Hello! My wife and I are new to this lifestyle. We are both 27 and she is really attractive. We have a great relationship, married and best friends for 6 years, where we are VERY secure. For the past year I have been getting really turned on by the idea of her flirting and being sexual with other men and women. Just recently, she has opened up to the idea of exploring sexuality outside of our relationship. In fact, two weeks ago she basically had sex with another girl, which is beyond any fantasy I've ever had...and she liked it!
We are going to go to a night club for the first time this Friday, and although we will dance with each other, she is open to dancing with other other guys/girls, which I would love. In fact I get turned on by the idea of her going all the way with someone. Having little night club experience, I am concerned about how we can do this all SAFELY and have a really positive experience.
Is there any advice out there for us? What should we look out for (drugged drinks, STD's, one guy bringing his friends and beating me up before raping her, etc.)? Obviously, you can tell I have no clue. Also, how far should things be allowed to go with another person at the club? Just dancing? Making out? Sex in the bathroom? Bringing the extra person back to our hotel? Is it just whatever we are agreeably comfortable with?
Again, I just want to make sure we have a positive and exciting experience. Any response would be much appreciated!
We are going to go to a night club for the first time this Friday, and although we will dance with each other, she is open to dancing with other other guys/girls, which I would love. In fact I get turned on by the idea of her going all the way with someone. Having little night club experience, I am concerned about how we can do this all SAFELY and have a really positive experience.
Is there any advice out there for us? What should we look out for (drugged drinks, STD's, one guy bringing his friends and beating me up before raping her, etc.)? Obviously, you can tell I have no clue. Also, how far should things be allowed to go with another person at the club? Just dancing? Making out? Sex in the bathroom? Bringing the extra person back to our hotel? Is it just whatever we are agreeably comfortable with?
Again, I just want to make sure we have a positive and exciting experience. Any response would be much appreciated!
Well usually you and your significant other will discuss rules and boundaries and then you will let the other couple your going to meet with know what is ok and whats not ok and once both parties agree to it usually works out pretty great we are pretty new to this and we just make the rules clear to the other couple and it turns out pretty well
You may want to go to a meet and greet where you know there will be like-minded people. Get to know them well and select those she is interested in getting to know more. Orchard Events holds a meet and greet once a month. You just missed the most recent one last Saturday. A lot of fun. And a lot of sexy people.