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have you tried the camchat right here on the site? what a great place to get comfortable with your exhibitionism without being pressured into showing anything more than you really want. good luck :-)
Hedonism III in Jamaica or the Caribbean is definetly about the lifestyle and clothing optional as well is a number of destinations in Mexico, like Cancun.
I would say Desire in Cancun is a great place to take it easy. It is couples only and clothing optional. Women are treated with great respect there, more so than at the Hedos. It is not cheap but represents a great first exposure. Take a day to explore the ruins offsite in Tulum. It was awesome.

She will feel worshipped, not objectified.

Christian
Harlan, I have read your posts and, just my opinion,Ok? I'm not sure either one of you are ready for a majority of this lifestyle. Only you two can decide that. but it seems that you are the one that might want this more than her, and you seem a little unsure yourself or you wouldn't have made the coment about "a pack of single(replace with "wild") males(wolves) that are going to pounce" and devour your womans flesh down th the raw bone or something of that inference,( most single men who last in this lifestyle don't behave like that by the way) and what if you do engage in some of this and you find she likes it more than you or jelousy raises it's ugly head? Tthese and many other things need to be discussed before hand. and I would think that most here would agree that if you push her into something she doesn't want it will only cause possible resentment. If you do engage in this just move at the slowest persons comfortable speed.