Scott was familiar with the subject of swinging though not experienced, I had never heard of it. One day he started asking questions about my fantasies. Over the next several weeks we really had honest conversations about what we fantasized about and what turned us on. After that Scott found a local swingers club so we went to their social dance. It was not until then that I realized there were a lot of people (most, very normal) that also had similar interest in exploring their fantasies.
I would love to hear how others got started. Who brought it up? Did they bring it up because they had prior experience? How did you react?
I would love to hear how others got started. Who brought it up? Did they bring it up because they had prior experience? How did you react?
Oh boy... I get to tell this story a lot but it never gets dull... lol
How we came to be....
First you have to understand how we met...
I had been a widow for about 8 years, during which I began to get curious about ways to fulfill my own fantasies... being tied up, blindfolded and used by several diferrent people at one time just didn't sound very likely under normal dating circumstances. So, I began to surf the web for subjects relating to my desires and came across a few swinging sites... Instantly I became interested in learning more about swinging. I placed a few ads on web sites and waited to see what would happen. I began getting lots of replies and quickly learned that THIS lifestyle was for me. after a few years I gave up because i was just too nervous to go out and meet these people alone.
After a few years I was dating a normal guy and we were invited to a party together. At the party I was introduced to some friends of his (who were swingers, but I was not informed of this). They were very nice people and we became friends right away. The following weekend I threw a small dinner party at my house and invited them. The guy i was dating was not at this party due to his work schedule. The party eventually ended up in the hottub and soon we were all naked. Well, to make a long story short, they hit on me all night long! I kept brushing them off because the man I was dating was NOT into that sort of lifestyle. They took it very well and we remained good friends. A few weeks after my party, there was a party being thrown in the their honor at a local pub and we were invited to attend. We went to the party and had a great time. My date however, had to leave the party fairly early (another conflict with his job) and I decided to stay at the party for a while longer. That's when I noticed a VERY handsome but VERY young looking guy sitting across the room that seemed to be staring at me. He didn't look a day over 20 to me (a 10 year diference in our ages at least) so I began to wonder if my tag was sticking out or if I had frosting on my nose, or what! So I ran to the bathroom quickly to check. When I came back out my friends (the swinger couple) were standing next to my table WITH the handsome guy. I walked up and was quickly informed that this GORGEOUS man who had been staring at me was their son, Ryan. We were introduced and hit it off right away. We sat together all night long talking about everything. To make another long story short, within 2 weeks I had broken up with the guy i was dating and Ryan was moving in with me. 2 weeks after that we were engaged.
After several months and a lot of great times we were out on the boat one weekend at a place called passage key. This is a place where 50-100 boats anchor in 3' of water and wander around from boat to boat all day partying. We were sitting in the cockpit eating our lunch when we noticed a couple wandering our way. They came up to the boat and introduced themselves and we began talking and hanging out with them. After several bloody marys we all ended up in our cabin playing! I had never mentioned ever being in the lifestyle to Ryan before because I didn't think he would like it! But that night on the boat went very well! We had a blast! We woke up the next morning and Ryan asked me "What the hell do you call what we just did???" It was so cute. I told him that's what they call swinging and he then told me that he thought his parents were into that... that's when i got to tell him the story about his parents and the spa party i had... we both had quite a laugh!! Since then we began placing ads online and going to a few clubs and have been having a great time... I am soooo glad I found him. Now both our fantasies are quickly becoming reality!
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Aint he so cute ladies?
How we came to be....
First you have to understand how we met...
I had been a widow for about 8 years, during which I began to get curious about ways to fulfill my own fantasies... being tied up, blindfolded and used by several diferrent people at one time just didn't sound very likely under normal dating circumstances. So, I began to surf the web for subjects relating to my desires and came across a few swinging sites... Instantly I became interested in learning more about swinging. I placed a few ads on web sites and waited to see what would happen. I began getting lots of replies and quickly learned that THIS lifestyle was for me. after a few years I gave up because i was just too nervous to go out and meet these people alone.
After a few years I was dating a normal guy and we were invited to a party together. At the party I was introduced to some friends of his (who were swingers, but I was not informed of this). They were very nice people and we became friends right away. The following weekend I threw a small dinner party at my house and invited them. The guy i was dating was not at this party due to his work schedule. The party eventually ended up in the hottub and soon we were all naked. Well, to make a long story short, they hit on me all night long! I kept brushing them off because the man I was dating was NOT into that sort of lifestyle. They took it very well and we remained good friends. A few weeks after my party, there was a party being thrown in the their honor at a local pub and we were invited to attend. We went to the party and had a great time. My date however, had to leave the party fairly early (another conflict with his job) and I decided to stay at the party for a while longer. That's when I noticed a VERY handsome but VERY young looking guy sitting across the room that seemed to be staring at me. He didn't look a day over 20 to me (a 10 year diference in our ages at least) so I began to wonder if my tag was sticking out or if I had frosting on my nose, or what! So I ran to the bathroom quickly to check. When I came back out my friends (the swinger couple) were standing next to my table WITH the handsome guy. I walked up and was quickly informed that this GORGEOUS man who had been staring at me was their son, Ryan. We were introduced and hit it off right away. We sat together all night long talking about everything. To make another long story short, within 2 weeks I had broken up with the guy i was dating and Ryan was moving in with me. 2 weeks after that we were engaged.
After several months and a lot of great times we were out on the boat one weekend at a place called passage key. This is a place where 50-100 boats anchor in 3' of water and wander around from boat to boat all day partying. We were sitting in the cockpit eating our lunch when we noticed a couple wandering our way. They came up to the boat and introduced themselves and we began talking and hanging out with them. After several bloody marys we all ended up in our cabin playing! I had never mentioned ever being in the lifestyle to Ryan before because I didn't think he would like it! But that night on the boat went very well! We had a blast! We woke up the next morning and Ryan asked me "What the hell do you call what we just did???" It was so cute. I told him that's what they call swinging and he then told me that he thought his parents were into that... that's when i got to tell him the story about his parents and the spa party i had... we both had quite a laugh!! Since then we began placing ads online and going to a few clubs and have been having a great time... I am soooo glad I found him. Now both our fantasies are quickly becoming reality!
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Aint he so cute ladies?
After we went to a lifestyle cpls club in Germany ever since that night we were hooked
N&S
N&S
My hubby was interested in exploring his fantasy of being with 2 women in which I told him of my interest in having a 3some with 2 men. He started doing searches on the interent and came across some swingers sites and showed them to me. It took him so convincing to get me to agree to this, but I'm glad I decided to give it a shot...not entirely for the sexual experiences, but for the numerous friendships that we have made in the process!
XOXO
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XOXO
~~K~~
How we got int swinginh.... humm Linda & I got together and had been liveing together for several months when we were trading stories. Linda told me how she used to swing with her ex hubby who was a MD and his nurse. Her ex liked the nurse better but she found she loved to swing with others. We talked it over and decided to find couples in the area who wanted to swing. we went to local house parties and have not looked back since . We love each other very much and find that our sex life is much better since we started.
Jon & Linda
Jon & Linda
Well It Seems we all start somewhere so guess my story isn't that differant than alot of us.
I was 19 and in college at the time. One day I was in a local Video Shop and saw the Swingers magazines on the shelf. I thought to myself "what the heck, I'll try my luck!" Honestly, I felt it was all hype to get $6 from me. they are $8 and $10 now by the way With somewhat of a "i'll belive it when it happens" attitude I answered about 5 adds that where interesting to me and didnt say "no single men". Anyhow I wrote the letters put them all in a envolope with the $5 and stamps like the magazine asked and waited for a reply. It didn't take to long to get a responce from 4 of them but unfortunatly they all sent me a "no thank you" letter. About a week after that I finally got a reponse from the last couple I had written to. They had written asking me quite a few questions about me and what I liked and all that sort of thing to which I wrote them back a reply. directly this time though About 5 days latter I get a call from the man from the couple I had written to asking me if I would like to meet them over dinner sometime. We set up a meeting and it went very well. They where both attractive and in their 40's and we liked alot of the same kinds of things. Being new to all of this though I had assumed that something would happen right away if anything was going to. Wrong! I left that night thinking I was just not what they wanted after all or maybe they were uncomfortable with how much younger I was. The next day though I got a call from the man again asking me to meet with them again later that night at the same resturant, to which I ofcourse said "yes!" When I got there they weren't there yet and my first thought was "great stood up" about 5 or 10 minutes later though they showed up and we ate and talked some more. After dinner they told me they had been late because it had taken a bit longer that they planed to check into the motel they rented for us that night. You can say After that night I was hooked! we met many times after that, almost weekly for awhile. He would sit down in a chair JO and watch as she and I had sex most the time but sometimes he would come over to us and JO onto her while we did it too. For the frist few times we got together he would ask me after she and I where finished if I needed anything else. Being 19 and unworldly I always though he ment something to drink etc. On about our 5th meeting she told me in my ear while we were "together" that he was really wanting to know if he could "DO" anything for me when he asked that. That kinda floored me when she told me that but I got over it and actually kind of warmed up to the idea by the time she and I were through. So, when he asked me that time I ended up getting a Bj from him. We stayed together for along time 2 years almost until I had to transfer to a bigger college. I am happy I met them because they taught me so much about myself!
I was 19 and in college at the time. One day I was in a local Video Shop and saw the Swingers magazines on the shelf. I thought to myself "what the heck, I'll try my luck!" Honestly, I felt it was all hype to get $6 from me. they are $8 and $10 now by the way With somewhat of a "i'll belive it when it happens" attitude I answered about 5 adds that where interesting to me and didnt say "no single men". Anyhow I wrote the letters put them all in a envolope with the $5 and stamps like the magazine asked and waited for a reply. It didn't take to long to get a responce from 4 of them but unfortunatly they all sent me a "no thank you" letter. About a week after that I finally got a reponse from the last couple I had written to. They had written asking me quite a few questions about me and what I liked and all that sort of thing to which I wrote them back a reply. directly this time though About 5 days latter I get a call from the man from the couple I had written to asking me if I would like to meet them over dinner sometime. We set up a meeting and it went very well. They where both attractive and in their 40's and we liked alot of the same kinds of things. Being new to all of this though I had assumed that something would happen right away if anything was going to. Wrong! I left that night thinking I was just not what they wanted after all or maybe they were uncomfortable with how much younger I was. The next day though I got a call from the man again asking me to meet with them again later that night at the same resturant, to which I ofcourse said "yes!" When I got there they weren't there yet and my first thought was "great stood up" about 5 or 10 minutes later though they showed up and we ate and talked some more. After dinner they told me they had been late because it had taken a bit longer that they planed to check into the motel they rented for us that night. You can say After that night I was hooked! we met many times after that, almost weekly for awhile. He would sit down in a chair JO and watch as she and I had sex most the time but sometimes he would come over to us and JO onto her while we did it too. For the frist few times we got together he would ask me after she and I where finished if I needed anything else. Being 19 and unworldly I always though he ment something to drink etc. On about our 5th meeting she told me in my ear while we were "together" that he was really wanting to know if he could "DO" anything for me when he asked that. That kinda floored me when she told me that but I got over it and actually kind of warmed up to the idea by the time she and I were through. So, when he asked me that time I ended up getting a Bj from him. We stayed together for along time 2 years almost until I had to transfer to a bigger college. I am happy I met them because they taught me so much about myself!
While separated from my first wife, I hung out with a couple who were very active and always invited me to whatever activity they attended. We went waterskiing late one afternoon and I found myself out on the lake with them on a very dark night. As we made our way back to the marina we pulled into a cove for a final nightcap. Well everyone knows that you can't be out on a boat at night without a moonlight skinnydip. As I hung onto the ski platform enjoying my nakedness, I felt some smooth legs wrap around me from behind. Well needless to say the night was very long and satisfying. I had a couple of playtimes with them but then I met my current wife and didn't see much of them. After a few months my wife and I moved in together and I heard that this particular couple had split up. He started coming by and staying over when he had to much to drink. One particular evening he came over and my wife was already in bed watching TV. I told him he could stay but we were going to bed. He said that was fine and made himself a spot on the couch for the night. (in the next room) Well she was a little frisky that night and we started making love. She got a little loud and I reminded her of his presence. I think that turned her on more! After a while we heard him rustling on the couch. This turned her on even more. Our door was cracked and I whispered to her "I wonder if he is peeking in". Her reply was"tell him to come in if he wants to watch". I could not pass up this opportunity. I went and got him and he took a seat on a chair at the end of the bed. Well my wife surprised me. It wasn't five minutes and she had a dick in each hand alternating between blowjobs. This happened a few times, then he started bringing his new girlfriends over. My wife was always curious but this is where she made the transition to Bi! And she hasn't looked back. We took a break from the lifestyle for a while (dry spell) and recently invited a single male neighbor into the mix, with the promise that he has to share his girlfriends with us! We are hoping for a blue eyed brunette, but I have never seen this guy with a woman that was not attractive. We really would have preferred an established couple but we are having a blast and never was going next door for a cup of sugar so enjoyable for all. Swing On!
My Little Princess and I enjoy our sex life immensely. SO much so that we will do nearly anything to ensure the pleasure of the other. My desire was to see her immersed in the most intense sexual satisfaction and knowing how sensual she has become, being the center of attention of two caring individuals would bring her that intensity. We experimented with meeting single men and the few that were not total turn offs and we were actually able to connect with (Yes, we were even stood up by several single guys!) turned into the greatest of experiences. Since then we have found considerably more consistency and pleasure in meeting like minded couples instead of the single males, and have even had the good fortune of connecting with several single females! In each case, "connecting" is the optimum word here.
Hmmmm, where to begin. One night after the wife & I had finished having our fun 
, I rolled over & looked at her & asked "Would there be any chance of me having a 3some with you & another lady?" She replied "HELL NO!" I asked "Why not?", She said "I wouldn't feel comfortable", I was like "Ok NP, Just thought I would ask" & that was all that was ever said about it. We have always had a good Relationship between us so me asking that didn't even bother her. I could NEVER cheat on my wife becuase I love her way to much for that, & have myself been cheated on, that is another story how ever & would be willing to tell it if someone is interrested . Anyway, back to the story at hand. My Wife & I would go over to my best friends house, who is single, every weekend where we would meet up with a married couple friends of ours & either Play D&D (no we are not satanic) or Poker just which ever struck us. Well 2 Months or so after I had asked my wife that question, I guess she got to thinking about it ALOT. Cause one night after we got done playing cards over at my Friends house, our married Friends left & My wife & I were just sitting around shotting the shit with my best bud. When my wife just turned & looked at me with that "I want to Screw your brains out" Look & started kisses me & rubbing on me. I was like, WOW! She then, without saying a word, got off the couch she & I were setting on & walked over to my friend on the other couch & started undoing his shirt. Then Started Rubbing on his cock through his pants. I wish I had a camera cause it was like one of those Comercials on TV,
Price of a deck of Cards: $1
Money you lost playing Poker with those Cards: $20
The look on your face when your best friends wife Starts to foundle your man hood right in front of him: Price Less
My Wife got the pounding of a life time that night. About amonth later we informed our married friends what was going on & then that night They joined in
I have still yet to have my 3some with my wife & another lady dang it, & that was 3 Years ago.
, I rolled over & looked at her & asked "Would there be any chance of me having a 3some with you & another lady?" She replied "HELL NO!" I asked "Why not?", She said "I wouldn't feel comfortable", I was like "Ok NP, Just thought I would ask" & that was all that was ever said about it. We have always had a good Relationship between us so me asking that didn't even bother her. I could NEVER cheat on my wife becuase I love her way to much for that, & have myself been cheated on, that is another story how ever & would be willing to tell it if someone is interrested . Anyway, back to the story at hand. My Wife & I would go over to my best friends house, who is single, every weekend where we would meet up with a married couple friends of ours & either Play D&D (no we are not satanic) or Poker just which ever struck us. Well 2 Months or so after I had asked my wife that question, I guess she got to thinking about it ALOT. Cause one night after we got done playing cards over at my Friends house, our married Friends left & My wife & I were just sitting around shotting the shit with my best bud. When my wife just turned & looked at me with that "I want to Screw your brains out" Look & started kisses me & rubbing on me. I was like, WOW! She then, without saying a word, got off the couch she & I were setting on & walked over to my friend on the other couch & started undoing his shirt. Then Started Rubbing on his cock through his pants. I wish I had a camera cause it was like one of those Comercials on TV,Price of a deck of Cards: $1
Money you lost playing Poker with those Cards: $20
The look on your face when your best friends wife Starts to foundle your man hood right in front of him: Price Less
My Wife got the pounding of a life time that night. About amonth later we informed our married friends what was going on & then that night They joined in
I have still yet to have my 3some with my wife & another lady dang it, & that was 3 Years ago.
You know all of those annoying pop ups, well that is what started our fantasy. We joined the site and soon found ourselves swinging! Funny huh.
one eveing about eight years ago we were talking to a couple of friends and they wee talking about this club where they liked to go where the people were open and friendly and liked to have fun with clothes on or off. We have always been adventurous, and staunch nudist. Well as you figure one thing lead to another and we went there one night in southern CA and we had a blast. At first it was a place where Sheila could get some female attention that made her smile bet as time went on we actually both selected nights that we were going to do different things. SHeila is a well designed woman and on night had every woman in the place suck my cock before we went home and OH MY GOD what a night. So for her birthday she had what she wanted. Three women and one guys and everyone was well satisfied and sheila slept on the way home. Another grand night. The friends that we started with soon grew tired because they wanted to fuck and nothing more while the true swingers found friend and made life long relationships. We are better people because of our lifestyle.