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So far the Mrs and I have just done same room stuff while playing with others, but now we are thinking about the option to play with others separately - mostly me (Mr.) in the meantime since she is uber knocked up and can't have sex very comfortably for the next couple months. We still want to get to know each other and like to be friends outside of sex too, but we're curious who out there (we know there's plenty!) plays without each other. If interested, hit us up :)
We both are allowed to play solo, but it has to be a couple (we don't play with single males which it why it says couples) that we're comfortable with first and have played with together a few times before. It's a safety thing.
We have also been opening to playing separately. Also prefer a couple we know and feel comfortable with, and of course they feel comfortable with us as well. It is an amazing experience when you have the love and trust with each other to let this happen! Obviously it goes without saying finding a male, or male half of a couple that wants to play with the female is endless. It is a lot more difficult finding a single female, or female half of a couple that is willing to play separate. While it is occasionally found, it is not the norm. If anyone thinks we fit what your looking for, and are interested, send us a message. And of course couples are always welcome.
Here we both have hall passes but rarely use them too. If we are comfortable we will and have had fun with others separately. We prefer to play same room with others together, but we have done it separately, mainly when the Mr. has been out of town. Years ago our work schedules did not coincide and there was a guy that the Mrs. liked having sex with. It did not take long to where that guy was trying to get her to leave her marriage for him. When that happened she cut off contact from him real quick. We have complete trust in each other, keep each other sexually satisfied, communicate, and know that we are coming home to each other so we have not had any issues between us when we have had fun separately.
We both are open to playing separately, but prefer couples that we've met, trust, and played with together first to do that with. We typically turn down requests from couples who are ONLY looking for another girl, or single males.
We really enjoy play together as well but because of our schedules we also play solo !!! feel free to contact us .
I like to play with a couple or either if they like.. I'm very oral
so I can please both
We play solo as well. It seems to be a lot harder to find the perfect match for solo play. We would love to find a couple that we can hang out with outside the bedroom as well. Almost like a needle in a hay stack.
We play solo as well. It seems to be a lot harder to find the perfect match for solo play. We would love to find a couple that we can hang out with outside the bedroom as well. Almost like a needle in a hay stack.
PICK wrote:

Here we both have hall passes but rarely use them too. If we are comfortable we will and have had fun with others separately. We prefer to play same room with others together, but we have done it separately, mainly when the Mr. has been out of town. Years ago our work schedules did not coincide and there was a guy that the Mrs. liked having sex with. It did not take long to where that guy was trying to get her to leave her marriage for him. When that happened she cut off contact from him real quick. We have complete trust in each other, keep each other sexually satisfied, communicate, and know that we are coming home to each other so we have not had any issues between us when we have had fun separately.


ya that's precisely the purpose we are thinking we would only play with others without the other half around is if the other person is also in a committed, trusting relationship. So we can trust they also don't have ill-intentions, but it's just friends with benefits.
Anyone ever want to sort of go on a double date. We were thinking of something like go out for a few drinks, maybe some tapas then go to the temple (and this is where it REALLY gets kinky), SWAP spouses for the temple sesh and then like walk around in the Celestial Room holding hands with someone who isn't your spouse. Maybe whisper some dirty words in each other's ears and then head off to each other's houses and have, like, a pseudo-wedding night where you go all freaky on each other and have nasty monkey sex. Then get up the next morning, have coffee, maybe a Denver omelet and then meet to swap back to your regular spouses. C'mon, we can't be the ONLY ones with this fantasy.
EVILDOERS wrote:

Anyone ever want to sort of go on a double date. We were thinking of something like go out for a few drinks, maybe some tapas then go to the temple (and this is where it REALLY gets kinky), SWAP spouses for the temple sesh and then like walk around in the Celestial Room holding hands with someone who isn't your spouse. Maybe whisper some dirty words in each other's ears and then head off to each other's houses and have, like, a pseudo-wedding night where you go all freaky on each other and have nasty monkey sex. Then get up the next morning, have coffee, maybe a Denver omelet and then meet to swap back to your regular spouses. C'mon, we can't be the ONLY ones with this fantasy.


Depends, are we wearing g's during the crazy monkey sex? And does ice cream in a waffle cone after the temple sesh fit in this scenario?
DOUBLED03 wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

Anyone ever want to sort of go on a double date. We were thinking of something like go out for a few drinks, maybe some tapas then go to the temple (and this is where it REALLY gets kinky), SWAP spouses for the temple sesh and then like walk around in the Celestial Room holding hands with someone who isn't your spouse. Maybe whisper some dirty words in each other's ears and then head off to each other's houses and have, like, a pseudo-wedding night where you go all freaky on each other and have nasty monkey sex. Then get up the next morning, have coffee, maybe a Denver omelet and then meet to swap back to your regular spouses. C'mon, we can't be the ONLY ones with this fantasy.


Depends, are we wearing g's during the crazy monkey sex? And does ice cream in a waffle cone after the temple sesh fit in this scenario?


Of COURSE ice cream is involved! It's the only Church-approved foreplay. G's are optional. But it would be fun to have some remote controlled vibrating panties on underNEATH those G's in the temple.
EVILDOERS wrote:

DOUBLED03 wrote:

[quote=EVILDOERS]Anyone ever want to sort of go on a double date. We were thinking of something like go out for a few drinks, maybe some tapas then go to the temple (and this is where it REALLY gets kinky), SWAP spouses for the temple sesh and then like walk around in the Celestial Room holding hands with someone who isn't your spouse. Maybe whisper some dirty words in each other's ears and then head off to each other's houses and have, like, a pseudo-wedding night where you go all freaky on each other and have nasty monkey sex. Then get up the next morning, have coffee, maybe a Denver omelet and then meet to swap back to your regular spouses. C'mon, we can't be the ONLY ones with this fantasy.


Depends, are we wearing g's during the crazy monkey sex? And does ice cream in a waffle cone after the temple sesh fit in this scenario?


Of COURSE ice cream is involved! It's the only Church-approved foreplay. G's are optional. But it would be fun to have some remote controlled vibrating panties on underNEATH those G's in the temple. [/quote]

A remote controlled vibrator, that's a nice touch. Definitely feeling the spirit.
The couple thing is certainly an ideal, but the truth is that it is hard to get that elusive couple where both are interested in both of the others. So separate has been a great thing for us. Lets us each find or do what we enjoy without the chance of taking one for the team or feeling obligated to play with the other spouse just because our own spouse has an interest in one of them.

If you can handle it, this can be a tremendous amount of fun.

Naturally this will stand as an open invitation for people to reach out if they feel interested in chatting about experiences or making their open table request.
We are always looking for that elusive single female. Maybe this would be easier.
EVILDOERS wrote:

Anyone ever want to sort of go on a double date. We were thinking of something like go out for a few drinks, maybe some tapas then go to the temple (and this is where it REALLY gets kinky), SWAP spouses for the temple sesh and then like walk around in the Celestial Room holding hands with someone who isn't your spouse. Maybe whisper some dirty words in each other's ears and then head off to each other's houses and have, like, a pseudo-wedding night where you go all freaky on each other and have nasty monkey sex. Then get up the next morning, have coffee, maybe a Denver omelet and then meet to swap back to your regular spouses. C'mon, we can't be the ONLY ones with this fantasy.


we would be very interested! could you help us get a temple recommend? Especially interested in the coffee and Denver omelette!
We play separately, wife plays a lot more than husband because men are so much easier to find. Luckily for us he really likes it when she plays solo too.
EVILDOERS wrote:

DOUBLED03 wrote:

[quote=EVILDOERS]Anyone ever want to sort of go on a double date. We were thinking of something like go out for a few drinks, maybe some tapas then go to the temple (and this is where it REALLY gets kinky), SWAP spouses for the temple sesh and then like walk around in the Celestial Room holding hands with someone who isn't your spouse. Maybe whisper some dirty words in each other's ears and then head off to each other's houses and have, like, a pseudo-wedding night where you go all freaky on each other and have nasty monkey sex. Then get up the next morning, have coffee, maybe a Denver omelet and then meet to swap back to your regular spouses. C'mon, we can't be the ONLY ones with this fantasy.


Depends, are we wearing g's during the crazy monkey sex? And does ice cream in a waffle cone after the temple sesh fit in this scenario?


Of COURSE ice cream is involved! It's the only Church-approved foreplay. G's are optional. But it would be fun to have some remote controlled vibrating panties on underNEATH those G's in the temple. [/quote]

What about sex on the alter while in the temple and while others watch? It could be such a spiritual experience...and ice cream afterwards.