When is it too early in a relationship to get involved the lifestyle together when both have acknowledged it's something they want?
Should there be a period of exclusivity?
At what "level" should it be taken a step further?
Should there be a period of exclusivity?
At what "level" should it be taken a step further?
I think you should at least wait until the honeymoon is over,,,,LOL
well if you have total trust in each other and i mean total trust where you know that if you are playing even in different rooms that your love is true and you will be going home together then i dont think its about time just talk to each other and find what you are looking for in the life style..
It comes down to personal comfort level. I have heard of couples that were swinging on their Honeymoon. However in those situations both had been swinging before.
There really is no set time or date because every couple is different. The differences include how well you communicate, how long you have known each other. Do you get jeolous when your partner is checking out others or do you both get into looking?
Take it slow and make sure you set your ground rules on how far things can go and where the limits are. The last thing you want is a miscommunication and a conversation that later starts off with "well I didn't know you were going to do that!"
Good luck
There really is no set time or date because every couple is different. The differences include how well you communicate, how long you have known each other. Do you get jeolous when your partner is checking out others or do you both get into looking?
Take it slow and make sure you set your ground rules on how far things can go and where the limits are. The last thing you want is a miscommunication and a conversation that later starts off with "well I didn't know you were going to do that!"
Good luck
Great question but there is no answer.
Remember the vast majority of couples will never be secure enough or comfortable enough with themselves and each other to even discuss swinging. Most of those that discuss it, one party or the other will discount it out of hand -- saying NO because of their fears. Fears such as a loss of respect or a loss of a love.
When a couple is secure enough and comfortable enough with each other to discuss it -- then they should talk about it. When they are secure enough to act upon the desire, then they should act.
But it must be both parties, anyone in swinging for a period of time has seen situations where both parties were not ready .... and that can be ugly.
So it doesn't matter if it is a week, a month, a year or even ten years. We have friends who had a swinging honeymoon. Perhaps not for everyone but no one who knows them doubts the depth of their mutual love, devotion and trust.
For us, it was Belinda's idea and it was about 9 months into our relationship.
Remember the vast majority of couples will never be secure enough or comfortable enough with themselves and each other to even discuss swinging. Most of those that discuss it, one party or the other will discount it out of hand -- saying NO because of their fears. Fears such as a loss of respect or a loss of a love.
When a couple is secure enough and comfortable enough with each other to discuss it -- then they should talk about it. When they are secure enough to act upon the desire, then they should act.
But it must be both parties, anyone in swinging for a period of time has seen situations where both parties were not ready .... and that can be ugly.
So it doesn't matter if it is a week, a month, a year or even ten years. We have friends who had a swinging honeymoon. Perhaps not for everyone but no one who knows them doubts the depth of their mutual love, devotion and trust.
For us, it was Belinda's idea and it was about 9 months into our relationship.