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I have had fantasies about male/male contact while in a group situation with my wife, threesome moresome whatever. However to find someone that would be a willing participant I have to list myself as bicurious. I do not have the fantasies while in a swinging situation at all. I mean I don't scan the males in the room and wonder "What would he be like?". I have not touched another man, but if I list myself as bicurious I am now labled and many people will not even talk to us. We are an honest couple, but all I want to do is see what it is that Beth enjoys, so I have labled myself as bicurious. We completely respect the wishes and limits of others. The thoughts of anything with another guy who says he is straight does not happen. We have played with couples where the female is straight and it did not seem to bother them that Beth is bi, the girls just don't play with each other. But many profiles say Bi(anything) males need not message us. I don't get it. Before I had these fantasies it did not bother me if the guy was bi, I just told them I am straight, and that was that.

What do you think?

What is the correct thing to do?
I for one can appreciate what you are going through. Aside of location, fear of issues and disrespect and in my case, single male, the assignment of "BI" whatever must be another fear.

I decided to just be honest with my posting and change to Bi Curious as I do not require bisexual contact and I haven't had any interest from couples since. I had just a couple of inquiries before which turned up nothing but expecting it would take some time anyway, I will need more now I'm sure.

I have to make a point at this time that I will not just jump in the sack without having met and spent time with a couple or partners. Some might come sooner than others, everyone's different. Heck even just chatting with someone across the country would be fun.

Enough about me. Perhaps you have already viewed some other fourms related to the subject but I have selected a couple which may interest you, I don't know.

This one is what I thought I could use to find others who are interested in and can share experiences...

Main >> General >> Lifestyle Questions >> Who likes anal play? Share stories, opinions or pictures here.

A couple of others which reflect opinions and experiences as well...

Main >> General >> Lifestyle Questions >> Male bi


Main >> General >> Picture Fun >> If you give it a try, it don't mean you're bi !!!!!!
Hey, Thanks... I knew I was not alone...:D
Not alone at all. And there is nothing wrong with being in a locker room and wondering what a guy would be like. :-) You do that to women walking down the street and it hurts nobody. LOL just don't reach up and grab unless you know he wouldn't mind. LOL Be like the foks in Europe they embrace their sexuality and don't worry about it. American still have too much of the puritanical crap going in the socialization. The feelings and thoughts are NORMAL and not deviate. I am sure more men and women have the same feelings and thoughts but are too afraid to admit them. I know I WAS but not now. :-) I LOVE IT and the firsttime sucked cock was very liberating. But at the same time that doesn't mean I can't do it totally hetero. :-) I just enjoy more.
YES! I want bisexual play so bad, it HURTS!!
WEll find someone close and take care of that pain. :-)
Most of my email and msgs here and on yahoo are from couples and females that want MMF Bi sex

Lots of ppl are into it whether they have or have not done it before with another man. My ex g/f debbie turned me on to it a long time ago and i have enjoyed it ever since, I say again ever time this comes up

Bi-females are treated like queens and bi-males are shot on sight......NOT

M
As always CLITTYFLICKER, I love your taste in photos! Anyone up for a bi group party in Utah?

Alecia
Wish we were in Utah, we would love to attend an all BI party! Bisexuality is what it is, you know you are or you don't. Curiousity is okay, but, once your curiousity is cured, you are bisexual, and it is great to be one.

Bisexuals have a talent no other possesses, we can please BOTH sexes! It is that simple!

Ron
Once I try Bi I will know, and I have been honest enough to go ahead and "tag" myself as Bi-Curious. Once the experience is under my belt I will either be straight or Bi... Wish I had some bi-experience pics to post...:) (To Be Continued)


Tom & Beth

P.S. Can ANYONE post in here that is NOT 1000 miles from Georgia... LOL
Once I try Bi I will know, and I have been honest enough to go ahead and "tag" myself as Bi-Curious. Once the experience is under my belt I will either be straight or Bi... Wish I had some bi-experience pics to post...:) (To Be Continued)


Tom & Beth