We have found that alot of people speak freely of other couples in the lifestyle. We have no problem with this, but we have found that if a couple is bad mouthed that alot of couples tend to stay away from that couple. If we went by everyone elses words we wouldnt know alot of the cool people we have met. What one person may interpert of one couple another may not. In such a small area and a risky lifestyle for many people this just does not seem right. This we believe is how alot of the cliques are started and stay together. That is our question to you all. Keep it real and never leave out that one couple they may be the right couple!!!!
Tnb_twinfalls
Tnb_twinfalls
I know what you are saying. I expect that we could easily fall into the "discussed and dismissed" group, but my wife and I have always been members of that illustrous group... The Goonies. Lol I'm one of those of whom people get frustrated over because they usually don't have a "box" ... a mental category, I neatly fit in. Lol We try not to do that to others and give them their chance to do it for themselves. Lol
Nice to know another who isn't a "box-er." Lol
Aj
Nice to know another who isn't a "box-er." Lol
Aj
Definitely not a box-er. We are aware that not everyone will connect. What we find sexy and attractive may not be that way to someone else. Plus we know folks tend to be critical. Maybe the couple spreading the negative stuff was the one responsible for things not working out. Any way we try to judge each person on their own merit based on OUR observations. I hated cliques in high school and don't care for them still.
Thank You everyone for your comments. We are glad to see that people still use the head and senses that god gave them instead of taking what everyone tells them...
There is no doubt that you can never really judge a book by its cover, and thank you to all those fine people who never judge our book cover !!! WHEW... As for the critics reviews??? Well we have never believed in them anyway. (Now dont get us wrong, sometimes the pretty pictures are alluring, they are supposed to be.. and comments that get made can raise a little concern in your mind...) But, we have learned that the best judgement about someone else is our own and thats where it should be kept.. to ourselves. We can't tell you the number of times we have heard the comment after meeting someone in person, "your not what we expected at all." Wheither that comment is intended to be good or bad... its wonderful to us... it means we are individuals and that we dont fit anyones mold. (Athough with age, we are getting a bit moldy). As the old saying goes.. one mans supper is another mans poison. So.. to conclude my little sermon here.. let me quote the wise little rabbit THUMPER from the Disney classic, BAMBI... when he made the prophetic statement.... "If you can't say anything nice about someone, then don't say anything at all.... "
MUAH everyone
Cyndi.. (and him)
MUAH everyone
Cyndi.. (and him)