We're just curious how some of you guys actually got together, I'm sure there are some very interesting stories. Did you meet in the lifestyle? Was it something you got into later? Did he swoon you with flowers, etc...?
Tell the world, here's your chance
I'd always thought B. was one of the most beautiful girls i'd ever seen. We'd known each other a few months, and got to know each other a little. I attended a party one night, and had to leave to pick up a friend. She asked if she could ride with me, and as soon as we got in the truck she began spilling her guts about how much she loved me, and how I shouldn't judge her for her age because she was very mature for 21, etc...It blew my mind! I was a little skeptical at first, but we spent the next few days together, talking until 5 am some nights, and getting to know each other, and I figured out that I had found a jewel! We'd both been in horrible, controlling relationships before, and both needed someone to open up to and feel safe in doing so. Neither of us had ever been very confident about our bodies, and she'd never experienced an orgasm. She told me everyday (and still does) that I'm the sexiest man in the world, and I set out to fulfill her every need
Since then we've been inseperable. I'd always heard that when you find your 'soulmate' that you somehow just know. I thought I'd found it several years earlier in the relationship I'd been in, but I quickly realized that I had never known Love before I met her. She's the most wonderful person I've ever met, and I thank God I found her. We've been through some really tough times together, but never questioned our commitment to each other.
Later, during one of our all-night talks, she confided in me her curiousity about other women, and I totally let HER explore it, with absolutely NO pressure form me about it. Boy did that one pay off! We've met some incredible friends, had alot of fun together, and our relationship is much stronger than ever for it. (take a note guys, hold them like they're a small bird in your hand. Tight enough to keep them, but loose enough that you don't kill it
Ok, I'm babbling, let us hear your story!
Him
Tell the world, here's your chance
I'd always thought B. was one of the most beautiful girls i'd ever seen. We'd known each other a few months, and got to know each other a little. I attended a party one night, and had to leave to pick up a friend. She asked if she could ride with me, and as soon as we got in the truck she began spilling her guts about how much she loved me, and how I shouldn't judge her for her age because she was very mature for 21, etc...It blew my mind! I was a little skeptical at first, but we spent the next few days together, talking until 5 am some nights, and getting to know each other, and I figured out that I had found a jewel! We'd both been in horrible, controlling relationships before, and both needed someone to open up to and feel safe in doing so. Neither of us had ever been very confident about our bodies, and she'd never experienced an orgasm. She told me everyday (and still does) that I'm the sexiest man in the world, and I set out to fulfill her every need
Since then we've been inseperable. I'd always heard that when you find your 'soulmate' that you somehow just know. I thought I'd found it several years earlier in the relationship I'd been in, but I quickly realized that I had never known Love before I met her. She's the most wonderful person I've ever met, and I thank God I found her. We've been through some really tough times together, but never questioned our commitment to each other.
Later, during one of our all-night talks, she confided in me her curiousity about other women, and I totally let HER explore it, with absolutely NO pressure form me about it. Boy did that one pay off! We've met some incredible friends, had alot of fun together, and our relationship is much stronger than ever for it. (take a note guys, hold them like they're a small bird in your hand. Tight enough to keep them, but loose enough that you don't kill it
Ok, I'm babbling, let us hear your story!
Him
Our's is not very exciting lol...
We both were working at a care center in Provo, I had set Adam up with one of my friends and it didn't work out. We had made plans for a party with some co-workers and they all knew we had a thing for each other so noone else showed. We got married about 5 months later, it's been 5 years since that party lol...
We got into the lifestyle about 8 months ago after playing around with some friends of ours.
Pretty boring I know..
We both were working at a care center in Provo, I had set Adam up with one of my friends and it didn't work out. We had made plans for a party with some co-workers and they all knew we had a thing for each other so noone else showed. We got married about 5 months later, it's been 5 years since that party lol...
We got into the lifestyle about 8 months ago after playing around with some friends of ours.
Pretty boring I know..
still looking...lol
AOL chatroom.....he was splitting time between Miami and New York, I was in miami...two nights of chatting and then one week of hmmmmmm. that was 1999.
We were both modeling for the same modeling agency back in 1992 when we did a fashion show together. Got married at the end of that year and left modeling and have never regretted it since, with 13+ years of being happily married. Well, mostly happily. lol
Awesome stories, guys, KEEP IT UP!
We knew of each other through a mutual friend and had talked online a couple of times, but didn't ever meet till we started chatting online one night (ISCABBS) back in 1995 and he asked me out on a lunch date for the next day. I figured that it was probably impossible that he'd drive the 4 hrs (one way) just to go to lunch with me, but I really enjoyed talking with him, so I said yes. Then I realized that he DID mean to drive 4 hrs (one way) to take me out to lunch and it was wonderful. A month later, he asked me IF he were to ask me to marry him would I consider it and I said that I certainly would. A few minutes later, he asked and I said yes. Four months after that, we got married. Last summer, we renewed our vows on the 10th anniversary of the day we went out on our first date. And so here we are 10yrs, 10 months and 4 children later, enjoying being married just as much as the day we said I do (possibly more so, actually since we have a better idea what we're doing now with this complicated and wonderful thing called marriage).
-SG
-SG
Long story made short. We met in a Yahoo age related chat room....... one of us lived on the other side of the world, at first it was friendship, things happened in both our lives and we decided we wanted to meet. There was a long flight to the USA........LOVE was difinitely there so we decided to go through the LONG and EXPENSIVE immigration process.
hmm..well, couldnt tell ya..we've known eachother since we were like 5. She is literally the girl next door...15 years of marriage this year...
Beauty was dating someone else when I first asked her out. She turned me down at first and I accepted the turn down. Her and her man got into an arguement and he apparently knew I asked her out. He said "Well why don't you go fuck Beast then!" She said "Ok I will!" And she did...that night was our first, 16 years later we're still plugging along in a wonderful relationship. Just our little adventure to add. BnB
First very great story Ocala,
He is a very lucky guy......
We met 23 yrs ago, at work at .......McDonald's yes good ole Mickey D's I was married in a HORRIBLE marriage and we began talking, those talks became more and more intimate and in a few months I was leaving my terrible marriage and moving in with my mom. It was not much longer before he rescued me...lol..... We have had a great 23 yrs....wow that sounds like a long time for a 44 yr old....lol
Michele
He is a very lucky guy......
We met 23 yrs ago, at work at .......McDonald's yes good ole Mickey D's I was married in a HORRIBLE marriage and we began talking, those talks became more and more intimate and in a few months I was leaving my terrible marriage and moving in with my mom. It was not much longer before he rescued me...lol..... We have had a great 23 yrs....wow that sounds like a long time for a 44 yr old....lol
Michele
We met online back in... 2000.. Michael was in Australia at that point.. We talked and talked and talked for about 2 years before he came to the US to visit me (He was back in Canada at this point).
He moved to Minnesota in September of 2003, We got married in June of 2004, and he received his Green Card in August of 2005.
He moved to Minnesota in September of 2003, We got married in June of 2004, and he received his Green Card in August of 2005.
Chrissy and I first "met" in a Yahoo chatroom that we were both members of. We were both with others at the time, but, that soon changed. We first actually met at a Meet & Greet in Scranton, PA in August 2004. She had her boyfriend, and I was there with someone, but, I was instantly attracted to her.
I then hosted a Meet & Greet in Bensalem (Philadelphia), PA in October 2004. We had about 50 people attend, and Chrissy was there alone, and so was I. We went to a diner for breakfast after the M&G, and got chatty. After the party, we contacted one another daily thru IM, and that Thursday, we agreed to a date. I drove from Newark, NJ to Philadelphia to take her to a local bar, where there was Karaoke. She is an awesome singer! We stayed at the bar until closing, shared some intimate moments, and I took her home. I drove 70 miles back home, arriving at 4 a.m. I slept one hour, and went to work.
After work that Friday, I again drove down to her in Philly, and brought her back to Easton, PA, where I lived, and we attended a M&G in Allentown that Saturday. We let the group know we were a couple, and the rest is history. We have been together since, and Chrissy moved in with me in January 2005. We now reside in Northeast Philadelphia since February, and marriage is on the horizon!
We are no longer active in that chatroom, but, we still go to M&G's, although now they are thru sites like this! We are very happy together, and we love the swinging lifestyle. We were both swingers prior to getting together, and now, it is the most awesome enhancement to our already stimulating sex life!
We do hope to meet some of you wonderful people, so, if you want to chat, hit us here or on IM.
Thanks for the great topic, and have a great weekend!
Ron & Chrissy
P.S.: The pic is of us at the Philly M&G in October 2004. We were NOT a couple just yet!
I then hosted a Meet & Greet in Bensalem (Philadelphia), PA in October 2004. We had about 50 people attend, and Chrissy was there alone, and so was I. We went to a diner for breakfast after the M&G, and got chatty. After the party, we contacted one another daily thru IM, and that Thursday, we agreed to a date. I drove from Newark, NJ to Philadelphia to take her to a local bar, where there was Karaoke. She is an awesome singer! We stayed at the bar until closing, shared some intimate moments, and I took her home. I drove 70 miles back home, arriving at 4 a.m. I slept one hour, and went to work.
After work that Friday, I again drove down to her in Philly, and brought her back to Easton, PA, where I lived, and we attended a M&G in Allentown that Saturday. We let the group know we were a couple, and the rest is history. We have been together since, and Chrissy moved in with me in January 2005. We now reside in Northeast Philadelphia since February, and marriage is on the horizon!
We are no longer active in that chatroom, but, we still go to M&G's, although now they are thru sites like this! We are very happy together, and we love the swinging lifestyle. We were both swingers prior to getting together, and now, it is the most awesome enhancement to our already stimulating sex life!
We do hope to meet some of you wonderful people, so, if you want to chat, hit us here or on IM.
Thanks for the great topic, and have a great weekend!
Ron & Chrissy
P.S.: The pic is of us at the Philly M&G in October 2004. We were NOT a couple just yet!
We were high school sweethearts that eloped and married at 16 and 19....just had our 24th anny. and see a lifetime more in the future.
Hehe, We met on LDS Singles Online...HAHAHAHA
I had placed a personal ad on Yahoo, and had some strange encounters with some of the inquiries. One day he saw that I was online and he messaged me. We talked for about 2 weeks online before meeting. We decided to meet. I talked my friend into driving me to meet him(wanted to play it safe). Well, when he walked out of the house, I grabbed my friend's arm and told her that he was the one I was going to marry. She looked at me and said,"Nah, you'll just bone him and send him on his way!" Well to make a long story short that was almost 6 yrs ago and we've been married for almost 4.
I love you babe!
I love you babe!
He was a contractor Supervisor of our company and when his contract was finished we went out on our first date. It lasted four straight days.
Wow, that's awesome (and sounds very familiar)
We met while working at a power plant. I was the Human Resources Representative and he was a foreman. Behind his back (to the girls in the office) I would call him yummy every time he came in the office (he is pretty hot). We started dating about a month after he started working there.
About 4 months into our relationship we had to work what is called a shutdown. We were working 12 hours a day 7 days a week for 6 to 8 weeks.
About 4 weeks into the shut down he did not show up one night to work because he was physically drained (as most of us were)and he did not wake up until 4 to 5 hours into his shift. I had stopped by his place on my way to work and told him to get up and go to work and I left.
About 1/2 an hour after he was supose to be to work I said OH WELL and I fired him!
Needless to say we broke up for about a week and realized that we could not live without eachother and have been together every since.
About 4 months into our relationship we had to work what is called a shutdown. We were working 12 hours a day 7 days a week for 6 to 8 weeks.
About 4 weeks into the shut down he did not show up one night to work because he was physically drained (as most of us were)and he did not wake up until 4 to 5 hours into his shift. I had stopped by his place on my way to work and told him to get up and go to work and I left.
About 1/2 an hour after he was supose to be to work I said OH WELL and I fired him!
Needless to say we broke up for about a week and realized that we could not live without eachother and have been together every since.
I'm still searching for a mate for life. Where are the sweet, sexy, open-mided single females at?
MMMM where to start.... Sara was my waitress and it was kind of a challange for me... the guy i was having lunch with when i first met her, told me there is no way,,, she is married.. i told him to give me two weeks working the angles... by the time our lunch was finished i had her so flustered from flirting with her she served the table next to me a bananna split without the bananna....needless to say i won... what can i say im a typical male slut.. i used to pick on the married ones they were supposed to be safe from them getting attached.. well im glad this one got attached.....Dennis
Met on the old matchmaker.com when they still had a swingers section.
We were both married to other people...the swinging part did not work out for various reasons, but we decided to be friends anyway...we stayed that way for a couple of years. Just friends. Not much later we began to get to know one another much better. We fell in love despite our best intentions to remain true to our mates. We didnt cheat. We didnt lie, or sneak around on them. We just told them the truth. After a short time, we realized that the only real issue in our lives was that we were not together each day. We were making our ex's miserable, so it was time to change our lives to be together.
On July 18, 2001 we moved in together. Together we are stronger than apart. Together we have moved mountains and parted seas. We have been through hell and back for each other, and I know that if I were to go again, she would be there with me all over again.
Our ex's have both moved on, and even dated for a short time. They are both remarried (to different people), and very very happy. We are great friends with both of them, and see them frequently as we have children with them. Once a week we all have dinner together, drink a few beers, and talk about our kids. We are lucky that we can all get over the past and be close friends for our children. They (the kids) will only benefit from our bond as friends.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
We were both married to other people...the swinging part did not work out for various reasons, but we decided to be friends anyway...we stayed that way for a couple of years. Just friends. Not much later we began to get to know one another much better. We fell in love despite our best intentions to remain true to our mates. We didnt cheat. We didnt lie, or sneak around on them. We just told them the truth. After a short time, we realized that the only real issue in our lives was that we were not together each day. We were making our ex's miserable, so it was time to change our lives to be together.
On July 18, 2001 we moved in together. Together we are stronger than apart. Together we have moved mountains and parted seas. We have been through hell and back for each other, and I know that if I were to go again, she would be there with me all over again.
Our ex's have both moved on, and even dated for a short time. They are both remarried (to different people), and very very happy. We are great friends with both of them, and see them frequently as we have children with them. Once a week we all have dinner together, drink a few beers, and talk about our kids. We are lucky that we can all get over the past and be close friends for our children. They (the kids) will only benefit from our bond as friends.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
Like a hand full of people I have read about on here, we too met on the internet. She was browsing an online dating website where I had placed a personal (out of boredom from the typical meet and dating fashion) and I caught her eye; she emailed me (after her cousin tempted her to email cause I was
We met at Silver Glen Springs - he was a firefighter & had just been working the fires of '98 here in FL for 72 hrs. straight. He was taking a break (checking out the local "wildlife") & I was passing through on my way home. The minute we saw each other we knew - we haven't been apart since!
I was the finance manager and she took the job of part time receptionist while going to school. It was love at first sight, only problem was I was already married. Not many people happy with this situation, especially my soon to be X. I'll leave out all the fun details. Well now its going on 16 years of the most wonderful marriage two people can imagine.
Tim & I met back when AOL chatrooms were the "big thing" LOL A friend dragged me to a Meet & Greet where I seen Tim from across the room **Love at First Sight** That was in Jan of '95, we then eloped to Vegas on the 4th of July, in 1997. This is both our 3rd marriage, and BY FAR the best EVER!!!! We've never been so happy or so much in-love. We got into the lifestyle in Feb of 2000, and it just keeps getting better & better.
Tim & Lu
**Love at First Sight** That was in Jan of '95, we then eloped to Vegas on the 4th of July, in 1997. This is both our 3rd marriage, and BY FAR the best EVER!!!! We've never been so happy or so much in-love. We got into the lifestyle in Feb of 2000, and it just keeps getting better & better.Tim & Lu
Well Felicia & I met back in November of 2002. I was involved in a Saturday night bowling league. My team was going against a team known as "The Gutter Hookers". They were the best team in the league at that point. I met James, their team captian. Well, needless to say we took 3 out of 4 against them. During the second game however, I was up. I took my position on the lane and prepared for my approach when I heard a voice say; "Hey nice ass!". When I looked back, there was James and his daughter. I kept looking around and finished with my shot. When I came back to my table, she was there. James' daughter that is. Felicia had always came with her Father to bowling. That night, we're both thankful she did. We started dating on December 7th of 2002. We're now engaged and are expecting to get married sometime in '07. We've never been happier and more in love than we are now. Oh yeah, ever since that day. My bowling average has gone up... among other things that go up often.:n
D & F
D & F
Mrs. WD & i met in a bar ...she was 20 with her sisters fake ID and i was 22. we got in a beer (water) fight which was extremly beneficial seen that i could see through her wet shirt, after the fun we left, I asked her to come to my place which she quickly said no. so I gave her a kiss and she turned around and hopped on the back of some scotter with some guy she had never met....go figure that one out. called her back for a second date...she accepted. dated for 2 more years and then got married, that was 11 years and 3 kids later. Meeting her was the second best day of my life...the first was when i married her.
Love ya sweetpuss,
J
Love ya sweetpuss,
J
We met at a roller skating rink when I was 14 and he was 20...I asked him to skate a couples skate. We were married 9 months later and have been happily married for 25 years now.
I guess its a pretty funny story how the wife and i met. I was married at the time to my first wife. i had been working at a company for about three years when i found out my wife had been sleeping with one of my co-workers. I was in shock at first and went into a bit of a depression. after agout 2 months we decided to get a divorce. i also worked with someone else that was having problems with his wife at the time. I had met his wife a couple of times and even went to there wedding. They decided to get a divorce also. I had always found her to be very sexy but never said anything out of respect. After about 2 months of them being seperated we got hooked up by a friend to go to a dance together. Our first date lasted two and a half days and have been together since. It has been a running joke that we tell everyone that i was at both of her weddings LOL, but the second one was definently my favorite out of the two . we got married in vegas two years ago and have 2 buetiful kids together. I couldnt ask for more. Love you A (the mr.)
. we got married in vegas two years ago and have 2 buetiful kids together. I couldnt ask for more. Love you A (the mr.)Well.. I have always been curious about being with another woman, so I put an ad in AFF in October of 2004 searching for a girl. I was only on there for 3 days.. I kept getting messages from MEN with their propositions.
Luke was the one gentleman who stated he thought I was gorgeous and asked if I was strictly looking for woman only. ( I was married at the time in a very miserable marriage.) I replied only to him as his was not just some comeon for sex and that intrigued me.
We started seeing each other for over a year, during which time I was divorced (Aug 05) and we were married Feb 06. I have married my best friend, my lover, my soul mate, mylife, my everything.
and Mrs HUNT.. Your message brought tears to my eyes as I read exactly all the things I wanted to say...
As for me and another girl.. I have yet to truly experience that..
Maggi
Luke was the one gentleman who stated he thought I was gorgeous and asked if I was strictly looking for woman only. ( I was married at the time in a very miserable marriage.) I replied only to him as his was not just some comeon for sex and that intrigued me.
We started seeing each other for over a year, during which time I was divorced (Aug 05) and we were married Feb 06. I have married my best friend, my lover, my soul mate, mylife, my everything.
and Mrs HUNT.. Your message brought tears to my eyes as I read exactly all the things I wanted to say...
As for me and another girl.. I have yet to truly experience that..
Maggi
Met at work.. on the job... dated... married.
We have still been seeing each other on the job everyday since for the last 28 years and loving it.
We have still been seeing each other on the job everyday since for the last 28 years and loving it.
Kev and I met on match.com back in Nov 2003. I knew the moment I heard his voice he would be mine. My partner for life! After three weeks of chating back and forth over the phone and via email we met in person. (I was living in North Caronlina at the time and he in Florida.) The day I moved back to Florida we met downtown in a rain storm and love took over from there. We tied the not in January of this year. I look forward to many years of love, happiness, friendship, companionship, romance and whatever else life has to throw at us! I am the luckiest lady on earth!!!
:-) LY, Trac
:-) LY, Trac
I was dating her half-sister in the 9th grade (1982)... and 20+ years later, here we are!!!
we met in a restaurant
Well, back in our high school years, my (now) husband was chasing my best friend (she had reallly big boobies) the high school homecoming dance was coming up and my husband was going to ask my best friend, but at the last minute she got asked by somebody else, so I was his next choice (yeah, I was second best....lol) I always tease him bout that. He asked me to the dance, and we have been inseperatble ever since. That was almost 15 years ago. We graduated in May of 95 and got married in August 95! We have literally grown up together, he knows me better then anyone out there, we finish each other's sentences, and we are best buds! We were met to be with each other and being in the "lifestyle" has only added a deeper appreication for one another! I wouldnt wanna spend my life with anybody else...besides no one can put up with my shit the way he does. 
We met at Fuddruckers when we were 16. I was the cook she was the counter girl.. Everything started one night in that walk in freezer....
Together for 11 years, married for 7 years, two children and the best friend / lover you could ever ask for.
Together for 11 years, married for 7 years, two children and the best friend / lover you could ever ask for.
I married my dream girl, in 1984 i walked into the "flasndancer" gentlemans club on OBT Orlando Fla.
Pam was on main stage, 2 years and 2 re-finance's later i married her lol. And yes she does still dance for me, wooooohoooooo!
Pam was on main stage, 2 years and 2 re-finance's later i married her lol. And yes she does still dance for me, wooooohoooooo!
May i even say ty Don for allowing us to be here only to meet people and get laid often, gloriousley and by the people we choose whom choose us and as much as we can ty ty ty !
23 Yrs ago...at McDonald's.....lol....I was working crew job, he was working as an asst manager....
Seems like yesterday......wish I still had that body...lol
Michele
Seems like yesterday......wish I still had that body...lol
Michele
She was mgr of a convenience store and when i walked in she was bent over (at the waist) counting something.I thought she was someone else i had been teasing(i was still married at the time) (WHAT A MISTAKE).
SO when i walked in i saw her butt in the air in her bluejeans and said to myself" Now there is an ass i would love to stick my dick into"............OMG! She turned around and said "Anything is possible!" Redfaced i realized i had said it ALOUD!.....She laughed and said "Hi i am L" So i stumbly asked where "A"(the previous female mgr) was and L told me she had been transfered. L looked around and said" Now about sticking your dick in my ass......when and where?" 2 days later we went out for a "lunchbreak"
My marriage which was on the rocks allready was coming to an end quicker by the day.
So when the day of the BIG D came Land i moved in together and have been together ever since.
It has been the best 10 yrs of my life and am looking forward to more with her.
SO when i walked in i saw her butt in the air in her bluejeans and said to myself" Now there is an ass i would love to stick my dick into"............OMG! She turned around and said "Anything is possible!" Redfaced i realized i had said it ALOUD!.....She laughed and said "Hi i am L" So i stumbly asked where "A"(the previous female mgr) was and L told me she had been transfered. L looked around and said" Now about sticking your dick in my ass......when and where?" 2 days later we went out for a "lunchbreak"
My marriage which was on the rocks allready was coming to an end quicker by the day.
So when the day of the BIG D came Land i moved in together and have been together ever since.
It has been the best 10 yrs of my life and am looking forward to more with her.
We met online.
I was living in the south of England and Michelle in Kentucky.We were both widowed.
We chatted on the phone for a while,and she invited me over for a vacation over Christmas 1997.
I was here for 3 weeks and retrurned home.She then came to England for a couple of weeks some time later.
We decided to make a go of things so I closed my house up and moved obver to kentucky while the visa applications were underway.
I commuted between countries for a few months until the visa was approved.After getting married,I was not allowed to leave the USA until I got a green card.
The rest as they say is history.
I visit England at least 3 times a year to visit my son,daughter and 3 grandkids.
I was living in the south of England and Michelle in Kentucky.We were both widowed.
We chatted on the phone for a while,and she invited me over for a vacation over Christmas 1997.
I was here for 3 weeks and retrurned home.She then came to England for a couple of weeks some time later.
We decided to make a go of things so I closed my house up and moved obver to kentucky while the visa applications were underway.
I commuted between countries for a few months until the visa was approved.After getting married,I was not allowed to leave the USA until I got a green card.
The rest as they say is history.
I visit England at least 3 times a year to visit my son,daughter and 3 grandkids.
We met online thru swingular. I emailed her and asked what does one have to do to get her attention........and that was all she wrote and here we are now, not very exciting but it works for us so ummm thanks swingular *blush*
We meet the first time 8 years ago, through a mutual friend. I was very atracted to him but my friend put her claim on him and i got involved in another relationship. Six months later we were both single and he chased me for a while. we had a few moments but i didnt think i was ready for another relationship, so i kept puting him off. On night after a party he "kidnapped" me in his car and made me tell him what was up. After four hours of talking i decided to give it a chance. We have been together ever sence! We are to this day inseparable and more in love then ever befor!!! I cant imagine a beter person to spend my life with!? love ya babe 