After the closet bi post, we had to come up with something more enjoyable to read!
So the question is - why is it people post an ad but do not provide a picture??? It seems odd to us that you're out looking to meet others, but you don't advertise the "goods" by letting others see what you look like!!!
What do others think??
BTW - the picture is from a lifestyles Halloween Party we went to a couple years ago!!!
So the question is - why is it people post an ad but do not provide a picture??? It seems odd to us that you're out looking to meet others, but you don't advertise the "goods" by letting others see what you look like!!!
What do others think??
BTW - the picture is from a lifestyles Halloween Party we went to a couple years ago!!!
Good question
We don't mind showing off 'the goods' as you call it, but save our faces for people we actually WANT TO MEET (THEY'RE IN OUR PRIVATE PICS)
But we constantly get 'we need to be discreet'...DOESN'T EVERYONE?
It's very easy to conceal who you are, while still giving others a glimpse, so that they can form an opinion, empty profiles with no pics never get aresponse from us.
We don't mind showing off 'the goods' as you call it, but save our faces for people we actually WANT TO MEET (THEY'RE IN OUR PRIVATE PICS)
But we constantly get 'we need to be discreet'...DOESN'T EVERYONE?
It's very easy to conceal who you are, while still giving others a glimpse, so that they can form an opinion, empty profiles with no pics never get aresponse from us.
It's a foregone conclusion that there's much at stake to posting. Remember all the paranoia around KSL's story? Whatever became of that anyway? Much was said about what would be lost if other's found out about our involvement in the lifestyle. In Utah we live in an extremist context that would ostrasize the best of us because of our affiliation with this site and the lifestyle. Jobs are at stake, neighborhood relationships, ex-spouses...
But on the other hand, what's to gain? A few more hits on your profile? Weeding through posers who just want to get a peek at your private pics? Or the simple hope that there might be another couple or two out there who share the same fantasies and would be a real pleasure to hook up with. That's why we're playing this... how about you? Do the risks outweigh the rewards? Do the risks heighten the excitement of all this. I think so. Like sex in public places.
We hesitated to post anything, but now have a single shot in our public album that at least draws attention. Our private album has "the goods" but more importantly has us as a couple represented. And that's what's interesting. Assholes are like, well, assholes, everyone's got one. Faces, personalities, open minds and attitudes trandscend the flesh and are what make this persuit interesting and should make this site worthwhile. Just need to understand stakes.
But on the other hand, what's to gain? A few more hits on your profile? Weeding through posers who just want to get a peek at your private pics? Or the simple hope that there might be another couple or two out there who share the same fantasies and would be a real pleasure to hook up with. That's why we're playing this... how about you? Do the risks outweigh the rewards? Do the risks heighten the excitement of all this. I think so. Like sex in public places.
We hesitated to post anything, but now have a single shot in our public album that at least draws attention. Our private album has "the goods" but more importantly has us as a couple represented. And that's what's interesting. Assholes are like, well, assholes, everyone's got one. Faces, personalities, open minds and attitudes trandscend the flesh and are what make this persuit interesting and should make this site worthwhile. Just need to understand stakes.