just what he is getting and how he musst be doing everything he can to hold it as long as he can. As with my wife I know that she is doing him as good if not better then me and once we get home I know that she is going to do me one better then him. I know that they are just getting her started for me to finish off later that night. No mather how great our love making is after she has been with another man it gets better and I know it . Thats why I get so turned watching her with another man.
Russ
Russ
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hmmmm, i think i know why as males and being married we enjoy seeing our gorgeous wife's with another man. okay, yes iv'e had a couple of michelob's but i believe iv'e reached an enlightended state. it's because we see our wife's in a sexual situation. the every day stuff of paying bills, raising kids keeping the house clean is a grind...but when someone else desires your wife in a sexual way, without all the pressure of daily life, she becomes what we first saw her as, a sexual vixen! she has nothing with this other man except fun and desire. she isn't worried about the car payment or what the kid's are up to. all she want's is flesh on flesh, just what we wll wanted when we first met!...that's what makes swinging so fun, we can capture that fantastic sexual excitement that you feel when you first have sex with someone diffrent. ..your mind is racing,your blood pressure raises,you think to yourself my 'god she's beautiful and im going to do her'!...and it brings back all the memorys and feelings that we had with our partners when it was sex,drugs and rock'n'roll! :h
Thats Hot ...heh
I LOVE watching my wife with another man. The first time I watched her was so exciting, I could not sleep that night I was so turned on. Hey its only sex, nothing to be jealous about. It has made sex even better between us.
I ask myself that question as well but if your like me, I think the real turn for me is because we have so much trust in eachother and love that it just turnes me on to see her being pleased. I don't feel that she thinks anyone else is better then me , Because she is still with me after 22 yrs. seing my wife being pleased is one of the biggest turn ons for me .
I dont know the answer. As a single male, i'm glad that all you married men get turned on by it and dont mind sharing. It quadrupled my sex life. (with a tear in my eye) God Bless America!
It's a voyeur thing.
Hubby and Wife got married among other reasons, because their sex together was so great.
So it's only natural that such great sex is something you would like to observe.
But it's difficult to achieve that while you're involved... SOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Great question!!!! One that I've pondered over and over again for a long time.
Hubby and Wife got married among other reasons, because their sex together was so great.
So it's only natural that such great sex is something you would like to observe.
But it's difficult to achieve that while you're involved... SOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Great question!!!! One that I've pondered over and over again for a long time.
would agree with most of the men that seeing their wife is such a turn on, especially for me to see her with pleasure in her eyes. Like most have said also, we are going to have some amazing sex later.
we like it because we are all animals mmmmmmmmm and we love it!!!!
Men are naturally voyueristic, we enjoy spectator sports, especially ones that titilate us. Just remember back in high school when you did everything possible to look up those cute little skirts the girls wore to get a glimpse of those panties.
Watching our wives or companions having sex with another person is also a 360 degree experience where as when you are having sex with her.. its only 180 degrees. There is nothing more exciting than watching her face as she climaxes and listening to the moans and groans that eminate from her. I am thrilled as I study those expressions along with the fascination of seeing her body penetrated and watching the twitches and shudders her body makes with each inward thrust. When the man she is with finally cums deep inside her... I nearly loose it with him as she screams and closes her eyes tight displaying the intesity of sensations she is feeling all over. Now does that give you a little insight as to why I love to watch my lovely bride be satisfied by another man.
Perhaps another reason, (something she and I have both discussed), is the same reason we prefer to take pictures of her alone and in action in addition to making our own videos... Watching store bought porn for some may be okay.. but for us, the reality of knowing that first, we will never be with any of those people in those movies or magazines... and second, it so rehearsed.. the appeal is dimmed. When we watch our movies or view our photos... thats a reality we can savour.. We can remember those sounds, smells, the touch and the thrill of the sexual roller coaster ride.
Like a kid with a new toy, I feel a great deal of pride and delight in having a companion that is found by others to be desirable and willing to share moments of intimacy with so much vigor and fun.
Just few of my own personal feelings about the subject.. (and one of my favorites)
HIM of CynandHim
Watching our wives or companions having sex with another person is also a 360 degree experience where as when you are having sex with her.. its only 180 degrees. There is nothing more exciting than watching her face as she climaxes and listening to the moans and groans that eminate from her. I am thrilled as I study those expressions along with the fascination of seeing her body penetrated and watching the twitches and shudders her body makes with each inward thrust. When the man she is with finally cums deep inside her... I nearly loose it with him as she screams and closes her eyes tight displaying the intesity of sensations she is feeling all over. Now does that give you a little insight as to why I love to watch my lovely bride be satisfied by another man.
Perhaps another reason, (something she and I have both discussed), is the same reason we prefer to take pictures of her alone and in action in addition to making our own videos... Watching store bought porn for some may be okay.. but for us, the reality of knowing that first, we will never be with any of those people in those movies or magazines... and second, it so rehearsed.. the appeal is dimmed. When we watch our movies or view our photos... thats a reality we can savour.. We can remember those sounds, smells, the touch and the thrill of the sexual roller coaster ride.
Like a kid with a new toy, I feel a great deal of pride and delight in having a companion that is found by others to be desirable and willing to share moments of intimacy with so much vigor and fun.
Just few of my own personal feelings about the subject.. (and one of my favorites)
HIM of CynandHim
Well when we fell into it by accident, we just kept going LOL. I can still remember her screaming out fuck me fuck me while she was bouncing on some stuff we picked up at a local regular club. Never ment to do it didn't discuss it prior just did it and WOW what a turn on. I also love it when shes being done doggy style and she has my cock in her mouth. I can feel her impending orgasm and I know shes having massive amounts of fun... its just a freakin turn on to watch her having fun
I think it's all or mostly about perspective, physical perspective. We get to see them having sex from a totally different angle. When we are involved we can't see the whole picture (or is that hole picture). We are also, caught up in the in the event as well. So when we see them in the throws of passion (since I'm such an illiterate schmuck, the word fucking would suffice) we have a different view and a different "perspective". If we are also, and at the sme time engaged with the guy's wife we may also get that little feeling of naughtiness added to the voyeuristic sense we experience. If we are truely swingers we have grown beyond the urge to pounce upon the other fellow since we conscienously, both husband and wife conscented and made the decission to have sex with others and placed jealousy in a trunk somewhere. So I really think it is a different perspective than we get when we have sex with them.
I had talked to my wife about this and she seemed surprised that I would want to watch her with a guy while she won't consent to me being with a woman. We have never done anything yet, but she can't understand that it would be such a turn on to see her, hear her, and know she is having great sex. I think she is worried that I can do this because I feel less love for her and have tried to explain that its because I love and trust her so much that I would love to do this. In the back of my mind I do wonder how I would feel if we could arrange it. I feel it would be hot beyond anything I could imagine, except possibly watching her with another woman. I know she would enjoy both. How many guys wished they hadn't followed through? Any regrets? This is a very hot topic for me and thanks for the imput.
jimmy
jimmy
Call it weird sick or whatever but I too am one of those husbands who totally "gets off" watching his wife have sex with other men. We don't invite many new guys anymore as we have found two really great and reliable men who are local, good looking and most important act like gentlemen. We set aside one night during the week to invite one and sometimes both of these friends over to give Linda a good "workout". I usually like to sit back for while and watch her suck them off then watch as she gets one hell of a fucking before I join in. As mentioned by others here our after they leave sex is very intense. We save our weekends for couples....
Anyway my two cents....
Anyway my two cents....