Crossing our minds right up there with we people can't read. LOL Are the peeps that just look at and never once read a profile thoroughly. They search for the looks and then blow ya a kiss. or put you as a friend. The whole time they are both bi and want a bi couple and your profile plainly states that your a couple bi-fem. I don't know but it seems shallow as a puddle to just PIC SURF. Haaaaaaa Haaaaaaaaa WIPEOUT
tre and jessica
tre and jessica
We have had a couple of smooches sent from couples we hadn't met before, and we don't have a problem with that
, but haven't had anyone add us as friends before we exchanged a couple of emails, at least. Seems to be pretty presumptive on someone's part. Btw, we are grandmaw and grandpaw, but we'd like to send you kisses anyway You are a beautiful couple.
, but haven't had anyone add us as friends before we exchanged a couple of emails, at least. Seems to be pretty presumptive on someone's part. Btw, we are grandmaw and grandpaw, but we'd like to send you kisses anyway You are a beautiful couple.I think there are lots of snerts out there that just are looking for a body or a face. But, let's really be honest amongst friends - is anyone surprised that TREBANG gets lots of unintelligent mail! My goodness so attractive and sensual!
ty lizz but its funny how most people somehow forget how to read when they enter the site. And for all you single males we do do the single male on occasion but none of them we do that reply to our profile we find you. so as it goes we will have our people call your people LOL and Lizz you have alot more revealing pics than we do but i like em LOL
we find you. so as it goes we will have our people call your people LOL and Lizz you have alot more revealing pics than we do but i like em LOLI hate to be the one to tell you, it doesn't get any better. We've been on here for some time now and it's always been that way. A very high percentage of people on this type of site are simply picture surfing or are "thinking about swinging". They add you in hopes that you'll "return the favor". You'll never get used to it , but you will learn to live with it. As far as reading....thats a lost cause as well.
ty, Trebang for the compliments!
I suspect the snerts will always be snerts and the serious folks will always have to put up with them!
It's a sorry state of affairs, I suppose.
Trebang - I concur completely with your attitude about single males - I can find them when I need them. And, to be honest guys - there are a lot of you out there, and lots of you are very enticing! Be patient! Good things cum to those that wait!
I suspect the snerts will always be snerts and the serious folks will always have to put up with them!
It's a sorry state of affairs, I suppose.
Trebang - I concur completely with your attitude about single males - I can find them when I need them. And, to be honest guys - there are a lot of you out there, and lots of you are very enticing! Be patient! Good things cum to those that wait!
I dont mind if they surf. Just dont try and come hit on me. Look all you want...trebang is delicious
It astounds us that people wopuld just look at pictures and not the profiles...is that not part of this site to find ppl to have fun with?? Oh well....we always read the profile and to see if the person/people are a good match with us. We are loving this site...alredy we have potential pp to have fun with!!
We are happy to have people browse Sue's picture or add us as friends.
We are here to make contact with others and share after all.
We are here to make contact with others and share after all.
Here is one for ya......Has every one been seeing those ads , on swinger sites mind you, that say "We are looking for friends MAYBE more". Did they forget what site they were on. This isn't the place to be "wishy washy". If your here you need to be serious and not waisting serious swingers time. If your saying MAYBE you should take a little more time and be very sure that this is for you. Does anyone agree?
IS pic surfing the new rage or what. We have got a ton of replies just asking for more pics.If your collecting pics try elephantlist or something. WHAT GIVES
OH and Tre...we'll always look forward to seeing more pics of you guys
OH and Tre...we'll always look forward to seeing more pics of you guys I think what they mean by "friends and MAYBE more" is that they are looking for friends first and if everyone establishes a friendship and clicks sexually more will follow. I guess everyone is different when it comes to the lifestyle and some take it more slowly than others. Some require a strong friendship before playing, some don't. Some feel that they may establish a friendship but one of the people just doesn't click sexually with one or more of the others and that feeling needs to be respected by all.
When we first started we were in the mindset that we had to find "best friends" with benefits and quickly discovered that we don't necessairly need to be best of friends, we do need to like the other people though and feel that attitude and personality are very important to us. We've been fortunate enough to maintain a friendship with everyone we've played with and some that we haven't because one of the group just couldn't make it to that level but we still maintain contact with each other.
I guess what I hate the most is when you run across someone that thinks that just because you are in the lifestyle and on a swingers site you automatically have to lay down and spread for anyone that asks. Doesn't happen often but seems like we get more than our share of it.
When we first started we were in the mindset that we had to find "best friends" with benefits and quickly discovered that we don't necessairly need to be best of friends, we do need to like the other people though and feel that attitude and personality are very important to us. We've been fortunate enough to maintain a friendship with everyone we've played with and some that we haven't because one of the group just couldn't make it to that level but we still maintain contact with each other.
I guess what I hate the most is when you run across someone that thinks that just because you are in the lifestyle and on a swingers site you automatically have to lay down and spread for anyone that asks. Doesn't happen often but seems like we get more than our share of it.