where the hell are all the real swingers at out there and how come it is so hard to find them
and where are the real down to earth ones who are not ken and barbie and looking for real people at.
and where are the real down to earth ones who are not ken and barbie and looking for real people at.
Welcome to the world of swinging..lol
There are many people on these sites who do not reply to emails,make excuses when you try to arrange a meeting or who are just here to look at pictures.
Then there are the people who write to you expressing interest the ignore you if you reply.Just wonderfull!!!
We have been in the lifestyle for about 5 years and have met and played with many great couples,but we have also had to deal with the ignorance of all the others as described above.
I think people look at the profile pictures and pass judgement based on how you look.That is usually a big mistake but that's how people are.
When you do meet a couple and end up playing,the experience is usually terrific and satisfying.Good luck guys in yoiur search.
Check out the other sites.
There are many people on these sites who do not reply to emails,make excuses when you try to arrange a meeting or who are just here to look at pictures.
Then there are the people who write to you expressing interest the ignore you if you reply.Just wonderfull!!!
We have been in the lifestyle for about 5 years and have met and played with many great couples,but we have also had to deal with the ignorance of all the others as described above.
I think people look at the profile pictures and pass judgement based on how you look.That is usually a big mistake but that's how people are.
When you do meet a couple and end up playing,the experience is usually terrific and satisfying.Good luck guys in yoiur search.
Check out the other sites.
There are lots of "real" swingers that aren't "Ken & Barbies" out there. Of course, everybody's idea of "real" and "Ken & Barbie" differ becauase everybody has different tastes in appearance and what swinging is.
You will run across those on sites that are just testing the waters, putting up a profile and seeing if they are really ready to, or want to, do this. The key is perserverance. I would also recommend finding out where the clubs or parties are going on in your area and attending those. Meeting people in person can do allot more then just a few small pictures and a a hundred words or so.
Mr.
You will run across those on sites that are just testing the waters, putting up a profile and seeing if they are really ready to, or want to, do this. The key is perserverance. I would also recommend finding out where the clubs or parties are going on in your area and attending those. Meeting people in person can do allot more then just a few small pictures and a a hundred words or so.
Mr.